Family & Relationships - 13 November 2006

ok I have been dating this girl for about 3 months now which isn't that long, but I tried to break up with her and she started to cry and get super emotional... she was like almost begging me not to break up with her, saying she could change and stuff, and i gave in. I still dont really enjoy spending time with her and I want to try to break up with her but without her getting really sad again... is there anyway i can ease into it???

2006-11-13 08:09:44 · 6 answers · asked by ChargerS 1 in Singles & Dating

If I could ask you one question

If I could ask you one question I would ask you how you felt that night, that night we looked into eachother's eyes and everything seemed so... right

I would ask you how your eyes became so blue its as if Jesus took two pieces of sky on the clearest day for your eyes when he made you

If I could ask you one question I would ask you if it was love at first sight I truly do hope it was with every single ounce of my might

If I could as you one question I would ask you if we could be together ... and if I could kiss you on the rainiest day in the history of rainy weather

2006-11-13 08:09:41 · 5 answers · asked by apbudge 1 in Singles & Dating

and i know every body in my grade
i have been known as a cow by many of the boys
i really want a boy friend but know body likes me because of the one boy who started it
i want to feel happy
and i want a boyfriend
so am i tottally screwed when it comes to a boy friend what do i do?

2006-11-13 08:09:06 · 22 answers · asked by im lost come and find me 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-13 08:08:44 · 11 answers · asked by Quiet V 1 in Singles & Dating

Can someone help me find something good to say about my aunt who was just removed from life support and is dying? She was a crack addict. She never worked a day in her life and left her 2 kids when they were babies for my disabled grandmother to raise. She got hit by a car while crossing the street (high) to by a crack rock. I honestly can't think of anything good she ever did for anyone including herself. I just want to say something nice about her to my family.

2006-11-13 08:08:23 · 11 answers · asked by ♥Pretty♥ ♥Kitty♥ 7 in Family

yea i always wonder why but i think its the fellas that put pressure on the ladies even teenage girls sweat about how they look well i do the same before i leave the house i have to look good but the reason women do this is because the fellas want a perfect lady out their well nobody is perfect!!! so it makes the ladies feel selfconscience about themselves so the guys should stop i think.

2006-11-13 08:08:22 · 7 answers · asked by sweetncuteladi 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-13 08:08:12 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I recently heard from a friend that 1st babies get gift and things for life. I never received anything but a plaque. Does anyone know anything about this or have ever received anything. If so how do I go about it.Any websites phonenumbers.Anything would help.

2006-11-13 08:08:00 · 10 answers · asked by vns2k 2 in Family

ONS- one night stand

2006-11-13 08:07:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-13 08:07:41 · 7 answers · asked by Daniel Black 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

around 6 years now. We were immature and stupid up until these last two years, and now everything has come crashing down on me. I realized that while we might have all goofed off and acted stupid, there were still serious issues the two of us delt with individually that WE together have never talked about. Big issues. Problems relating to family issues on both parts, but the problems mostly surrounded her/her family. The more I think about it, the more I realize how badly I want to talk about these things with her. I want to ask her how she felt, what exactly happened, what really went on - but I'm afraid to. She generally doesn't talk about things, deep things, like this. In all the years I've known her, I've only ever seen her cry twice. She laughs and has fun, both of us do, but she never cries or outwardly shows tears, or anger for that matter. But my issue is; I want to talk to her about these things. These issues have been in my brain for a while now, and I want to talkaboutthem

2006-11-13 08:06:46 · 5 answers · asked by w00t 2 in Friends

wat kind of things impress guys please help me !!!
i'm desperite the boy of my dreams is the one i want to impress!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-11-13 08:05:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-13 08:05:50 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I made it! I'm 67 on 14th November [tomorrow] I was diagnosed with Aliens in my plumbing [Bowel Cancer] in 2001 and had 6 months of chemo after op, then it came back and was discovered in both my lungs and my liver in September 2005 so I had another 6 months of chemo, and now I've just started another 6 months of chemo. I'm not fussed about the cancer, it's a nuisance and 'in the way'. My avatar says it all. I usually get about 5 birthday cards, so this year it would be good to get 67 - here - some can be jokes because we're heavily into Tumour Humour in this household. But the main reason for this request is to make you all aware of the fact the Bowel Cancer may not have any symptoms - I was Stage 3 when I was diagnosed - so get informed and go to Cancerbackup.org.uk - they have a nurse you can e.mail if you are unsure or want advice, or Cancer Research UK or www.bowelcanceruk.org.uk - they have a nurse you can speak to for advice if you are unsure - no charge] Best Wishes

2006-11-13 08:04:21 · 59 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I met this guy like 7 months ago. When I first met him I didn't like him like that. He wasn't what I was use to dating. So anyways about a month ago I started seeing him in a new light. So he asked me to be his lady and I was like okay. So since then he comes over on the week ends and call but not like he use to. I went through his phone and saw where he has been texting not one but two girls. I confront him about this so he's like they are just friends I told him that he needs to squash that and soon or else we would have to be friends and he was like okay. My problem is i can't really put my finger on it but I don't trust him. And also he's talking about moving in........what da &*$^. I guess the problem is he's not as emotional or up front about his feelings as I need him to be. I told him yesterday that I missed him and his exact words wereOh yeah! well ur special to me as well. And i got u..You will be happy. What? Plz help because I don't know what to do. I know this is alot

2006-11-13 08:04:04 · 7 answers · asked by tlnay025 3 in Singles & Dating

me and 1 of my old friends use to hang out all the time and we were really close but now she's a popular *********./s.l.u.t. she failing school, smokes behind her parents back, drinks, and has sex. So as u can guess she the most popular kid in our 7th grade. now people might say move on but she is my neighbor and god said to love and help our neighbor, now don't get me wrong i'm not a religous freak at all, but i remeber when we were little kids she always wanted to learn bout god but i never had anything to say, we tryed to have a bible club but you know how well 7 year olds can maintain a club we tryed 2 time but then things just fell apart so we gave up. but now that i want to help her i don't knew how.

2006-11-13 08:03:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-13 08:03:01 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm looking for someone that's a bit different but can't seem to find anywhere that offers such a thing. I don't want punky, gothic, fake, jokey or too outrageous, just something other than a diamond and a band. Please can someone offer suggestions? Websites or shops are equally fine. Thanks.

2006-11-13 08:02:57 · 22 answers · asked by sarsa 2 in Weddings

i stil love my x but he no longer feels as strong 4 me, is my relationship really over, or is there a chance of fighting 4 it. is love at first sight true or just a myth?

2006-11-13 08:02:32 · 10 answers · asked by bootykaza 1 in Singles & Dating

What activities can we do together? I am 26 yrs old and don't have a clue as to what teen boys like or want to do. This is our honeymoon/family vacation, I didn't want to take my 5 yr old and leave the 15 yr old behind with his mom. It just didn't seem very fair to me. To favor one and not the other just because he doesn't live with my husband and I. I just need help with what activities he may like doing. We have already planned the Zoo, Muesum and Planetarium. Please help! I don't want all the activities to be "too childish" for the 15 yr old!

2006-11-13 08:02:16 · 8 answers · asked by redstormrising2000 2 in Weddings

i think it has to do something with sex but i dunno....

2006-11-13 08:02:02 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my b/f and i just broke up, but i still want to remain friends with his family. it was a mutual thing, so there aren't really any hard feelings.

has anyone ever been in this situation? im not that close to my family and have grown to love his. is it wrong to want to stay in touch with them?

2006-11-13 08:01:58 · 4 answers · asked by jasmine 2 in Singles & Dating

How can you get a boy who is just one of your friends to notice you.You can get your brother or sister or cousin to ask him out for you but everytime he say that he has to think about it,he already has a girlfriend,or something else.

2006-11-13 08:01:58 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I just recently found out that my wife who i've been with for 6 years slept with my younger brother while we were separated. What would you do?

2006-11-13 08:01:39 · 17 answers · asked by smc420 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This boys name is Drew and I like him we are only together during two times of the day ,early in the morning and later in the afternoon, everytime I look at him i want to kiss him, he wrestles in the afternoon I know this all because he told me it all he's always talking to me out of the blue , he even told me he loved me I did'nt even tell him I had a myspace and he turns out wanting to be my friend but i don't know how to ask him out ,Im usually that askie not the asker.

2006-11-13 08:01:23 · 14 answers · asked by cutiedownlow 2 in Singles & Dating

i really want to go to this dance at my school. but no one has asked me yet. i really want and need a date becuz no one wants to be by their self while there friends dance with their boyfriends. what should i do?

2006-11-13 08:01:19 · 14 answers · asked by blackprincess#1 1 in Singles & Dating

Well, my girlfriend wants me to go to her parents house for Thanksgiving and I am really scared that they will reject me. I am stable on my meds and think I pass as normal dispite my bipolar. But the last episode was so scary, I got kind of like Billy in Six Feet Under when he is off his meds. I sometimes wonder if it is fair to bring another person into my world because even though I am ok now, I know its just a matter of time before I mess up again. But I love her so much. I just don't think its fair to saddle her with somebody who is mentally ill. I am so confused and scared.

2006-11-13 08:00:05 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Insecurties we all have them.. how do you get rid of them..

and why are they there!!

2006-11-13 07:59:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend brought 4 of his friends to my house around 4 am after he and i had an argument hours earlier. He did not discuss with me the fact that they would be accompanying him home. I was steaming from the argument that had occurred, and his behavior. Once his friends were there I slammed my front door while walking out to take out trash, I asked the guests not to smoke in my home (which he and i had discussed on a prior occassion), and i asked him to turn down the music that he was playing (he says i asked with an attitude). He claims that I made the guests feel uncomfortable, and because he stays with me he should be able to have people over whenever he wants without my permission/notification. HE says that i owed him and them i suppose an apology... Aside from the fact that after they left, I cleaned up their toppled over beer bottles, paper cups, and beer tops off of my hardwood living room floor.

2006-11-13 07:59:34 · 12 answers · asked by prettydebutante 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Recently I had sex with the man I have fancied for a long time. He is almost 50, I am 26. He is successful, good looking and great in bed. Kind of "macho-player " image.
We had a fantastic night together, and than I left home to sleep. He called me the next morning inviting me to go out with his friends. I told him I can't and that I will see him next week.He texted me again on Sunday saying "When will I see you ?" and I responded " Maybe not this week, but the week after this. I need to reflect." He responded by sms, rather sarcastically " Try looking at the miror...:-) See you soon." I haven't heard from him since.
You see , I was playing hard to get, but now I feel I have being stupid pushing away guy whom I really like.
But than, why he never bovered calling me in the 5 days that passed since we had sex?
He told me he thinks we have special chemistry and he has serious intentions...
Am I right to expect more than just a couple of texts? Am I right to demand more attention?

2006-11-13 07:59:19 · 21 answers · asked by Rita B 1 in Singles & Dating