Last Week I told my crush that i liked him, and all he said was i'll think about it. This week he told other people that he thought i was pretty but as a friend. It crushed me a hole lot. Now my ex-boyfriend said in a happy voice, "HAHAHAHA he doesn't like you!" and now i am crying and feeling really bad. What should i do? Should i move on, or stay sitting down and feeling sorry for myself.
2006-11-15 03:41:37 · 20 answers · asked by munchy_101 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Of course move on!!! You deserve better than such guys!!! You just move on, and you will se how you will really find someone who will not only like you, but will love you....everything happens in the right time...but what i am certain of is: you deserve better!
2006-11-15 03:44:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely move on, however hard and impossible that may seem. Your crush was clearly not the right guy for you, so keep your mind open, someone will come along.
Also, for your ex-boyfriend, put some laxative in his food, that should shut him up.
Either way, it will pass, and you'll feel better, so no point in wasting the time for it to come slowly naturally. Maybe get a puppy hehe...
2006-11-15 11:46:27 · answer #2 · answered by Seb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those are the risks when you take when you express your feelings. Kids your age don't handle things maturely so things are a little harder at your age. The best thing you can do for yourself is move on. Why pine over someone who had no regard for your feelings by telling other people instead of you privately? He isnt worth it. But boys that age are going to act like that so you might as well get used to this kind of behaviour until you get out of school.
2006-11-15 11:46:44 · answer #3 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely move on. I see why the one guy is an "ex-". He's a jerk and immature. Be happy you aren't with that anymore.
That's why it's called a "crush". Because if it doesn't start up...you are "crushed". Best is to move on and find someone that wants to treat you right.
2006-11-15 11:46:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on! The fact that you even consider feeling sorry for yourself is a sad statement on your upbringing. Your parents must have taught you better than that. Regret is a wasted emotion. You can't change the past. Just accept it and get on with your life. The faster YOU move past the incident the faster everyone else will.
2006-11-15 11:44:15 · answer #5 · answered by Minuet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ive been there before, and i know from experience you definately need to move on. If he doesnt like you thats his loss. Trust me you will meet someone who does like you as more than a friend. I know its hard to get over people and its easier said than done but you only get one life, dont waste any of it being sad over a guy. Go out with some of your friends to a club this weekend and put your self out there let guys know you are sexy and single! Be happy to be single, there really are a lot of advantages.
2006-11-15 11:48:32 · answer #6 · answered by luvable6891 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl you are too young to be crying over a immature lil boy. There are plenty of guys out there. What you need to do is stop feeling sorry and just keep going. You will find the right one just stop rushing it. Enjoy the single life goout with your girlfriends and have a good time.
2006-11-15 11:45:00 · answer #7 · answered by homie_j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. This is NOT the end of the world. So what, he doesn't like you. Big deal. Too bad for him. It's his loss. But, at least you had the guts to find out for yourself, and go for it. That makes you one heck of a cool and brave chicka. Oh well, sucks to be him...and your ex- as you aren't with him anymore either. No big. You will find someone, and that someone will make both these guys look silly.
2006-11-15 11:44:27 · answer #8 · answered by nottashygirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on find a new guy and have a hell of a time with him
show both this crush and ur ex that u dont need them in ur life to have fun
2006-11-15 11:47:52 · answer #9 · answered by Hockey IS Life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is good that you let him know how u feel ..... but is ok him refused you right u guys still friends ....i don't know how old are you but i think that you still young right and u should move on because in thi whole world the right guys is wait for you a lot ... so don't need to worry about just move on and life a happy life
2006-11-15 11:46:40 · answer #10 · answered by CryAlone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋