Wot do i do?

Question

Ive bin wid my fella 4 ova 3 months an i love him mor than i can explain 2 myself let alone any1 else, ive lived wid him at his mums place since we got 2gether an we decided a while ago 2 get our own place, that woz all wel an gd but now i hav a wk b4 we actually do go it alone an i am absolutely brickin it, dnt get me wrong i want 2 liv alone wid him but i dnt no if it is 2 soon, 1 of my previous relationships failed not long after we moved in2gether an i really dnt want it 2 happen this time. I really dnt no wot 2 do an im afraid 2 tell him how i feel as he has bin lookin 4ward 2 it since we decided 2 do it, im lookin 4ward 2 havin our own space 2 but i jus kp gettin these nigglin feelins that it wil b a repeat of the last time i moved in wid a bf, im torn as 2 wot i want an it is beginin 2 show,im becomin stressed about it an i jus snap ova silly little things an it wil soon start 2 affect our relationship. WOT DO I DO?????

Answer 1

Do have some consideration for us poor souls trying to sort out your problem. Understanding your question was strenuous! Anyway if you two arent meant to be....you would eventually break up whether you move in together or not. Moving in will only accelarate the process of you getting closer than ever or moving towards splitsville. But hey, why even consider it? Take one day at a time & enjoy each other's company without looking too ahead!

Answer 2

You need to voice your fears. Sounds as if there's some part of you that's already recognizing a pattern in what destroyed your last relationship and 3 months IS awfully soon to be moving in with someone. Even if you spent 24/7 together there's still more to learn about him. Voice your concerns. Wouldn't you rather put off living together and wait a bit than move in and have the relationship ruined because you weren't ready? The pros outweight the cons. I'd tell him you guys should wait a bit longer.

Answer 3

From what i can understand, I'd say get away from any relationship at this point and start Pre-K and go all the way to the end of school. A relationship and you seems like a train wreck.
In all honesty, from what i could make out of your question, I'd say you're too desperate at this point of your relationship, living with his mom. NOT GOOD! Arguing a Lot, NOT GOOD. Now here is my answer, DON'T DO IT!

Answer 4

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Answer 5

The true test of a relationship is living together. If you can do this, then most every challenge faced will not be an issue. It has to be done.

Answer 6

Hello,
speak to your boyfriend. Personally, it may be too soon in your relationship to take this leap. Let your boyfriend know the past feelings that you have had and you both should discuss what is the best way to proceed; afterall it is you and your boyfriend's relationship.

Answer 7

When in doubt dont do it. Wait for a while, 3 months is not that long of a time to get to know someone enought to live with. them.

Answer 8

To be honest here, you will get better answers if you wrote proper English. You have no punctuation and almost every word is spelled wrong. I honestly have no idea what you are trying to ask.

Answer 9

Christ...are you serious? I can't even read that garbage much less try to figure out exactly what you're trying to ask.

My advice, concentrate on your education before worrying about anything else.

Answer 10

seperate bedrooms - keeps a relationsship fresh and happy. His space is his and your space is yours. Try it, it works!