I met this guy like 7 months ago. When I first met him I didn't like him like that. He wasn't what I was use to dating. So anyways about a month ago I started seeing him in a new light. So he asked me to be his lady and I was like okay. So since then he comes over on the week ends and call but not like he use to. I went through his phone and saw where he has been texting not one but two girls. I confront him about this so he's like they are just friends I told him that he needs to squash that and soon or else we would have to be friends and he was like okay. My problem is i can't really put my finger on it but I don't trust him. And also he's talking about moving in........what da &*$^. I guess the problem is he's not as emotional or up front about his feelings as I need him to be. I told him yesterday that I missed him and his exact words wereOh yeah! well ur special to me as well. And i got u..You will be happy. What? Plz help because I don't know what to do. I know this is alot
2006-11-13 08:04:04 · 7 answers · asked by tlnay025 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The majority of your answers were worth reading Chas C I really liked your comment.
Fireflower I can tell that your really young so your comment doesn't matter at all. But I appreciate everyone else advise.
2006-11-13 08:20:49 · update #1
Red flag!!! Ditch him.
2006-11-13 08:06:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well a relationship is an investment, and with an investment it is usually hard to just get rid of something and take a loss. But sometimes it is just not worth continuing to invest. The world is full of wonderful people, yet human nature seems to like us hanging on to just a select few people. If you are unhappy, or just don't trust this guy, why hang on, scream "NEXT" at the top of your lungs and see what other great men are just around the corner. Too many people commit strongly before they make sure everything is running smooth.
2006-11-13 16:12:04 · answer #2 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha you sound like a scary girlfriend, lady...
oh no, not TWO GIRLS on TEXT MESSAGING. look hon, if my boyfriend tried to prevent me from messaging all my guy-friends (about 15, give or take) i'd D.U.M.P his A.S.S and don't you forget it.
just fricking RELAX and give him some space...after all, being friends with other girls isn't a threat to you and trying to make him "squash" his other friendships is not only unfair to him AND to the other girls, it's also a very stupid thing to do because he might end up hating you for it or leaving you for being so obsessive-possessive over him.
not only that, but you went through his phone, so he already KNOWS you don't trust him. you really need to just BACK OFF with this guy before he sees what YOU'RE doing to HIM. if he likes you enough to have asked you out he probably understands what it means to be excusive and if he cheats on you you have reason to dump him, but you definitely don't yet. just calm down!
honestly.
2006-11-13 16:12:45 · answer #3 · answered by fireflower413 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let up on the pressure. He'll decide soon. He can't be in two places at once.
2006-11-13 16:09:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why isn't he allowed to have friends? Why do you have to be so controlling? It sounds to me like you two just aren't compatible. You want him to be something that he's not.
2006-11-13 16:08:19 · answer #5 · answered by czekoskwigel 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
cmon girl..your instincts are telling you what's right, but your heart is getting in the way..
2006-11-13 16:08:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT IS IT THAT YOU WANT/ or what is it that you are asking
2006-11-13 16:11:58 · answer #7 · answered by sexyswells42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋