What should I do?

Question

I like this guy and I used to see him all the time but now i hardly see him because i don't stay in the college becaue 1st years bug me. Anyway, now i only see him in one lesson t wo times a week and that isn't good enough for me anymore. Anyway now he hangs out with this guy who i think is a complete and utter jerk. So I don't see him before lessons, because i get in late, I can't talk to after lessons because this other guy is always with him and during the lesson really isn't appropriate, or good enough. I know your supposed to try and build a relationship but how am i supposed to do that? Here are a few of my own ideas.
a) Give him a note. (Don't know what it should say.)
b) Give him a christmas card.
c) I'm in the process of making a really cool youtube video and I thought maybe I could give him the url address for it, and the youtube video would have a dedication to him at the end.

I know you would say just talk to him, but I was bullied heavily for the whole of school...

and I sent a guy a christmas card. Anyway I waited for ages for him to talk to me. Then his freind who was a mean bully made fun of me for the rest of the year. And I have trouble speaking to people. This whole thing is making me completley miserable becasue I can't do the one thing I want to do.

Oh he's not a jerk. i've talked to him.

Answer 1

Whenever you are interested in someone, the coolest thing to do is to try by all means to get to know them better. You can only do that:
1) if you pluck up your courage and go to him confidently and ask to speak to him in private;
2)invite him to join you for a bite to eat and a drink;
3)give hime a chance if he makes a bad first impression; and
4)let him open to you slowly and make sure you are not forcing yourself upon him.
I would advise you not to make the "youtube" video as this area is viewed by many and you never know how this would be received by your main man. Try to win him by being your natural self and not by being so desperate.

Answer 2

Try to make eye contact with him at least once while in class. If both of your eyes meet at least twice during the class session, you got him looking...then sit a little closer... then ask him a random question about something in class...after that , slip him your number and hope for the best....if that doesn't work, forget him 'cause there are other guys out there.

Answer 3

grow up and stay in school and stop worrying about boys who are not even interested in you, if he was he would find the time remember what happen with the Xmas card. stop trying when the time is right the right guy will come along keep up with your lessons and let the rest happen with time

Answer 4

Well have you thought of his email? cell phone? Just ask him to come and meet you somewhere in a text message or email! Another thing is try and get along with his freinds and figure out what he likes... If someone hated your friend but wanted to go out with you would you like them... not likely!

Answer 5

He is probably a jerk like his friend. I think your trying to hard to get his attention. Move on to the next one your young and in college for god sakes!!!

Answer 6

If he doesn't pay any attention to you, then maybe he isn't interested. Just be nice, be yourself and BE PATIENT. He may not have any interest in you, so you may be wasting your time.

Do not do A, B or C....they all sound way to juvenile!

Answer 7

find his number and text him, find his e-mail addy and mail him, find his brother or sister and ask them to pass a message ... then take some self-confidence lessons and deal with the jerk he hangs around with

Answer 8

Did you breathe at all when writing this?

Go, on pluck up the courage and speak to him..if not just give him a piece of paper with your number on it. you never know!

Answer 9

become a friend of his friend , even though he's a jerk, that is gonna help you , and don't be late .

Answer 10

catch his eye give him a wink , if he smiles your in , good luck