I have been dating this guy... that we have veen friends for over seven years and finally we end up being a couple.. Although we have been together for over three months... we haven't had our first kiss until this saturday. We haven't kiss because we are shy and I wasn't that ready. On saturday we were hugged and very together in a bench while we kiss me but not in the mouth just a frindly kiss.. In that moment I felted... like it was the moment... so I told him that I was thinking on something and he knew what it was... so he told ok... just tell me what to do... and I didn't know much about that... so we spend a moment after doing and finally it came... he kissed me... but ... I don't know why... I didn't feel anything there wasn't that supposed magic... and then well, we kept hugged... and then we went to the car so that he could bring me to my house... when he arrived... and he were saying goodbye... with no kiss... and in that moment I said... no! I can't stay like this... so we
2006-11-13 08:13:07 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
kissed again.... and again... and again... and then I did something with my mouth like moving it so that it will last longer... The thing is that I feel guilty because of two things... first... isn't that tooo much for our first time of kissing... and next it was ok... for me to move like that the mouth... it doesn't makes that slaughty? Also... what I can't figure out is why I didin't feel my heart beating faster and some other stuff that he felt.? I love him... actually I had a crushed for over three years... but now everything... is so confusing and blur...
2006-11-13 08:13:19 · update #1
We are 19
2006-11-13 08:17:40 · update #2
How old are you two??
2006-11-13 08:17:01 · answer #1 · answered by Jcontrols 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember you guys waited over 7 years to show your true feelings, so right now its going to seem awkward to you because you still might be looking at him as your good friend and not your boyfriend. Take sometime to think about the reason why you love him and why you feel good when your with him, you need to stop looking at him as just a friend and more like a boyfriend and maybe a lover one day. He is still the same person that he was when you both were just friends, now he's a very special friend, take your time and don't rush things with him. In your mind your thinking why doesn't this feel more natural, you had a long friendship with this man and now things have changed. Everything will fall into place soon enough, talk to him and let him know how your feeling and you just might find out that he feels the same way. The kissing will come naturally and not when you think its suppose to happen, don't force it, then and only then is when you will feel the butterflies in your stomach and feel hopelessly in love with this man. Good luck..
2006-11-13 16:27:12 · answer #2 · answered by BASHFUL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you were really expecting little twinkly lights to come out in the sky the first time you kissed? it doesn't have to feel like "magic" hon, it has to feel like kissing.
the rest of it is totally normal, for two people who actually like each other. calm. ^-^ be happy with it, man. most people end up hating their first kiss because it was at the wrong angle, uncomfortable, they had braces, etc. so i think you're pretty lucky.
2006-11-13 16:17:18 · answer #3 · answered by fireflower413 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Moving your mouth to make it last longer is kissing.
2006-11-13 16:16:25 · answer #4 · answered by Mintygoodness1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋