There's a girl at work that I like alot but try to avoid because I know that getting to know her better will only cause me to fall in love with her and I certainly don't need that at work. The problem is she used to be really nice and sweet to me but since I have been more or less ignoring her she has become much closer to a person that she knows I dislike alot. They are always together at work and she is always laughing at everything he does regardless if it is funny or not. Unfortunelty it bothers me to see the two of them always together laughing and having a good time. Before when me and this coworker used to have arguements she would always side with me, but lately she has sided with him instead. I never wanted to like this girl but it turns out that I have strong feelings for her. Maybe she genuinely likes this guy but it seems to me she is just pushing my buttons because she knows I like her and can't stand seeing her with this guy.
2006-11-15 03:45:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop trying to avoid her and get into the laughin with the both of em.
If she likes u , u both will have a wonderful romance.
U too young and life is too short to avoid all this.
Romance at work...what difference does it make.
U live only once on this planet. Your job does not own u.
Be a human and not a robot.
Get closer to the gal before she thinks u dont like her.
If it all fails , remember there is 10 women for every man out there. So, dont get discouraged.
2006-11-15 03:53:00 · answer #1 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she wants to make you jealous. she knows that you dont get along with this guy and she sided with you now she doesnt and she laughs when its not necessary so Im sure she wants to make you jealous.
whats wrong with dating someone at work? I know you might think if it doesnt work out...but think again
Have you ever wondered which hurts the most?
Saying something and wishing you hadn't?, or
Saying nothing and wishing you had?
I guess the most important things are the hardest things to say.Don't be afraid to tell someone you love them.
If you do, they might break your heart...if you don't, you might break theirs.
Have u ever decided not 2 become a couple because you were so afraid of losing what you already had with that person? Or making a mess at work?
Too many of us stay walled up because we are too afraid to care too much...for fear that the other person does not care as much, or even at all.
Have you ever denied your feelings for someone because your fear of rejection was too hard to handle? Or your fear of what might happen after since you work together?
But every time we tell a lie, the thing we fear grows stronger.
Life is all about risks and it requires you to jump.
Don't be a person who has to look back and wonder what they would have done, or could have had.
* What would you do if every time you fell in love you had to say good-bye?
2006-11-15 11:58:41 · answer #2 · answered by ██████████ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is really no telling if getting to know her better would cause you to fall more deeply for her or not. She might have some annoying qualities that you don't see on the surface. Go ahead and get to know her. Don't let some other skunk take what you want! Love takes work, so get to it, sugar pie!
2006-11-15 11:52:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she thought the reason you started ignoring her was due to the fact you was not interested in her so she moved on.
maybe you should talk to her about this "If you feel you may trust her if not you might not wish to say anything due to your work place.
sounds like she did like you then you ignoring her may have lead her to think you did not see her in that way so she turned to the co-work you don't care for just to show you -yes more then likely you are right about that.
See I had a man do that to me once at our work place but I really thought he was not interested so I thought I was waisting my and his time so I stated date someone only he did not work at the same place .after I was engaged to be married , He told me he really liked me.But needless to say it was to late but we are still friends
2006-11-15 12:09:55 · answer #4 · answered by jc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might be trying to make you jealous. If you don't want to get involved with her, you really need to get over this. You can't say you don't want a relationship and then try to dictate what the girl is doing with someone else.
If you want her, go and get her, or stop obsessing over who she's spending her time with.
2006-11-15 11:55:59 · answer #5 · answered by Firespider 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you want to fall in love with her? I need to know this first before I can help you out.
2006-11-15 11:49:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont u go and try talking to her about it.
if she does like u then ur luck and if she doesnt then oops.
try talking to her it might help alot
2006-11-15 11:53:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
**** you are already falling for her so just suck up your pride and go sweep your lady off her feet
2006-11-15 11:54:41 · answer #8 · answered by kelly r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋