we broke up b/c he was messing with other girls!! i tried to move on and then he says he loves me now and that he wasnt sure b-4 but is now!!! i need some suggestions!!!
2006-11-15 03:44:50 · 11 answers · asked by toni nicole 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Run! Don't return this ex's calls. He messed around with other girls before and probably will again if you get back together with him.
2006-11-15 03:47:19 · answer #1 · answered by Conscious-X 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't fall into that trap, girl! Whether or not he was confused before, he still cheated! Once a cheater, always a cheater is right! I think there are acceptions to every rule, but this guy doens't get those. He will hurt you even worse this second time around, because now he is telling you that he loves you...sounds like bull to me. He is messing with your head to get your back.
2006-11-15 11:47:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would proceed with precaution. First, cheating is a selfish act so beware. Why is he now declaring his love all of a sudden? Is this another selfish act b/c he can't bare to see you with someone else?
Some men are incapable of being faithful because they are self centered. I would ask myself a series of questions and honestly evaluate the situation before rendering my heart to a "Player" twice. He's already hurt you once.
2006-11-15 11:49:54 · answer #3 · answered by Wife~and~Mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the question is DO YOU LOVE HIM?
Remember:
Love is faithful
Love is kind
Love is humble, not easily angered
Love suffers long
Love is not puffed up
Love is not easily provoked
Love never fails
Love never envies
Love thinks no evil
Love does not rejoices in iniquity, but rejoices in truth
Go to 1 Corinthians 13:1-13
2006-11-15 11:59:51 · answer #4 · answered by long leggs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Or, if you're gonna do anything with him you make sure he PROMISES he wont cheat, and you have to be ready to break up with him if he does AT ALL. He could be telling the truth. Seems unlikely, but maybe he didn know what he'd got till it was gone.
2006-11-15 11:48:41 · answer #5 · answered by lady_s_hazy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheat, always a cheat. He'll just find some other excuse for his behavior next time, KEEP AWAY!
2006-11-15 11:47:31 · answer #6 · answered by firefly2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember why he is your ex. Lies, decite, etc, etc. If your lying or crying from the beginning, you'll be lying and crying for the rest of your life.
2006-11-15 11:48:21 · answer #7 · answered by Bob P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am going through this same situation. if you love him than trust him and ask god for direction. i think if he loves you he should show it..like taking you out and spending time with you....
2006-11-15 11:47:22 · answer #8 · answered by jolie t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would love to have a girlfriend like you to walk all over.....
2006-11-15 11:46:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need him! Move on.
2006-11-15 11:47:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋