ok I have been dating this girl for about 3 months now which isn't that long, but I tried to break up with her and she started to cry and get super emotional... she was like almost begging me not to break up with her, saying she could change and stuff, and i gave in. I still dont really enjoy spending time with her and I want to try to break up with her but without her getting really sad again... is there anyway i can ease into it???
2006-11-13 08:09:44 · 6 answers · asked by ChargerS 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're just hurting her more by pretending. You just need to suck it up and break it off. Some girls will get super emotional and some wont at all. She's going to be sad but don't ease into it because she may not get the picture. Just end it, be blunt and walk away. She will get over it and eventually learn from it. She deserves to be with someone that enjoys her and you deserve to be with someone that you enjoy.
2006-11-13 08:15:44 · answer #1 · answered by *mxgirl115* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no she is a drama queen and she has very many problems which is another reason you shouldn't date her any more. just tell her you are to busy and don't have time for a relationship. She is putting on a big show just to make it hit your harder to make you stay she will be fine.
2006-11-13 16:20:30 · answer #2 · answered by kate86 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is not simple way to do this. you just have to be honest and tell her that you dont feel the same as she does and it would be a lie to still stay together. read tips on dating and relationships to help you more on this site
2006-11-13 16:14:41 · answer #3 · answered by yummy _ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are thinking of her feelings over yours and that is good but you have to think of yourself too. if you prolong it, it will get harder to do trust me. she is going to be sad no doubt but atleast she wont be in a one sided relationship.
2006-11-13 16:17:52 · answer #4 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did this once and then wussed out. Tell her again firmly on phone and then back off. she needs to grow up
2006-11-13 16:15:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Huh... Klingon. Not much you can do about with her getting emotional...
2006-11-13 16:12:10 · answer #6 · answered by Zach S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋