the question is is it disrespectful to fool around at her house??? i mean i have met this guy and we really is into each other and me being at her house is it wrong to have sex with him or spend any other time with him at her house? even though i do pay her 200.00 a month and buy household supplies... what should i do? get a room or be comfortable where i am paying at?
2006-11-15 03:03:32 · 16 answers · asked by momo6a4ever 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh dear. If you have a seperate bedroom and provided you are discreet you can spend time with him. I would suggest though that you ask your girlfreind (since she's paying the bulk of the rent) what the conditions are on gentlemen callers.
2006-11-15 03:09:36 · answer #1 · answered by Mighty Sasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this a girl friend or a girlfriend? If it is someone with whom you are romantically involved, it is very disrespectful and you should move out. If it is a friend and there is no romantic link, you should ask your roomate how she feels. Unless you are truly splitting living costs, you can't treat the place as your own. Although, I don't think there's anything wrong with the occasional hook up if done discreetly.
2006-11-15 03:08:23 · answer #2 · answered by Tara P 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people don't listen even when they read, noticing some answers. Ask ur friend, best bet, or be spontanious and do it someplace unconventional the first time. My fondest memory is in the caboose of a parked train in my younger days.
2006-11-15 03:13:44 · answer #3 · answered by NIGHTSHADE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have your own room? does she have children? I think you should ask her first, because it's not our home. It would be disrespectful to assume and go ahead and do the do. She at least deserves a heads up. Talk to her, I'm sure she doesn't want to stand in the way of your groove!
2006-11-15 03:07:01 · answer #4 · answered by shondak 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think some of us are misunderstanding your question. is she your girlfriend or are both of you sharing the apartment because you are friends? if you're just friends, why not go to the guys house? most roommates don't want someone carrying on in their place.
2006-11-15 03:12:48 · answer #5 · answered by Texas T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a tramp at a girl friend's house who has been kind to you is direspectful of the friendship.
2006-11-15 03:08:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait are you a guy or a girl? If you are a girl then as long as you are being discrete I don't think its a problem.
2006-11-15 03:08:32 · answer #7 · answered by eh_chicky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And they wonder why the world is going to hell.With idiots who have no clue in this kind of situation it is no wonder.
2006-11-15 03:09:04 · answer #8 · answered by david s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are paying rent.THE GOOD THING ABOUT YOUR QUESTION IS THAT YOU SEEM TO BE WELL MANNERED.IF YOU CAN AFFORD IT GET A ROOM.HOW COME HE DOESN'T HAVE A PLACE OF HIS OWN?GET INTO IT WITH SOMEONE WHO IS GOING SOMEWHERE IN LIFE.
2006-11-15 03:09:54 · answer #9 · answered by miraclehand2020 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too Freaky for me. Why don't you try a hetrosexual relationship?
2006-11-15 03:06:33 · answer #10 · answered by Bob P 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋