Family & Relationships - 13 November 2006

I have been best friends with this guy nick for 6 years. He just recently started to show feelings for me and I have had them from since i met him. His mother really adores me and so does his siblings and friends! My neighbor and best friend who knows absoulutely everything there is to know about me is my other problem. He treats me like every girl wants to be treated and we are just friends. His family loves me too and his friends approve too. He is a great guy and i see him as Ive known him for years. WHO SHOULD I CHOOSE? WHAT SHOULD I DO?

2006-11-13 08:22:57 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-13 08:22:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i know this guy who has a 4 year relationship but claims he doesnt want the pressure and the "must" call,"must do" and he wants to be or feel free.so a guy that wants to be free how can he be in a serious relationship?

2006-11-13 08:22:39 · 2 answers · asked by sophie c 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-13 08:21:22 · 10 answers · asked by jack s 1 in Singles & Dating

and I am 20 Why does it seem that we are having a harder time connecting? Any advice on how we can connect better?

2006-11-13 08:20:44 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-13 08:20:08 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

We are kind of close and I thought I should give him a present but, i'm agirl and I don't know what to give to boys.

2006-11-13 08:19:54 · 10 answers · asked by Rach 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my girlfriend does not want to see me and cleaned all her stuff out of the apartment without telling me. I know she is not seeing anyone else but the only way i can contact her is by e-mail, she reads them a few times a day.

What should i do, i love her and we were supposed to be engaged. Before she did it she said that she wants a few months and then we will date again.

2006-11-13 08:19:09 · 24 answers · asked by al 2 in Singles & Dating

She is my bestfriend's sister. Their family is going through a lot financially and they are poor.I am rich and if I marry her then I can help them.

I am not marrying her cos I want to help them but I really love her and if I marry then they will be my in laws and I can help them. I know I can help them without marrying but I love her very much.

I don't know if she loves me.

Should I ask her parent's for her in marriage to me. If I do that then her parents will ask her and she can accept or refuse me.

Is it okay to ask her parents' for her in marriage? I know I can ask her if she likes me but I don't like that idea.

2006-11-13 08:19:07 · 8 answers · asked by Mr Business 3 in Singles & Dating

but she is very shy how i can enjoy with her to make her frank with me.Give me some tips.

2006-11-13 08:18:39 · 6 answers · asked by creed 1 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-13 08:18:25 · 18 answers · asked by amber h 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend had an argument last night because he told me if I got pregnant he wouldn't have sex with me until the baby was born because it's just wrong. Is it me or is he a freak?

2006-11-13 08:18:16 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a relationship with a 27 year old divorced man with 2 kids and a 20 year old woman who has never had a relationship before. he's been clear on the fact that he wants something serious... is it not a bad idea for her to commit to that?

2006-11-13 08:18:05 · 19 answers · asked by luvlee_lolo 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-13 08:17:22 · 9 answers · asked by mdzevolveddammit 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-13 08:16:46 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my two daughters, 6 and 8 are wanting to join. before i invest time and money into this, what is that girls scouts do exactly? is it worth getting involved in?

2006-11-13 08:15:41 · 8 answers · asked by DEVIL IN A BLUE DRESS 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

So we're in our 20s...is the XBox too expensive of a gift for me to buy for him? We've been going out for just under a year...in our mid 20s.

2006-11-13 08:15:02 · 7 answers · asked by Snki55ed Princess 4 in Singles & Dating

When my friends get b/f's, they tlk bout kissing right away and doin things (touching) that im not comfortable with. They also think of a long relationship as 6 weeks. i dont wanna get in a fast-movin relationship if its gonna end that quickly, but when people ask me how many guys i've been with, im embaressed to say one. What do i do???????

2006-11-13 08:14:45 · 23 answers · asked by *KK* 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together 71/2 years great years never fought but this weekend he dropped a bomb on me and told me he loves me and cares alot about me but doesnt think he is IN love with me anymore. we have no children together but I have an 9 year old daughter from a previous relationship who he has raised since she was a baby. I am really struggling and devastated with this because I love him VERY much and want to make this work but dont know how!! Any help will help me!!! I also asked him if their is someone else and he says NO and I have NEVER expected that their would be!! He is a wonderful person and I dont know how to handle this or make things work. or if he wants them to work we are supposed to talk about the future tonight

2006-11-13 08:13:39 · 15 answers · asked by harlie1056 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-13 08:13:32 · 8 answers · asked by Quiet V 1 in Singles & Dating

I have know this guy for almost two years. We email each other a lot. I met him at a church camp and we have been super good friends ever since. He is two years older than I am. He emails me as much as he can. He is a missionary in Mexico. He always asks me how I am doing and stuff like that. I do like him, but does he like me? He is an awesome guy and loves God with all his heart. Am I reading too much into this or what? What should I do? I once told him that I missed him. How do I let him know that I like him without using those words? I don't want to scare him off or anything like that. Thanks in advance and God bless!

2006-11-13 08:13:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have dated been insecure,

are most men in general insecure, insainly jealous

2006-11-13 08:13:29 · 26 answers · asked by xXx Orange Breezer xXx 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been dating this guy... that we have veen friends for over seven years and finally we end up being a couple.. Although we have been together for over three months... we haven't had our first kiss until this saturday. We haven't kiss because we are shy and I wasn't that ready. On saturday we were hugged and very together in a bench while we kiss me but not in the mouth just a frindly kiss.. In that moment I felted... like it was the moment... so I told him that I was thinking on something and he knew what it was... so he told ok... just tell me what to do... and I didn't know much about that... so we spend a moment after doing and finally it came... he kissed me... but ... I don't know why... I didn't feel anything there wasn't that supposed magic... and then well, we kept hugged... and then we went to the car so that he could bring me to my house... when he arrived... and he were saying goodbye... with no kiss... and in that moment I said... no! I can't stay like this... so we

2006-11-13 08:13:07 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was with my ex for 15yrs I left him cause he cheated that was 4 yrs ago. We keep intouch from time to time even though he cheated there is still love there. I got a call over the weekend that his father passed away we all knew it was going to happen. I was planning to go to my ex's mother's house out of respect to see if I could help with anything. I was told that some thought it might not be a good idea cause my ex and his girl are there. The other half of the relatives thought it was a good idea if I went. My ex's girlfriend and I have spoken on the phone and understands that we were friends before our 15yr relationship and will always remain friends and she accepts that. I told them then I will just show up for the wake and decided not to go to the house. Was I right or wrong...

2006-11-13 08:13:04 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-13 08:13:04 · 14 answers · asked by fruit_cake_69 1 in Singles & Dating

I know a lady who spoils her kids, by washing their clothes, making them homemade dinner, and doing housework for them at times.

The kids are in their 40's and unmarried living out but they visit mom to do all the work. Is this unkind? Any moms out there like this supermom?

2006-11-13 08:11:26 · 35 answers · asked by DREENA 2 in Family

in all 14 years we have been divorced , the cow has never forwarded even 1 medical bill to me for reimbursement, and now that the end of the child support is within sight , she all of a sudden decides to bring up every med. bill that has accumulated since our divorce 14 years ago. The divorce states that she has 10 days in which to get the statements or proof of payment to me and I am then allowed 10 days to repay her, so what are her chances of getting reimbursement for bills from years past?

2006-11-13 08:11:21 · 8 answers · asked by fireandice 2 in Marriage & Divorce

hi there,my gf split up with me,no reason at all,(been bout a month now,she came last thurs there to see me and chat)i asked her if she just didnt want to be with me anymore,she said no,im 27 shes 18,after bout half an hour she gave me an answer,she said her mum and dad didnt want us to see each other anymore.i said i waited a whole month and a half hour just to hear that answer.as she split wi me the 1st time ,she said she was sleeping w/people. then saying she didnt.then she started saying that she fancied my best friend.i said so basically u dumped me for my best m8,she said yes.he is also 27,and has been a m8 for 13 yrs.he kept telling her not to phone him/txt. i told her that to.but it just didnt get through and kept persisting.so anyway,i know what my m8's like,if its handed to him on a plate hell take it.so i got a fone call from him to nite,asking me not to fone him again. so i kinda think the 2 have got 2gether.how the hell do i get over this,please help

2006-11-13 08:11:03 · 15 answers · asked by therealdudeinthechair 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-13 08:10:38 · 11 answers · asked by Quiet V 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am in the market for an engagement ring. I have been looking for something nice, but for something I feel is impressive is SO expensive. There are natural occuring diamonds, and there are what they call "lab-created" diamonds. They are supposed to have the same sparkle, the same "fire" and the same hardness. Do you think it's wrong to save thousands of dollars we could be putting towards a wedding just to have a "natural" diamond? Thoughts?

2006-11-13 08:09:55 · 45 answers · asked by soccrian 2 in Weddings