me and 1 of my old friends use to hang out all the time and we were really close but now she's a popular *********./s.l.u.t. she failing school, smokes behind her parents back, drinks, and has sex. So as u can guess she the most popular kid in our 7th grade. now people might say move on but she is my neighbor and god said to love and help our neighbor, now don't get me wrong i'm not a religous freak at all, but i remeber when we were little kids she always wanted to learn bout god but i never had anything to say, we tryed to have a bible club but you know how well 7 year olds can maintain a club we tryed 2 time but then things just fell apart so we gave up. but now that i want to help her i don't knew how.
2006-11-13 08:03:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I would tell her that she is throwing her life away. She is doing all these things that are meant for 25 yo not 12 and 13. Look tell her how she is acting if you guys were as good friends as you say then hopefully she will take ur advice. Look i had a friend just like that but come to find out i did the same thing and she didnt listen to wat i had to say she turned away and continued to keep doing wat she was doing. Then a couple months later i came to find out that she was in a house fire she made it out alive but she and her boyfriend practically started the fire. they were in the basement smoking weed and drinking and having sex she was exactly like your friend.
If you really care about the take my or anyone elses advice because if you dont say anything and you just let her go down the road she going then things for her might turn out grim.
Also if this doesnt work i srry but i would stopp hanging around her if you get too involed you might end up doing the same thing. and going down the same road.
well thats all good luck with your friend. i hope she chooses the right thing to do what ever it is you may do.
2006-11-13 08:35:57 · answer #1 · answered by *Dat*-*Libra*-*Cutie* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all don't go down the same road she is just to become friends with her again. You really should confront her and as sad as it may sound if things get any worse you will have to tell someone else about what is going on before it's to late. If you don't tell she may become pregnant early which could be fatal for some one so young and before she does something really stupid. Wish I could tell you this is gonna be easy but it's not. You may loose your friend but at least you know that you can do some thing to help her that she will surely be thankful for later if life. You're young enough where you can still make friends who will hve your back and not make you choose or put you in this kind of position. plus if is really your friend she will see that you are very worried about her and make and effort to change if she doesn't and she keeps on doing it to be popular then I'm sorry but she may not be as good of a friend as you thought she was. I'm sorry and I wish you and your friend the best of luck. Wish I could be more help.
2006-11-13 08:17:53 · answer #2 · answered by baby gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick by your friend! Most teenagers go through a phase of experimentation. Some sooner than others. If she has good friends that never stop caring then she is more likely to come through this passage unscarred.
Do not follow in her footsteps if you hope to be a poisitive influence, and at the same time don't try to be little miss perfest that always lectures her. Encourage her to make good desisions. Make good decisions for yourself.
2006-11-13 08:12:27 · answer #3 · answered by love2utam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that doing all these does not make her cool. Just tell her that she should be herself and should not do things to become the most popular. Why not tell her to read the bible or you sit next to her and read it for you.
Thats sweet of you to care so much for a friend. She is lucky to have you as a friend
2006-11-13 08:07:24 · answer #4 · answered by Mr Business 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are to love our neighbor but not always the things they do. Her reason for being popular will not last forever so don't join in.
show her how to have fun in a positive way join a church youth group in a non denominational church such as vineyard.
2006-11-13 08:08:43 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by ability of being in the 'common'/wealthy and so on. group with out having an ear for those much less fortunate 'loser' instructions you're quietly which ability harm to them whether you dont think of so. So get off your extreme CLOUD and hear them. you will see u could have alot greater people on your area than only 'common people'
2016-10-22 00:50:37 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋