His Parents accused me of stealing from him.?

Question

My fiances' parents accused me of stealing money from him. He had money in his room that is now not there. I didnt take it and he said he knew i didn't take it but his parents told him to ask me so he did and he said he asked to prove them wrong. I got so upset though because I couldn't believe his parents actually would think I would do such a thing. Is it wrong to be so upset?

Answer 1

Yes, you have a right to be upset. Your fiance is a mama's boy. Poor baby?

And I wonder, how much do they accuse you of stealing? I would consider it beneath my dignity to be accused of stealing anything less than $10000!!!

If more than that has been lost, he should ask you ( that's some serious cash, but if they are accusing you of stealing $50, they are really cheap. I mean, if I lost 10 grand, I would get my dog x-rayed to make sure he hasn't swallowed it. Let alone asking my fiancee.) . But even if he does ask you, it should not imply assumed misdeedson your part.

How did he phrase it? Did he ask if you "SAW" the money? Or did he ask if you "TOOK" it? In any case, if he said his parents accused you of stealing, they really suck. Chances are that they stole it themselves to put the blame on you. Check your bags and luggage carefully, you don't want to be caught with "planted evidence".

I hope,if you guys are marrying, you are going to stay far far away from them.

Answer 2

I think it is horrible that they would accuse you like that. They must have some kind of trust issues whether it is with you or your BF, only they know.

It is not wrong for you to be upset. they accused you of doing something you didn't do. Of course you will be angry, any one would. And your BF needs to understand that it is normal to be upset when accused of doing something you didn't do.

Also remember the old saying - blood is thicker than water. So be careful.

Answer 3

If you did not take it why would you be upset, this is a normal reaction on any ones part to ask who ever was in the room last or just have been in there, a simple no would do. and as you see your fiance is not made nor does he think you took it but it's a natural to ask. i would even ask my husband or anyone that was in the house it's a normal reaction . you are putting way to much focus on the matter. it will make you look suspect so chill and let the truth come forth.

Answer 4

No it's normal to feel upset. This is the person who will soon be your husband, the person whom you will soon share everything (including money) with. Why would you steal from him when that's almost like stealing from yourself? And if your parents-in-law are accusing, there are deaper issues there that need o be discussed. (Does his parents not like you?)

Answer 5

That means they do not trust you. This is terrible to accuse wtihout evidence.

There is a way to find the truth without being so confrontatory

Answer 6

I would be upset to.
Let it go and see how his parents treat you. If they think so little of you and think you may have stolen your boyfriends money there is a trust issue going on.
Best of Luck

Answer 7

I'd be all upset if someone falsely accused me of something I didn't do. I'd demand an apology from them.

Answer 8

no you should be upset because if they trusted you they would not have made him ask you and if he loved you he would have told them to keep out of it and that he knew you did not take it

Answer 9

Yes! You have every right to be upset! Just who do they think they are? That was very disrespectful to their son and to you

Answer 10

Better to find out that your In-laws suck before you get married. You and your boyfriend need to resolve this before you get married.