Me and my boyfriend had an argument last night because he told me if I got pregnant he wouldn't have sex with me until the baby was born because it's just wrong. Is it me or is he a freak?
2006-11-13 08:18:16 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Different people have different views. Having sex while pregnant is normal and healthy. If you get pregnant and this happens, I would suggest getting a book on pregnancy that discusses this aspect of the relationship. He probably has unsubstantiated fears about it. If you get him informed, he'll eventually be okay with it (unless he has a pregnancy sex phobia).
2006-11-13 08:24:17 · answer #1 · answered by tipper 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't call him a freak I know other people who feel the same way. But I have had two kids and I had sex all the way till it was time to go to the hospital. It's not wrong and your not hurting the baby. You might want to have a talk with your boyfriend and find out why he fells that way and maybe you can work something out. You might want to tell him what my doctor told me about having sex while your pregnant she told me that it's actually a good thing to do it helps expand the AREA for when it's time to have the baby. So does walking and I don't know about you but I would rather have sex.
2006-11-13 08:27:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
No he's not a freak and you are not wrong either. If the pregnancy is going well then gentle sex is fine until it becomes uncomfortable for you. Many people (mostly men) think sex when pregnant can harm the baby, but it wont as the baby is protected in a sack of water.
2006-11-13 08:23:02 · answer #3 · answered by mistickle17 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I don't know if he's a freak but it's perfectly normal to have sex during a pregnancy and healthy. I'm sorry he's so weird about it. Maybe if you talk to him and tell him it is okay, it will ease his mind. If not, drop him. NO MAN in his right mind turns sex down LOL
:)
2006-11-13 08:22:16 · answer #4 · answered by Mimi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No there is nothing wrong with having sex while pregnant.If its your first baby, sex will be good so when you have your baby it wont hurt that much.You can have sex till youre like 7 months or until you think you cant nomore because of your stomach.*
2006-11-13 08:31:25 · answer #5 · answered by abelssexywifey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the person...personally i wouldnt have sex if i was pregnant beacause in my head the entire way thru i would be thinkin eww there is three of us having sex here. i know its physically impossible for a man to reach the baby whilst penetrating you but thats what would be going on in my head!!
but on the other hand, who can wait 9 months to have sex again...also, if hes not having sex with you for 9 months, where is he getting it from???
2006-11-13 08:58:43 · answer #6 · answered by SugarPlumFairy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a freak. LOL. It is perfectly fine to have sex while you're pregnant and sex is actually considered a great way to induce labor when you're getting toward the end and uncomfy!!
2006-11-13 08:32:44 · answer #7 · answered by Goose&Tonic 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I only have one suggestion
Don't have sex with him before you get pregnant. See how he likes that
Tell him to grow up a bit
2006-11-13 09:06:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey there is nothing wrong with it my wife asked the doc when she was pregnant said it was OK but not to do it supporting the boyfriend best find a alternative position. from me it was terrific when ever where ever
2006-11-13 08:38:01 · answer #9 · answered by PETER J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with the second answer.
iv got 4 kids,i had sex throughout all of my pregnacy,for me the sex was great,no harm came to any of my kids,theres no-way any man can wait over 9months to have sex,NEVER.
i was told by my midwife in my later months,to have the 3 "H",'s,
HOT SEX
HOT BATH
HOT CURRY.
especially when i was due to have my baby's it help bring labour on much quicker
2006-11-13 08:38:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋