we broke up 2months ago. since we have spoken n he clearly told me he hates me n stuff. but the other day my friend told me that he is under a misunderstanding. thus i wrote him an email like four days ago to clear the misunderstanding - but he hasnt replied. how do i show him that i care and i am the one for him...
2006-11-15 04:24:28 · 10 answers · asked by apple 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Break ups happen for a reason, and sometimes when a misunderstanding happens it can tarnish our views of things. He may have seen that you wrote him the email and never read it, if he hates you. Sometimes the best thing to do is just give someone some time, some space...let them get over whatever it was that caused them to hate you in the first place. One thing, you don't get to decide that you are the one for him, that's his decision. While you may feel that he is the one for you, that doesn't necessarily go both ways, and you can't force someone to realize that fact. If you really are the one for him, he'll realize it on his own. The best thing would be to give him space, maybe he'll realize that you're the one and come back to you.
2006-11-15 04:28:29 · answer #1 · answered by bettedaviseyes79 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't. If one of you broke it off then the other must accept it. Pleading and begging and nagging will only make the situation worse. Sure this hard to deal with, don't think that the other party isn't dealing with the same pain, but they have just accepted it and moved on. It's time you do so as well. Good luck.
2006-11-15 12:26:38 · answer #2 · answered by overmind78 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't torment yourself even more. This guy isn't for you, but you at this time are too blind to see it. You need to look elsewhere for Mr. Right!
2006-11-15 12:28:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he hasn't responded to your e-mail, then he has made his decision. I'm sorry to say, that decision doesn't include you. It's time for you to move on with your life.
2006-11-15 12:27:23 · answer #4 · answered by c.s. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he needs you to explain yourself after he's read your email, he'll call, and so you know he still cares a bit. only time will tell.
2006-11-15 12:39:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look, you broke up. move on. he hasnt replied because he doesnt want to get back together.
and who are you to say you are the only one for him. thats HIS decision to make.
2006-11-15 12:26:34 · answer #6 · answered by mickey g 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why is he mad at you? that could be the important key to answering this question. If he cared he would have responded.
2006-11-15 12:26:45 · answer #7 · answered by Mel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's no longer interested in you-so obviously you are not the one for him. Move on.
2006-11-15 12:26:45 · answer #8 · answered by blonde_bitch_norris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just forget it and move on ! past is past and does no good to rectify anything !
2006-11-15 12:28:19 · answer #9 · answered by silverearth1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too late now.
2006-11-15 12:25:56 · answer #10 · answered by Saint 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋