Family & Relationships - 15 November 2006

2006-11-15 03:19:53 · 11 answers · asked by alex 1 in Singles & Dating

Most, not all, want the perfect woman physically but they don't seem to see their own shortcomings in the mirror?? Is it because it's all about the visual for men?

2006-11-15 03:18:48 · 30 answers · asked by COblonde 3 in Singles & Dating

A little over a year ago me and my husband had a rough time with some things and almost got divorced. We were seperated for a little over a month and then he came back saying that he wanted to work things out. He's in the military and it's hard to go day by day without some sort of rumor getting started. I admit that I done some things that I shouldn't have like for instance I spent a lot of money but I guess I was using the money as a crutch since I was so far away from my family. But I never did cheat on him. When he got back from Afghanistan that's when rumors started flying saying that I was messing around and I know exactly who started it. All that matters is that he came back and was willing to work things out. Now over a year later, he says that he can't get all of those things out of his head. I don't know what to do, I love him and I'm just wanting to save our marriage. Can someone give me some insite on what to do?

2006-11-15 03:18:33 · 14 answers · asked by brooke_herrin 1 in Marriage & Divorce

sHE HAS NEVER HAD A PROBLEM WHEN I DROP HER OFF AT DAY CARE HE HAS BEEN THERE FOR 4 YRS AND HE CRIES NOW FOR THE LAST 3-4 MONTHS

2006-11-15 03:18:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-15 03:17:14 · 7 answers · asked by lovelorn.romeo 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 03:16:52 · 19 answers · asked by citizen high 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-15 03:15:44 · 19 answers · asked by fee 1 in Family

My husband and I have been married for 6 years and we have 3 beautiful children. He is in the military and always deploys to iraq and every where else. My husband is my world my everything my life my salvation. Our children and my husband are the center of my heart. I feel I am a good wife and mother because I have never lied to him I tell him everything I have never cheated on him though he has cheated on me. I am always there for him when ever he needs me. I worry about him and I love him very deeply but he pushes me away. He say's that my love for him is sick because I love him too much. How can true love for my husband be too much for him. He act's like we are together 24/7. We are not. When we are at home he makes me feel like a queen but when we are in public and if I try to show any affection at all he pushes me away and makes me out to be a psycho crazy person, then when we get home oh go figure he is sorry. All I do is cry I am so hurt but still love him the same.WHY? i'm lost

2006-11-15 03:15:30 · 15 answers · asked by haynbabe808 1 in Marriage & Divorce

wel me and my boyf had been dating for about 3 months but it was long distnace and we got in sort of an argument and i brought it up becuas he was totaly not making an effort it seemed in the alst while we were together, always too busy. and he even forgot to call me on my birthday and i donno it seemed excuse after excuse i finally got super pissed off and tried to talk to him like calmly about it and said ididnt know if we could go out anymore, i wanted ot be his priority but i guess i was expecting too much. anyways after that fight he wouldnt speak to me...or answer his phone...does that mean he never reall liked me at all? i spoke with him recently and hes moved up north he says we couldnt be together anytime soon...bnut hed call me when heh comes down here to visit. how should i take this? did i ruin something with someone i really liked?

2006-11-15 03:15:15 · 7 answers · asked by krista22here 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend Ericia is only 16 years old and she is about to get married to a 28yr old man and i've tried to tell her that it's not gonna work ....What else should I do?

2006-11-15 03:12:22 · 20 answers · asked by sweetmama142003 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We have been dating for a while now and I was just wandering if its a bad thing that we want to have kids

2006-11-15 03:11:55 · 29 answers · asked by glitt002001 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

list if you are single, in a relationship, or married - how often do you "have special time" (my last version of this got removed for being dirty)

2006-11-15 03:11:37 · 19 answers · asked by ksmpmjoll 3 in Singles & Dating

I like this guy and I used to see him all the time but now i hardly see him because i don't stay in the college becaue 1st years bug me. Anyway, now i only see him in one lesson t wo times a week and that isn't good enough for me anymore. Anyway now he hangs out with this guy who i think is a complete and utter jerk. So I don't see him before lessons, because i get in late, I can't talk to after lessons because this other guy is always with him and during the lesson really isn't appropriate, or good enough. I know your supposed to try and build a relationship but how am i supposed to do that? Here are a few of my own ideas.
a) Give him a note. (Don't know what it should say.)
b) Give him a christmas card.
c) I'm in the process of making a really cool youtube video and I thought maybe I could give him the url address for it, and the youtube video would have a dedication to him at the end.

I know you would say just talk to him, but I was bullied heavily for the whole of school...

2006-11-15 03:11:25 · 12 answers · asked by Dreamer 4 in Singles & Dating

This is embarrasing...but could someone tell me how to give a good kiss? Im a freshman and I've never exactly given a "real kiss" even though I've had boyfriends...

2006-11-15 03:10:27 · 21 answers · asked by Sarah 2 in Singles & Dating

throw in the towel quicker? i have always thought of women as being fed so much c r a p about fairy tales as children and this fantasy of prince charming that they are quick to give up if it is not that.
also, i always thought women were better at going warm to cold. i always was amazed at when a woman breaks up with you they become this sheet of ice. was always sort of disenchanting and made me more jaded to the whole thing.
what are other peoples opinions on this and do you agree or disagree with my ideas?

2006-11-15 03:09:32 · 24 answers · asked by jeremy k 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I love my mom so much. She has struggled with her weight since I was a kid. She is now in her 50s and is 50lbs overweight. She does not exercise. She does not work, so hardly ever goes out of the house. I love her so much and want her to be healthy. She is married and I don't know what my dad thinks of her weight. He does take her out and appears to love her despite her weight. What should I do/say to encourage her to loose weight? We live over 300 milse apart, so I can't go over to her house.

2006-11-15 03:09:28 · 16 answers · asked by Cheyne 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay i'm 18 and my parents give me the your still under our roof line all the time, we got in a big fight they through me out i went to my friends and she has an extra room at dad's house who is really cool by the way, and i'd pay like $100-150 a month to live there, im home as of now but i'm still considering it for a next time what do you think i should do?

2006-11-15 03:09:00 · 6 answers · asked by genpattonwwii 2 in Friends

thouhg he dumped her as a girlfriend over 20 years ago. Since then , he has go out with at least 3 steady girlfriends including me. i lived with him for 6 years. She lives across the street and saw me living with my ex boyfriend for 6 years. During the 6 years, she was always in his face. Now that she is old and fat, he claims he does not want anything to do with her. Yet they still talk to each other. When we broke up last year in 2005, he has dated other women, but still sees me once and awhile,may once a week. He dated a 33 yrr old girl young enough to be his daughter, but he claims he dumped her becz she was wild and a hoe.Now he wants me back just for the sex. Should I still see him becz I am a young looking 54 year and I can get younger men(20s,30s,40s,50s) than my 63 ex boyfriend, I really do not need the aggravation of a three way love affair between myself,my old 63 exboyfriend, and his old 63yr exgirlfriend. It sort of ridicule. He is not going to get rid the old maid.

2006-11-15 03:08:17 · 15 answers · asked by gigi120pelham 1 in Singles & Dating

Mine would be in a bath full of melted chocolate and a gorgeous guy then have a nice long hot shower together followed by a night of long loving!So people what fantasy would you like to come true?

2006-11-15 03:08:09 · 21 answers · asked by jules 4 in Singles & Dating

While not coming on too strong

2006-11-15 03:07:50 · 3 answers · asked by S--slick 4 in Singles & Dating

im in iraq right now so i need some idaes on what to bring my girl back when i come home help me out ladies

2006-11-15 03:07:47 · 7 answers · asked by hamslice01 2 in Singles & Dating

Do you think it odd if a girl asked you to stay the night on a first date...NO SEX....Just sleep in the same bed and spoon? would you opt to go on a second date with her? Or think she was wierd?

2006-11-15 03:07:15 · 23 answers · asked by BooSha 3 in Singles & Dating

i was dating this guy for 3 mths then on nov. 2nd i texted him 2 see if he was @ work, he asked who it was and i told him tht it was me he then told me 2 stop texting him becuz he was now single...my prob. is tht i still like this guy and i might even love him my mother thinks tht i do cuz i told her tht when i'm with him i fell safe and when i'm n his arms i fell like no danger can harm, get 2 me...my mother then started 2 hold on 2 me cuz i started 2 cry my eyes out...she told me tht i am n luv w/ him?! i've knwn the guy 4 3 yrs. & he used 2 work w/ my mother. i want him back but i don't knw if i should or not so my question is do i get back 2gether w/ him or do i leave him alone?? (on sat. night last weekend he wanted 2 hang out w/ me does this mean tht he still loves me??) give me sme advice so tht i'll knw what 2 do the next time tht i see him...:(

2006-11-15 03:06:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Yesterday I was speaking my gf on the phone. She said she suddenly got some chest pain on her right chest. Now, it is probably just pain from overworking because she was working very hard. However, I mentioned about seeing a doctor just to be safe.

This is what she says: " No, I don't have it and even if I do, I don't wanna have my breast chopped off otherwise, you wouldn't be able to squeeze them or play with them! It would be a waste because I want you to have them
To be honest, I was so turned on by that comment but I should ask her to see a doctor about the pain anyway.
Man, I love her more and more!! What do you think?

2006-11-15 03:05:47 · 11 answers · asked by Webballs 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

My fiances' parents accused me of stealing money from him. He had money in his room that is now not there. I didnt take it and he said he knew i didn't take it but his parents told him to ask me so he did and he said he asked to prove them wrong. I got so upset though because I couldn't believe his parents actually would think I would do such a thing. Is it wrong to be so upset?

2006-11-15 03:05:43 · 11 answers · asked by Meg 1 in Family

2006-11-15 03:05:33 · 19 answers · asked by Mr. Sky 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-15 03:05:28 · 6 answers · asked by mtv_luver87 2 in Singles & Dating

the question is is it disrespectful to fool around at her house??? i mean i have met this guy and we really is into each other and me being at her house is it wrong to have sex with him or spend any other time with him at her house? even though i do pay her 200.00 a month and buy household supplies... what should i do? get a room or be comfortable where i am paying at?

2006-11-15 03:03:32 · 16 answers · asked by momo6a4ever 1 in Singles & Dating

I like this girl. She was in my class last year and knows that i like her. I can't get over her. Then there is this other girl who talks to me a lot more and who is a really good friend of mine. I am starting to fall for both of them and i don't know what to do. Which one should i ask out? I am losing my mind just thinking about the first one, but the other is a friend and i feel like i am going to do something stupid like ask one of them out without thinking!! Please help!!!!

2006-11-15 03:03:29 · 6 answers · asked by Maverick 2 in Singles & Dating

or is it just a line to get something else out of knowing him. like other friends or him for that matter.

this doesn't apply to "break up friends".

2006-11-15 03:03:19 · 11 answers · asked by Angry Insightful Black 3 in Singles & Dating