2006-11-13 08:21:22 · 10 answers · asked by jack s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Both of you can grow up and realize that neither of you wins.
2006-11-13 08:23:27 · answer #1 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Read "Ask and it is given" or better still, get an adult to read it to you and help you learn from it. Be endlessly forgiving towards each other. Make a pact that if you argue, you'll just forget it and start again. Start again 100 times a day if you have to, as long as you do it with a smile (or try to). Don't try to pick the last argument to pieces and find the one to blame.
Basically, you have to both get on to the same side of the argument. So asking, "How can we help each other" is better than, "How can I get him to stop being argumentative".
Good luck - at least you're trying to sort it out.
2006-11-13 08:25:05 · answer #2 · answered by Older&Wiser 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until your not arguing then talk about the things that annoy you both and try to reach a solution which is okay for both of you. Probably most of these things are trivial and you may just have got into a habit of having a go at each other.
2006-11-13 08:36:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me know when you find a solution. My brother's at the same age as yours, but I'm older than he is and we still continue to argue. He seems to have developed some sort of ego that needs a definite deflation.
The immaturity should pass once he's into his late teens or early twenties. If you're still arguing at those ages, seek help.
2006-11-13 08:26:02 · answer #4 · answered by Θ Chez Θ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know he is annoying, but to stop the arguing you must totally block him out when he starts up. know matter what he says ignore him . i don't care what he calls you or what he threatens, just pay him no mind walk away start singing read a book go where your mom is at so he wont do it in front of her or your dad just ignore him and be very consistent and in time he will stop you can't argue with your self lol
2006-11-13 08:28:10 · answer #5 · answered by sexyswells42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking and LISTENING to each other instead of jumping at each other's throats at first given chance. There's a reason why you have two ears and only one mouth.... You should listen twice as much as you talk, and that goes for the both of you. Learn to COMPROMISE! Give a little and take a little, and give each other some space. Agree to disagree, and never hurt each other intentionally.
2006-11-13 08:31:26 · answer #6 · answered by Malene P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
heres what u do be the biger person and walk away becse thy realize pick on there younger sibling is rude and mean so b proactive [means to walk away] and dont say anying or do any thing to them
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2006-11-13 08:29:55 · answer #7 · answered by lilpumpkinchick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey listen, when i was eleven my brother and i used to do that and i think all you need to do is either stay away from him or start agreeing with him
good luck bud!
2006-11-13 08:26:00 · answer #8 · answered by kiki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just fight and argue all the time. you'll be old before you know it and this will all be pleasant memories to bring up at family reunions.
2006-11-13 08:25:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
treat him as u would want to be treated (golden rule! :))
2006-11-13 08:27:50 · answer #10 · answered by anna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋