2006-11-13 08:13:04 · 14 answers · asked by fruit_cake_69 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not to worry. It's one of those things parents go through when their daughters show an element of maturity. Don't be scared.
2006-11-13 08:17:21 · answer #1 · answered by saintbeng 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you and he? If your both under 15 it's a hard thing for parents to accept, if your under 15 but he's over 20 then she has reason to be concerned. but if you don't fall into any of these catagories then your best bet is to tell her about it like your not aware anything is wrong. Obviously don't go detailed but just say that you like him and ask for her advice. She's been there, done it all, and so will have the answers you need, and will feel she has more control over a situation she currently feels powerless to help you with. It's that helpless feeling that will make it difficult for her to talk to you, and only if she's very old-fashioned and stubborn will this not ease her fears.
2006-11-13 11:22:19 · answer #2 · answered by Bealzebub 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"pulled?" Is that british slang for tossing off or shagging?
You have to consider that there are many yanks on these forums.
Anyway, my advice? Don't say anything! Yer mum seems pretty cool to me. She may or may not have seen you. If she saw you, she is probably respecting your privacy or she doesn't think it is too big of a deal. She may be thinking you are not aware that she saw you, and your mum might be embarrassed by having seen you in an intimate moment, and would prefer that you not know that she saw you.
If she didn't see you, then as we yanks like to say, "mum's the word."
Hey, my wife "pulled" me today, too. And no one saw us. Life gets better when you are older.
2006-11-13 08:28:15 · answer #3 · answered by Jack C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as a mum to a 16yr old daughter, i would be horrified!!! it would depend on the situation...if i walked into her b'room....its my own fault...but if it was in another 'community' room ie front room & i walked in i would feel she was being very disrespectful! i would certainly let her know of my dissaproval!!!
2006-11-13 21:26:56 · answer #4 · answered by Shazza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I take it you're quite young then? She has to accept you're growing up, we all do it.
Unless you're 12 and your bf is 30, I don't see why she wouldn't get over it, if you just talk to her about it.
2006-11-13 08:17:22 · answer #5 · answered by ashypoo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmmmm if you mean you maser bated him and she saw it all depends on how old you are...and i am guessing it was under her roof...if you are young..i.e under 18 i would be fuming as a parent to be honest...next time close the door
2006-11-13 08:45:02 · answer #6 · answered by robert h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean you pulled him? I don't know wot you are asking.
2006-11-13 08:26:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is it you mean by pulled first because it mean loads of things lool
2006-11-13 08:25:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to her and apologize.
2006-11-13 08:23:56 · answer #9 · answered by ariel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep it up. every thing is fair in love and war.
2006-11-13 08:23:44 · answer #10 · answered by sami umar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋