gf cheating but i luv her we have been together 4 a year what can i do to let her no i luv her and want 2 be with her
2006-11-15 02:56:44 · 19 answers · asked by kendall j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Personally I would dump her, but if you want to give it one more chance, confront her with what you know, tell her how you feel and maybe you can work it out. Be careful though. Once a cheater...
2006-11-15 02:59:39 · answer #1 · answered by danl747 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The obvious Doctor Phil answer would be...If she is cheating on you than obviously the love is not reciprocated and the relationship may not be worth it. But honestly that is a narrow cookie cutter answer. It comes down to communicating with each other to find out if both people are getting what they want out of the relationship. If you can resolve the inadequacies that caused the cheating heart than maybe you can continue the relationship. If this is not possible be prepared for a downward spiral of pain.
2006-11-15 03:03:28 · answer #2 · answered by FanofF1Racing 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't be with her. Once a person cheats it's over, maybe not right away but sooner or later you will suspect something is going on again even if she is not cheating. It will tear you apart and control your every thought and action.
Never tolerate a cheater. She will use you forever.
Sorry man
2006-11-15 03:01:27 · answer #3 · answered by ABYSS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should dump her, yeah I know you love her and want to be with her but its not worth being hurt over and you know in your heart that if she's cheating on you that means she doesn't really love you as much as you love and care about her. I've dealt with this type of problem before I went out with the guy for a year afterwards and I had never really forgiven him and he kept doing it, which ended up hurting me so much more then when I first found out. I dumped him,. but when I did I asked why he could do that when I've remained faithful to him and he said it was because he loved me but he wanted to explore what else there was out there, and so I spit in his face and kicked him in his balls :) but yeah we're friends now which is okay...I honestly think you should dump her shes not worth it to be hurting you.
2006-11-15 03:02:47 · answer #4 · answered by Cesars Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her....that's what you do. Once a cheater, always a cheater. You may love her but it's obvious that she doesn't love you in return. Otherwise she never would have cheated. It's hard, I know...but there is someone out there for you that will love you and not cheat on you.
2006-11-15 02:59:48 · answer #5 · answered by tiffany6322 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is cheating on you you need to confront her asap. I'd dump her but that's your call. I recommend a talk out at the very least before any harsh decisions are made.
2006-11-15 03:01:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with her, if she is cheating now, after a year, obviously she doesn't love you. You are wasting your time, things will only get worse. She is using you, and you are letting her.
2006-11-15 03:01:26 · answer #7 · answered by Kaytee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use her for sex and find her replacement. It is easier to get another girl while you have one hanging on your arm. Get over her. She is a drain. Go ahead and flag this as a bad answer or report it as a violation. It is expected. The truth hurts.
2006-11-15 02:59:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not to just repeat some of the other answers, but dump her, and be VERY careful taking her back, if it happens again cut it lose. But I think you knew this.
2006-11-15 04:00:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know she is cheating, why would you want to be with her. I understand that you love her, but she obviously doesn't care about hurting you. Breaking up with her might hurt you, but you're hurting anyway. Move on.
2006-11-15 02:59:54 · answer #10 · answered by justcurious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋