i was dating this guy for 3 mths then on nov. 2nd i texted him 2 see if he was @ work, he asked who it was and i told him tht it was me he then told me 2 stop texting him becuz he was now single...my prob. is tht i still like this guy and i might even love him my mother thinks tht i do cuz i told her tht when i'm with him i fell safe and when i'm n his arms i fell like no danger can harm, get 2 me...my mother then started 2 hold on 2 me cuz i started 2 cry my eyes out...she told me tht i am n luv w/ him?! i've knwn the guy 4 3 yrs. & he used 2 work w/ my mother. i want him back but i don't knw if i should or not so my question is do i get back 2gether w/ him or do i leave him alone?? (on sat. night last weekend he wanted 2 hang out w/ me does this mean tht he still loves me??) give me sme advice so tht i'll knw what 2 do the next time tht i see him...:(
2006-11-15 03:06:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No one should be treated as disrespectfully as that ... With a TEXT msg? Saying he was now single?. He sounds colossally immature and doesn't know what he wants or what he had with you. The way you are feeling now will subside and new and more exciting things will come to you. If he loves you, he will find you and be all that he should be and more, but he is not going to do it while you sit there and wait on him, allowing him to treat you like a part time pal/gf. Move on, make your own decisions and stop letting someone like that control your heart, head and choices!! This too shall pass my dear! :)
Good luck and thinking of you!
2006-11-15 03:17:01 · answer #1 · answered by ivy9toes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds like he might still care for you, but if he is going to do you that way then I think you would be better off without him. But your heart is the only one that can tell you for sure. Just follow its advice and all will workout for the best.
2006-11-15 03:10:18 · answer #2 · answered by Smoke Eater 512 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHOA ! ! you maybe be pushing the "damn she is nuts"... 3 months is just what it is, 3 MONTHS...... yea its possible to fall in love in 3 minutes... but it may sound cruel or cold.. But get over it.. Nothin is invested, nothing lost... cry for a couple of days, dwell on it and find another, or just spend sometime alone.... You act like the guy had fire works shooting out of his zipper... trust me, someone else is ready to blow your mind even harder...
2006-11-15 03:16:05 · answer #3 · answered by bru69w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If things are over between you two, there is no reason why you should see him. Let him go, and take the time you need to heal. Seeing him will only prolong the pain.
2006-11-15 03:11:25 · answer #4 · answered by M.A.X. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that guys a jerk....if your gonna break up with someone dont do it like an idiot
and if he wants to hang out it might be to get back together or it might be to hurt you even more cause hes a jerk
i think you should just try to forget about him
2006-11-15 03:10:43 · answer #5 · answered by divided skye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on with your life and find another guy! he is not worth it!! he broke your heart once and he will break it again. can't you see what a loser he is from the way he broke up with you? another respectful guy would have told you face to face that the relationship is over, or better he would have discussed it with you first.
2006-11-15 03:11:34 · answer #6 · answered by trushka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like this guy was just using you when he had nothing better to do. Trust me, you deserve better. Be strong and move on---it's not always easy, but you will feel better about yourself in the long run.
2006-11-15 03:10:24 · answer #7 · answered by hiphop 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over it anohter guy will come not like you dated him for years or something!
2006-11-15 03:08:34 · answer #8 · answered by Ms.Budonkadonk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow..........this guys a jerk........."stop texting me im single now"......what an ahole........find another guy to keep you safe.......you deserve someone who loves you back......
2006-11-15 03:10:33 · answer #9 · answered by SpinKick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leaqve him and look for another
2006-11-15 03:23:33 · answer #10 · answered by El_Jee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋