Two weeks ago my sister ask me to take her shopping for food becuase she didn't have any transportation n was all out of food. Now, she a recovering drug addict, bipolar, and she stay 15 mins from me and the rest of my family stay 45 min from us. Anyway I told her I would. So the next day came and I was so twisted up n so much crap that I forgot. She called me that falling evening and told me how hurt she was for not being there for her n I shoulda called her to let her know I wasn't going to make it. I felt so bad that I haven't talk to her since. I love my sister n I wanna let her know that I never ment to hurt her n wanna show her that she can count on me again. What do u think I can do heal this pain of ours?
2006-11-15 03:50:10 · 13 answers · asked by jayfrezzy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Easy, just explain to her what you have written here. Let her know how much she means to you and that you are there for support when she needs you. Inform her that it was a mistake and that you have been remiss at contacting her lately as you have felt embarrassed by this action. Family love each other unconditionally and your sister will forgive you. Communication is very important in any relationship and if your sister has the problems as you've listed then it is of utmost importance. After you've gave your apologies tell her to through he coat on as your taking her out to get them groceries. Good luck to you and your sis.
2006-11-15 03:56:17 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know sisters and brothers always fights for stupid things or any things it happened but that doesn't mean that they wont talk to each other again CZ no matter what they are still connected to each other they are sisters and brothers.
any way
she love i know that no sister hate her brother the whole idea that she is mad at you because you forget that's all which made her think that you don't care
but what you did wrong that you didn't fix this issue immediately that's what i blame for
no don't call her go to her and see her with a small present that she like and love the most with a flower we love these things trust me and tell her
hey sister are you still angry from me
look i didn't mean it , its just split out of my mind and i didn't mean to forget.
you know that i love you so and wouldn't do anything to hurt you in any single way you know i can be there for when ever you need me, and i promise you that wont happen again and invite her for a dinner and tell her may i hug my lovely sister in the whole world
one thing don't let her talk tell her just listen to me for and what do i have to say.
and trust me everything will be just fine just go and do what you have to do after all you are her brother and she is Ur sister and you only have each other
2006-11-15 12:05:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get her a gift card to a local Grocery store and a nice card. The extra money for food will help her and the card will make her feel that you really meant no harm....
Oh yea get the gift card if she is an addict she might just spend the cash on some junk.
Alex
2006-11-15 11:53:47 · answer #3 · answered by Osiris2067 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you let her down,and it hurt,your mistake! but you are sorry for it.......so don,t make two mistakes by not talking to her...Go to her house asap.,tell her that the day she called you were planning on taking her grocery shopping,but your day was so twisted that you simply forgot,tell her how sorry you are that you let her down,tell her you love her and will try to be there for her as much as you can,give her a hug.end of story,it will be ok
2006-11-15 12:07:17 · answer #4 · answered by slickcut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK U SHOULD FEEL BAD! She's recovering, and bipolar.
Man she needs u more than ever. I won't say you're a nice person, cause how could you forget her? Get to her now. Please think how important a sister is. U must know how important to her u r too! Go now, or call now.
2006-11-15 12:01:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just call her at tell her what happened! She will understand! Tell her that you are sorry and will be there for her if she needs you the next time!
Be honest with her! Don't ignore her!
2006-11-15 11:54:06 · answer #6 · answered by Bulla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you can maybe go buy her some food and take her out to eat and talk about your fillings if she has driver L ma be next time say you could take my car and call next time
2006-11-15 11:55:56 · answer #7 · answered by carebearblue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she'll fully understand that you're truly sorry for forgetting b/c she is bipolar. Just buy her groceries next time.
2006-11-15 11:53:01 · answer #8 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her or stop over and tell her what you told us - that you are deeply sorry and it won't happen again - as long as you mean it!
2006-11-15 11:53:23 · answer #9 · answered by me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go buy her food yourself. What you did was inconsiderate, but unintentional.
2006-11-15 11:52:37 · answer #10 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋