i'm sort of with this boy, hes in the year above me at school, he's always asking me to come out with his mates at the park to drink and he says he wants to do 'stuff' with me. i'm not sure whether to go or not as i am quite young, help me people please! x
2006-11-15 03:03:10 · 16 answers · asked by lalalalala 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't feel forced in to anything - if you don't feel comfortable with it...don't do it hun. xx
2006-11-15 03:06:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How young. Sounds like this kid just wants something to brag to his friends about if you do anything with him.
Sounds like bad news to me. You seem like your a sensible young girl and you already know the answer to your question or you wouldn't be concerned enough to ask complete strangers.
And if they are so young how in the world to they have alchohol!?
I'm only 24 and I find myself saying all the time "kids these days"
I feel soooooo old! =(
I hope you make the right decision. Anything your have a bad feeling about or don't feel comfortable with then don't do it. Have a friend with you that can stay by your side if you decide to go. But if you go, that's a good way to get in trouble. Cops look for kids hangin out in the parks at night knowing they are up to no good.
2006-11-15 03:15:13 · answer #2 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a boy really work for you honey!
An offer to drink in the park, no way! Trust your instincts, I'm sure you deserve better.
2006-11-15 03:54:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel uncomfortable about going with him, then don't!
He should respect the way you feel - if he wants to go out with you then he'll make proper arrangements and not just expect you to join him and his mates drinking, having sex and doing other stuff which may not be legal at your age.
2006-11-15 03:17:09 · answer #4 · answered by Marinersfan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him, and are comfortable with him, go ahead and see what happens. You don't have to do any "stuff" that you're not comfortable doing or ready to do, even if he asks you to, make that clear. If he takes the huff cuz he couldn't get off with you when his mates were there, drop him and move on.
2006-11-15 03:11:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you want to go to the park to drink, im sure you are better than that, also if you are thinking about whether or not you are ready or not do do "stuff" with him then you are not ready, say to him if he wants to meet you he should take you to the cinema or something.
2006-11-15 03:08:04 · answer #6 · answered by lee f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to go ,make sure you go along with a group of mates its not good to go on your own , then if your not happy with " the stuff he wants to do with you" you can leave with your mates , good luck !!
2006-11-15 03:09:05 · answer #7 · answered by TRUEBRIT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please do not go, it's obvious that you are unsure of the situation and I think you intuition is probably right.
There is plenty of time to see boys when you are a little older and ready, but for now stay with your mates and enjoy yourself.
2006-11-15 03:14:15 · answer #8 · answered by XhappytalkX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not sure what age you are but ....hanging round with him at the park will give you a bad name ...trust me take it from me im older and wiser who done the same thing !!!
boys will come and go and you will find a decent boy ...but you have to trust your instincts ...
you might have to kiss a few frogs along the way !!!
but you have to have respect for yourself otherwise others wont give you respect
good luck xx
2006-11-15 03:09:12 · answer #9 · answered by cowgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a dodgy situation. If you do go then go with your mates too.
Stuff could be drugs or just you so take care.
2006-11-16 00:28:53 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt go out with this guy no way. i tell you now from past experience he will get you drunk and want to have sex with you.
if all he wants you for is to get you drunk so he can have sex with you he is a total prat and not worth bothering about. this boy is scum, if you have any self respect stay well clear of him.
2006-11-15 03:07:24 · answer #11 · answered by hazy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋