2006-11-13 08:17:22 · 9 answers · asked by mdzevolveddammit 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We have been married 10 years.Been together 14 almost 15 years now. I will not leave him. Well never say never, right!! He is acting like my dad not my husband, but a good father to the kids. Com'mon people, just little fun iswhat I am after, it has been a year.As for the person who said sleep in the nude, Cool, been there done that. I believe I have a husband with a physical prolem combind with a mental problem too. I can't leave him, but why can't I be selfish for 1 night? Other things to concider.
2006-11-14 02:25:51 · update #1
Ok, then, you people need more information, I see!!
We have been leagally married for 10 years. We have been together for 14 years. Their are two kids involved 14 and 6. My 81 year old mother-n-law lives across the street from me,yeah!! Which I care too.I am a nurse and she needs me here and there.
We have a lot of strees in ours.As for this problem,a year has gone by,we have talked,I tried everything to help him. the problem is only physical and he won't go to the doctor, dammit. Nobody mention church, because they just toss out this question right out the window, sorry you got to be unhappy for the remainder of your days.But I'm only 36 years old.They had no compassion at all. I have a lot at stake, but can't I have needs too.Everytime I leave this house, I am reminded that I am not ugly after all,guys flirting, you know. A year seems like a life time. I hope some of you will be more opened minded now.
2006-11-14 02:45:22 · update #2
WOW so quick to forget your vows... for better or for worse.....
2006-11-13 08:42:57 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The best thing for you to do is to tell him the truth:
You are unhappy with the sex life.
Sex is an important part of your marriage.
You have had thoughts of straying.
If he does not respond to your concerns, tell him you are leaving. I'd say no on straying.
2006-11-13 16:24:34 · answer #2 · answered by Robert San 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you should not stray. Too many people just want to leave instead of trying to salvage their relationships. Talk to your husband and find out what is going on.
2006-11-13 16:20:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mines holding out on oral for some odd reason. Straying is so tempting but I would feel horrible afterwards.
2006-11-13 16:19:59 · answer #4 · answered by Candy C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try sleeping in the nude
2006-11-13 16:18:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
you should tell him you're considering leaving..
you should both see a counselor
you should communicate your needs..CLEARLY
you should not stray, leave him first.
2006-11-13 16:19:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends.
You already know what I think.
2006-11-13 16:27:29 · answer #7 · answered by crazy_monkey_jr010 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about it and see why he's holding out on you.
2006-11-13 16:19:06 · answer #8 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
come to me and i will take care of your sexual needs and wants if you are appealing to me....
2006-11-13 16:21:00 · answer #9 · answered by rock n roll all night.. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋