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Do you think it odd if a girl asked you to stay the night on a first date...NO SEX....Just sleep in the same bed and spoon? would you opt to go on a second date with her? Or think she was wierd?

2006-11-15 03:07:15 · 23 answers · asked by BooSha 3 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

23 answers

Personally, I don't see what the rush to have sex is all about. I think trusting someone enough to fall asleep next to them is more intimate then actually having sex. So I think it would be perfectly fine and I would ask them out several times. Now if only I could find that woman.

2006-11-15 03:20:50 · answer #1 · answered by Fugita 2 · 0 0

I would opt out for the spooning (by that, NO sleep over at all), but go on a second date

2006-11-15 11:08:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I would never do that because if that is are first date, then the question would arise if she does that with me how many other has she done this with, and how would i know if she did more than spoon with everyone else. Sometimes you have to think and ask yourself is spending the rest of your life with some disease worth two hours of sex.

2006-11-15 11:14:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anointed 2 · 0 0

Odd? No. Second date? Absolutely. Would I think she's weird? No. Lying next to someone, holding each other, feeling their breath on your neck is a very comforting feeling. I would think she's weird if she came across as someone who obviously wanted to have sex, and then at the last minute said, "I just want to cuddle". If the intention was not to have sex in the first place, then it's wonderful.

2006-11-15 11:23:17 · answer #4 · answered by 2 cents 2 · 0 0

As a matter of fact, that Ist date will be terminated with immediate effect. There won't be anything like a 2nd date anymore. Of course, such a gurl's more than being wierd!!!. I hope you're NOT the gurl in question, in any way (lol).

2006-11-15 11:23:28 · answer #5 · answered by mykemejeje 5 · 0 0

so let me get this strait... i won't have sex... but i get to hold a cute girl all night long and sleep in a comfy bed that is probably loaded with her pheromones... i would have no problem with that. if she's comfortable doing that, then i would think that pretty soon she'd feel comfortable enough to want more than that :)

2006-11-15 11:36:37 · answer #6 · answered by kiss my wookie! 5 · 0 0

It is harmless and I have no prob with it. I even offer the girl the option ( especially at night, when driving is a little difficult) I always get a yes

2006-11-15 11:11:01 · answer #7 · answered by Joe P 2 · 0 0

Yes

2006-11-15 11:18:52 · answer #8 · answered by flashpro 5 · 0 0

I would think she was wierd, but would probably go on another date in hopes of making back to her bedroom again.

2006-11-15 11:13:31 · answer #9 · answered by Jeremy B 2 · 0 0

Well, for one, I'm not into girls, but I will say that cuddling is the BEST! I wish more guys were like this. Yes, it's ok to experience human touch and warmth without having intercourse. You're doing what comes natural -- reaching out. Don 't lose that.

2006-11-15 11:14:05 · answer #10 · answered by ForgottenSpectrum 2 · 0 1

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