and i know every body in my grade
i have been known as a cow by many of the boys
i really want a boy friend but know body likes me because of the one boy who started it
i want to feel happy
and i want a boyfriend
so am i tottally screwed when it comes to a boy friend what do i do?
2006-11-13 08:09:06 · 22 answers · asked by im lost come and find me 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Smile,take some yoga or pilate classes...
2006-11-13 08:11:30 · answer #1 · answered by Ms.Capulet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem to have low self esteem. Don't worry about what others think. Not having a boyfriend isn't the end of world. Your in school so focus on your school work the boys will come later. If you are unsatisfied with your look do something to change it. DON'T STARVE YOURSELF! Eat right and excerise. But do it for you and not to get with some dude! Build up yourself esteem and confidence and then everything else will fall into place! Good Luck!
No I'm not an old fart! I'm 26! I thought I was fat @ one time. Dudes like curves though. Now they consider me PHAT! Pretty Hot And Tempting! LOL Have fun your still young. Enjoy life!
2006-11-13 16:15:25 · answer #2 · answered by HotMommi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to have a boyfriend to be happy. Really. I'm not really sure what you mean about being known as a cow. Does that mean your fat, or your a sl*t? Either way don't waste your time on guys like that. Just wait until you are out of high school. None of the guys at college will know about your reputation and they won't really care.
2006-11-13 16:14:26 · answer #3 · answered by kat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be happy with yourself before you can be happy with a boyfriend. And, sweetie, you really don't want the type of guy that is a sheep...that will not like you because of what other people think. I'm assuming you are young, still in school. You have a lifetime ahead of you. Study hard (corny, I know!). Try to stay healthy (that's hard, I know). Go to college, become a beautiful successful lawyer or doctor or something and then go back to your highschool reunion with your handsome model husband and make those sheep drool! :) Best of luck, babe!
2006-11-13 16:13:36 · answer #4 · answered by LaLaLaBamba 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I know what small towns can be like and I really feel for you. All you can do is forget all those creeps and be happy within yourself. Once you are able to ignore the boys and find inner peace and happiness they will see what idiots they have been and the invites will start rolling in. Be strong!
2006-11-13 16:14:26 · answer #5 · answered by AussieHel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you do not need a boy friend to feel happy. Relationships take time and effort on all parties involved. If someone has called you a name, overlook it. Usually people do this when they feel bad about themselves and want others to feel bad too. Keep up your studies and other interests and when you least expect it, something will happen. Best of luck to you.
2006-11-13 16:13:35 · answer #6 · answered by beeotch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't really knew what to tell you because i have the same problem. I'm dieing for a boyfriend, but i never going because i care more about my friends then being popular and when you got to a school as small as mine there's no such thing as starting over cuz every body knows you and have known you your whole life. and guys only like hot b i t c h who well jump in bed and have sex with them.
2006-11-13 16:14:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just focus on doing your best in school right now and the rest will eventually follow. If you have a weight problem, seek out advice on what you can do yourself to help it. It may be a medical thing too. Don't worry and don't be in a hurry to find the WRONG person!
2006-11-13 16:23:26 · answer #8 · answered by gary t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you live in one town, doesnt mean you can't date a guy in a different town. Go to a mall or bowling alley or something like that, and look for guys. Bring a couple friends if it makes you feel comfortable
2006-11-13 16:12:48 · answer #9 · answered by Frank 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you are not!!! Your man in waiting is going to be well worth the wait, and everyone will be jealous!! girl! you don't need a man to be happy, if you stop looking at it that way, you'll see that you truly are a great, happy, and beautiful woman!!! and when you stop looking for a guy, Mr. WOnderful will come and whisk you off your feet!
2006-11-13 16:11:52 · answer #10 · answered by lily 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't depend on a guy to make you happy. Wait till you are a little older and there are more options. Grade school (I'm assuming) is not the best time for a boyfriend. They are immature. focus on your grades.
2006-11-13 16:12:54 · answer #11 · answered by ~jenjen~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋