I have been dating this guy for the last 2 months(since my 3 year breakup with my ex) he is very nice to me, but we have very little in common, I am about to be a college graduate with a very nice job and degree, I also am very classy and conservative, this guy really has no idea what he he wants to do in life and works an average job, he will like to friends with benfits as long as he can and don't take me out much. I recently ran into a guy I met in my earlier college years, he is about to graduate. We have alot in common such as career, goals, family vaules and hobbies. He really wants to date me and has had a crush on me for years. I can't date both guys at the same time because some one will get hurt! What should I do?
2006-11-15 02:42:15 · 13 answers · asked by female83 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go with your heart, it sounds like the second one has more of the same life style as you do, go for him.
2006-11-15 02:44:44 · answer #1 · answered by Grandma of six 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can date both guys as long as there is no "exclusive" label with either of them. The "relationship" that you are in now doesn't seem like it is very serious or would wind up being anything long term so if you do decide to go with the other guy I don't think the guy your with now would be too disappointed and if the new guy doesn't work out there is no previous relationship to speak of so nothing loss- its a simple "I don't think were meant to be" deals... good luck!
2006-11-15 10:47:19 · answer #2 · answered by bree_1384 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are very young, so it is best to date both of them and see which one makes u happier.
Tell both u do not want to get tied down but will go out with em.
Which ever makes u feel more comfortable , then he may be the right one.
U young gal, go out in the world and experience life, dont be tied down to just one guy yet.
U got a life time to find a hubby.
2006-11-15 10:46:34 · answer #3 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I think that u should talk to the new guy u just met and get to know him a little better and see what he bout ....if he interests u and u thank that he is the one for u then u need to tell the guy from 2 years that u still have feelings for him but yall just can't be together and explain to him why yall can't be together no mo...and also let him know that yall can still be friends but no futher than that...but on the other hand u should also give him a nother chance to see if he gone straighten up and figure out what he wants to do in life or he had got to get to steppin .....
2006-11-15 10:48:00 · answer #4 · answered by sweetmama142003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is too short to be wasting on a MAN. Sounds like you have already made your mind up. You have a future planned for youself. If I were you I would follow my heart. But, be careful. Make sure that that wall is nice and sturdy.
2006-11-15 10:48:59 · answer #5 · answered by preppie2bfree 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody else matters but you and YOUR happiness. Nobody else is looking out for you. If you try to keep everyone else happy, you won't be.
I say just dump the guy that you have nothing in common with. He's just in the way and a distraction and could interfere with the new guy.
2006-11-15 10:46:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date the guy u have the most in common with, good luck... and that's good that you thought about both of their feelings because they would have found out eventually.
2006-11-15 10:50:29 · answer #7 · answered by lill_angel_07_88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say go for number two. Don't let him get away. You will regret it. If no. one has no ambition now and doen't even want to take you out why would you stay with him. It sounds like he is only in it for one thing anyway. I would definetly stay with number two.
2006-11-15 10:53:27 · answer #8 · answered by Ask Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen tou your heart. From what you have said here, it sounds as if your heart is telling you to dump your current bf. Just do it and good luck!
2006-11-15 10:44:51 · answer #9 · answered by Lt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough choice having to decide between being someone's booty call and someone's girlfriend... you must be distraught!
2006-11-15 10:45:30 · answer #10 · answered by Wedding Crasher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋