Family & Relationships - 13 November 2006

How long would you wait before giving up on a long term (almost 8 years) relationship?

2006-11-13 08:36:48 · 36 answers · asked by Maggie67 3 in Singles & Dating

I am out of ideas....I dunno what I shud gift my sis on her wedding. I dun wanna go for jewellery or clothes as she'll get enuff of those.....and my budget's not much....approx 2-5k. Ne ideas for sumthin not too expensive but extremely worthwhile and different?

2006-11-13 08:36:46 · 10 answers · asked by garfield_me82 1 in Weddings

2006-11-13 08:36:45 · 5 answers · asked by viola 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My cousin got married over the weekend. I ran into her 2 months ago and she told me she was getting married but it wasn't going to be a big wedding. I went to her bridal shower but she still didn't tell me where it was or If I could've gone. I wanted to respect her wishes but I found out at the shower that all the rest of the people was invited. She told me that it'll be a small wedding so I didn't pressure or aggravate her by asking her. I was annoyed by the fact that everyone was invited but me(there was only like 8 people there) and to the fact that some girls asked if I was going...

2006-11-13 08:36:39 · 12 answers · asked by angelic1302 3 in Weddings

my girlfriend just broke up w/me and i'm really mad, and very sad. how do i just forget about it and move on?

2006-11-13 08:36:10 · 2 answers · asked by Brown 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi I was wondering if any1 wood like to be my friend

2006-11-13 08:36:05 · 5 answers · asked by Native Texan 3 in Friends

ok in my previous question i asked how i had a crush on this girl,now i'm ready to ask her out!what should i say to ask her out?also my friends say i have no chance with her...what do you guys think???

2006-11-13 08:35:37 · 16 answers · asked by LAWRENCE T 1 in Singles & Dating

He just doesn't want to work and help me pay the bills. Likes to stay up late and drink 2 or 3 nights out of the week and is mean to me because he's hung over and has bring the girls to pre-school because I work a morning shift.

I am completely out of ideas. I don't know what to do. Christmas is coming. I have a 3yr old and an 18 month old. Both girls.

He goes to college but so do I (my classes are homebased) and I work 5 days a week, still do the laundry, still cooks, still cleans. It's making me miserable and he knows it!

Do people just get stuck sometimes? I don't want to be dragged down anymore. What can I do?

2006-11-13 08:35:34 · 9 answers · asked by Caffiene Junkie 4 in Family

kind of hair,body,whatever!
just tell!

2006-11-13 08:34:35 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Preferable older men answer...like over 30

2006-11-13 08:34:28 · 20 answers · asked by Thyroid 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-13 08:34:02 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My son and his GF split about 4 months ago. She has told me how she feels about him but I don't want to get involved in the situation. They were together for about 4yrs and are both as stubborn as one another. I have told her I think all they need is time apart and he could be giving her this chance to go away and do what she wants to do. He is not going anywhere and is totally dedicated to the family business. How do I help these 2! She is very open with her feelings and regrets leaving but she says the time apart has made her realise how much he means to her. I know she has been down to see him a few times and stayed with him and left early in the morning.

Concerned Mother - Wellington
New Zealand

2006-11-13 08:32:03 · 19 answers · asked by Jack 2 in Weddings

2006-11-13 08:31:03 · 16 answers · asked by NINA A. 1 in Family

It seems that most of the single young men I know have major problems like drugs, alcohol or they have no respect for women. Is this a culture issue?

2006-11-13 08:30:47 · 16 answers · asked by Suzieq4855 1 in Singles & Dating

Let say... that you're horny... but somethings happen and it completely turns you off...

What is that thing that turns you off when you're ready to roll?

Just trying to get a consensus here...

2006-11-13 08:28:39 · 23 answers · asked by Jimmy the Cricket 3 in Singles & Dating

My best girlfriend Kendra & I have been kicking it for 4 yrs now. We have alot in common age, look like sisters, both have 4 kids, divorced but our lifestyles are different she is content with her little job, and living in the project while driving her 1996 grand prix. While I filed bankruptcy, bought a house, got my AA degree & working on BA. I just bought my 1st new car a 2007 Altima.

I take my classes online so I can be at home for my kids and for the last 6 mths being seeing an older Man Im very fond of. This past wkend was Kendra & my other friend Maras birthday I explained to both of them I could not hang out this wkend because I had to finish my paper. Mara understood & agreed I stay home & finish while Kendra ramped and raved about what kinda friend I was & why I wited till the last min to do my paper that I had been working on 4 wks and was due Sun. Then she acused me of lying & wanting to screw my BF all wkend. I was applaud not to mention already stressed was I the B!+(#

2006-11-13 08:28:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

is being virign at 25 years is wrong.. from my indian culture its so normal.. but i feel guilty after comming to australia.. as people start at 16....

2006-11-13 08:28:17 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What happened when you first fell in love? How did you meet, date etc. and what happened in the end.

2006-11-13 08:28:03 · 3 answers · asked by Yokihana 7 in Singles & Dating

I've known this girl for about a month now. We've been going out and she seems to enjoy it every time. When I tell her a joke she laughs and lightly hits me if I'm teasing her a bit, and smiles. She always returns my calls and she even asked me to go to her sisters 16th party... "just so she's not alone". She also asked ME out for once (clearly, she likes me from this description right?).
Now she is starting to become distant. I call her sometimes, but during these calls she doesn't seem like she's into me anymore. I met up with her again once, she still touches me when i joke around and laughs, but not as engaged as before and her tone changed slightly.

Advice?

2006-11-13 08:27:14 · 7 answers · asked by kiko m 1 in Singles & Dating

I broke up with my ex this summer. we dated for about 4 yrs. my birthday is on the 19th. He wants to buy me roses and jewely and stuff like that but i dont feel like it would be right accepting these gifts from him. He also wnats to come visit me. i recently moved from oklahoma to minnesota about 4 months ago. Also i dont think my boyfriend would like it too much. what should i do?

2006-11-13 08:27:03 · 4 answers · asked by jess 1 in Singles & Dating

I have heard of people playing games and turning them sexual before like strip rock paper scissors and other things like that! Does anyone have any ideas of things to do like that? I obviously know of strip poker to!

2006-11-13 08:26:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-13 08:25:44 · 25 answers · asked by Chris M 2 in Friends

to tell a guy you like him? for reference on what exactly I'm talking about read my last 2 or 3 questions. Thank you very very much please answer seriously

2006-11-13 08:25:10 · 2 answers · asked by iluvhandsom. 1 in Singles & Dating

i am 5'5 and have long legs. do guys find long legs attractive?

2006-11-13 08:24:59 · 12 answers · asked by lcw 2 in Singles & Dating

Hes a grade younger.
(i know,queer right?)
but hes cool and suppaaahot!!
I never see him though,liek only once a day when passing the halls.
i need him to be mine!
HOW?!
help mme make the first moove.
<3

2006-11-13 08:24:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to surprise my fiance and we have no money...I mean we're down to our last $5 this week...ick! I was thinking about hiding little notes around the house with romantic lyrics....ideas?

2006-11-13 08:23:22 · 18 answers · asked by Autumn C 2 in Singles & Dating

My mother,Has went on Vacation SEVERAL times,With her boyfriend.Now she tells us that she doesnt have money for christmas which is fine,but yet gave us a list of stuff she wanted.
On her vacations she always ask's can we take care of her cat ,can we Tape the race for her..and When I dont get the stuff done,After I TELL her I have plans. She gets upset and Says...I have done so much for you!!!
How can I get her to understnad that Idont WANT to take over her life when she's being so Selfish by going on all these vacations!!
I tell her to get the stuff done herself,And she freaks out.
What should I do?

2006-11-13 08:23:20 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

...creative first dates?

2006-11-13 08:23:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My gf is awesome. I love her completely (and we are both out of college) but both of us have only had a couple of serious relationships. Ours was so fantastic to start off with, went great for a few months, then she started getting distant. We talked about it and she said it always went like this w/ her relationships. It's not going to end like that this time if I have anything to say about it. She's too great to let go. Anyways, during the talk, she said she had been to a counselor before, but never stuck w/ it. Obviously, I assume this has something to do w/ our present situation, namely her reluctance to commit to us. Can I ask what she saw the counsellor for? How do I bring it back up?

2006-11-13 08:23:08 · 1 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

I dont know if he really like me i just heard from my friends that he likes me. He play wit me alot, you know the way a boy plays wit a girl he like, he like messing wit me. wat should i do? my friends told him that i like him and i know that he like me. I am so confused i really dont know wat to do and im kinda shy when it comes to things like this. i dont want to ruin our friendship becaus of this little thing but im at a lost of wat to do. please help!!!

2006-11-13 08:23:00 · 3 answers · asked by *Dat*-*Libra*-*Cutie* 3 in Friends