Okay so the problem is that i was going out with this guy for 2 years then as soon as school starte again he dumped me. i have a new boyfriend now but i alaways find myself thinking about him and wishing he still loved me. i dont actually know why he did it he wont tell me. its been 3 months now but im still crqazy about him. i would do anyhting to have him love me. My dilema is wether or not to tell him how i feel. i have a class with him and its hurts more than you can imagine to see someone everyday that was once yours and to now know that hes not. i love my recent boyfriend but i cant help but still be in love with him..he was everything to me and it ended so abuptly and he left me so uncertain as to why he did it. Sometimes he looks at me and he gives me those eyes he use to. i just want him to be happy wether with me or someone else. i just want to feel okay again. part of me wants to get back the other just wants to let go and be able tol ive again...
2006-11-15 02:37:20 · 4 answers · asked by Madame leota 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you know what? I'd normally say leave it alone and enjoy your life because obviously he has his reasons for wanting to be apart from you but i htink in this situation it would be helpful maybe to both of you if you write him a letter because then he'll listen to you without interruption and you can say exactly what you need without his prejudices or anything else getting in the way.
hopefully he has balls and he can email you or write you one back.
write him a letter!
2006-11-15 02:44:34 · answer #1 · answered by Can I Be Your Pet? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a very normal problem that every girl has to deal with at least once in her life. To say that you are in love with both of these people probably isn't so realistic- its probably just major infatuation. You are feeling this way about your ex because you didn't get the closure that you needed also we (as girls) feel like we have the "claim" to our ex (like he is ours and no one else can have him but I don't really want him anymore either). It's all confusing and complicated. Seeing how he won't give you the answers that you have asked for I would try and live and learn and move on. Focus on your new boyfriend and put your energy into making it the best relationship that you can.
2006-11-15 02:43:05 · answer #2 · answered by bree_1384 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like Gina, i'm Filipino and that i in all threat have Spanish blood in me and that i'm a million/8 chinese language, yet i actually evaluate myself all Filipino because of the fact i don't comprehend any chinese language kin (my great-grandpa is done chinese language and he went to the Philippines and married my great-grandma, for this reason my grandpa is a million/2 chinese language, yet he became no longer uncovered to chinese language lifestyle). i'm in effortless terms rather linked to Filipino lifestyle.
2016-10-15 14:06:06 · answer #3 · answered by spurr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
concentrate on other things, in every relation there is one who loves more, it is never equal, when it becomes close to being equal you get married and then it is even worse...you will wish that you were never born...
2006-11-15 02:50:01 · answer #4 · answered by ezkeyp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋