Family & Relationships - 10 November 2006

Ok not a real question, but...

There is a woman I see every now and then on my way to work. She's got that certain 'something' and I always try to catch her eye but she always just seems to look straight ahead, so we never make eye contact.
Anyway, I just came out of the sandwich shop near work and she was walking towards me and looked straight at me! I tried a smile but don't know if I pulled it off!
Oh well, but I'm happy now!
Thanks for listening to my babble!
Have a nice weekend!!

2006-11-10 02:17:29 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-10 02:16:57 · 6 answers · asked by jwala 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Is there anywhere she can go in order to find support? That in USA, that is?

2006-11-10 02:15:27 · 16 answers · asked by Graça 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Have you told those you Love that you Love them recently?
sometimes we wait to late to go see those we care about or call them on the phone just to say Hi or I love you you never know when a loved one will be snatched from you. My 28 year old daughter was murdered 11 months ago and one of the things that I hold in my heart is that even though we sure had our ups and downs the day she died I'd decided to give her an early Christmas gift a new winter coat I was mad at her on Monday as we were arguing about her BF and on Tuesday i decided to go see her and give her the coat she loved it kissed me said I love you and 8 1/2 hours later her BF killed her If I hadn't decided to go see her and the last words we'd had would have been in anger I would not have been able to survive this if you love someone tell them today call your parents, your kids, your grandparents, your friends, whoever don't wait until it may be too late God Bless You All

2006-11-10 02:15:13 · 3 answers · asked by katlady927 6 in Friends

She has been going out with him for three years and he kisses a lot of other girls and my friend doesn't know it

2006-11-10 02:14:23 · 14 answers · asked by candyshoplol123 1 in Friends

We both are coworkers. She looks at me and smiles at me at times. She teases me alot. One day she's looking at me and talking to me. And another day she's not. She's a very pretty girl. She's very sweet and kind to me. She's the nicest to me at of all the male employees there. My friends tell me she has a boyfriend, but heard he treats her bad. Maybe she just wants him just for sex. Or she doesn't want to be alone.
What I'm thinking she wants me just for sex. Maybe not. But, she looks like she wants something to do with me. Maybe friends or something. What do you think? I really need serious answers.

2006-11-10 02:14:14 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it ever ok to lie? Like telling your child that Santa Clause exists that was just his helper at the mall, or telling your worry wart of a father your stictches don't hurt because you don't want him to worry and want to do something?

There are lies made everyday by people who just want others to " feel / be ok ". What do you think?

* I have taught my 4 year old son that there is no Santa, that Christmas is the day that Jesus was born. I 've told him that some familys and children do believe that there is a Santa clause and that what someone believes in is one's choice. He knows that people have their own beliefs and to not tell them that they are wrong. He is 4 years old, legally deaf, has cerebal palsey but a very intelligent little boy.

2006-11-10 02:12:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-10 02:12:19 · 14 answers · asked by beckybrowneyes85 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband is deployed, and i know that things are sooo stressfull and that he wants to be home and he really misses me and his family... i know he is upset that he cant be with me during our pregnancy, but he tends to just get really mad over nothing, like the fact that i spend hours at an army rec. center to be on the computer in hopes that i will be able to catch him on... i try very hard to deal with him and him "accusing" me of being unfaithful, but every time he does it, it gets harder and harder... i've even had to hang up on him many times, for the health of the baby i couldnt argue with him... i always end up feeling sooooo bad and like its all my fault and that i just wasnt being "good" enough to not make him mad... i lash out on him sometimes and act very mean to him when he does this.. but its the last way i want to act... i dont know how to deal with him though... i always am doing something to make him smile... so why does he lash out on me? and how do i handle it?

2006-11-10 02:11:48 · 9 answers · asked by red.one9luv 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I always do the same things for dates: movies, dinner, dancing, and occasionally we shoot pool. It's starting to get kinda boring.

What are some different things we can do on a Friday or Saturday night?

We're in the Atlanta area.

2006-11-10 02:11:02 · 13 answers · asked by chocolate-drop 5 in Singles & Dating

life is stuck in between work and sleep...no fun. I need advice, prescription and will be greatfull if I find anyone in london as a friend who knows london better than me.

2006-11-10 02:10:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been a stay-at-home mom for 3 years....my husband and I are now separated....we have a 3 yr old son....and he's only given me 50.00 bucks total in the past five weeks....and I still haven't been able to get a job (still trying to get one)! He definitely needs to give me more money for our son. Also, if we get divorced....will I be able to get spousal support in addition to child support?

2006-11-10 02:09:37 · 11 answers · asked by caramelqueen 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I slept with my sons girlfriend and now she is pregnant and says she loves me and wants to to "face my responsibilities" and if i dont she will tell my son
How do i get her out of all our lives? I dont want to be with her she was just a change, i love my wife and my son and she wont get rid of the kid
somebody please suggest something i got too much to loose here i'm 51 she 27 help me

2006-11-10 02:08:19 · 35 answers · asked by Lou 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Have you told those you Love that you Love them recently?
sometimes we wait to late to go see those we care about or call them on the phone just to say Hi or I love you you never know when a loved one will be snatched from you. My 28 year old daughter was murdered 11 months ago and one of the things that I hold in my heart is that even though we sure had our ups and downs the day she died I'd decided to give her an early Christmas gift a new winter coat I was mad at her on Monday as we were arguing about her BF and on Tuesday i decided to go see her and give her the coat she loved it kissed me said I love you and 8 1/2 hours later her BF killed her If I hadn't decided to go see her and the last words we'd had would have been in anger I would not have been able to survive this if you love someone tell them today call your parents, your kids, your grandparents, your friends, whoever don't wait until it may be too late God Bless You All

2006-11-10 02:08:12 · 3 answers · asked by katlady927 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

This is my first propper relationship even tho its only been a month, i rly lyk him. hes vry sweet nd often says he loves me. wenever im with him all we do is kiss. I'm scared about sleeping with him tho, were always alopn in his room nd he has dropped hints about having sex, bt im a virgin nd terrified tht i dnt no if im rly ready for it, altho wen im with him i feel ver self consious bt he does make me feel loved. i was sexually abused as a child by my grandfather so this is rly a big deal to me, wt shud i do

2006-11-10 02:06:25 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-10 02:06:06 · 1 answers · asked by lko 1 in Weddings

Been having problems with my boyfriend, we have arguing alot about trust because he has given me some reasons to believe that he is cheating with a girl in one of his college classes. He calls her on the way to class, invites her to work out with his friends on the weekends, ims texts messages her all the time. She does have a boyfriend, but she always seems uncomfortable around me, my boyfriend says its because she think that I don't like her (go figure). I have been trying to distance myself because I don't like the idean of being cheated on. He has been acting distant and distracted won't spend time with me that much anymore because he says that he is carring a heavy course load. I am so mad at him because of all that has been going on with this situation.

He sent me a text message this morning saying "still thinking of you" and then another this afternoon. He finally called later that evening twice and I talked to him. I call the next morning NO ANSWER????

2006-11-10 02:05:59 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-10 02:05:46 · 12 answers · asked by pretty blue 1 in Singles & Dating

My girl friends lets her 13 year daughter sleep with her every night unless if I was to stay the night and then the daughter will stay up all night and walk around the house . They both know it isn't right but they keep on doing it even my counselor has said it was wrong and hers say it was wrong but she just don't stop it really bothers me and worry me too We are engaged to be married in May what is the answer to this. One other thing she was brought up the sameway with her mother and she isn't like some low life women she is an IT for a big company.

2006-11-10 02:05:19 · 10 answers · asked by isitreal1963 3 in Family

i like to try new things and well i would like to try what you guys tell me if i already havent...thanks for your help

2006-11-10 02:04:07 · 13 answers · asked by Brandon 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i've had 3 serious relationships in my life and in all 3 after or during the 6 year mark i've cheated or falling for someone else......how do i break this pattern........i truly believe i am the happist when i'm dating 2 people at the same time....it's exciting and challenging all at the same time and usually what one is lacking the other has......how do i change this pattern......

2006-11-10 02:03:16 · 15 answers · asked by non-curious 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband cheated on me 3 yrs ago and didn't tell me the whole story until recently. Our marriage has been on the rocks ever since everything happened...he has been abusive and not there for me when I really needed him(after having a child and surgery, etc). He says its my fault and that I need to get over it all. I told him that it was up to him to make me feel better about our relationship and to feel safe and secure with him. I can't make him understand that...am I right?

2006-11-10 02:03:04 · 11 answers · asked by caramelqueen 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have never had what most people would see as a real relationship, I tend not to hang around long and keep things really casual. How do you know when you are ready to have a proper relationship?

2006-11-10 02:02:58 · 8 answers · asked by Maverick off Top Gun 3 in Singles & Dating

In my last question it wasnt enough info so here I go again. My brother was adopted by my dad who abused him off and on for fifteen years. By the time he was 16, my dad had attacked him several times in front of the rest of us.

My grandmother moved to SC and took him with her, but my dad broke out of prison and with a partner, kidnapped him. He was abused, and, you know, over a five-day period before found by police.

My dad's in prison with a life sentance.

My mom and I moved to SC shortly after that to be with my grandma. My mom hates my brother though, they're always getting into fights.

Because of my brother, I have lost both my mother and my father. I know it is not his fault, but why do I feel so angry twoards him, and yet so loving twoards my parents?

(he is 17 now)

Hope this is 'nuff explination. Thanks to whoever said I needed more info =S

2006-11-10 02:00:09 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm looking for a book or resources for 12yr old girl who lives in a heart breaking situation. She is becoming discouraged after living with her father who got custody of her a couple of years ago. He is not emotionally supportive of her, he is over controlling to the point of being a jerk. He is an angry man and takes it all out on her and anyone else in the family who crosses his path. Social services was called on him this week because he wouldn't take her to the dr after being sick for a week. So far social services hasn't done their part in what's best for her. A stupid judge gave him custody a couple of years ago because she was living with maternal grandma who took great care of her (mom runs around).
I'm looking for something to give her that will encourage her spirit so that she won't become defeated inside, preferably Christian based but will consider other resources.
Those of us who love her feel like our hands our tied. If we speak up we don't get to see her.

2006-11-10 01:59:32 · 7 answers · asked by nursechic 3 in Family

do others think it sets an extremely bad example for our children? they are learning from these idiots that if your marriage isnt perfect then the thing to do is get a divorce rather than what they should be learning which is that you work through the bad times. do others see this as an extremely bad example being set for our children as well?

2006-11-10 01:58:47 · 18 answers · asked by Mark 1 in Marriage & Divorce

" for about 20 yrs. :) " we can go out together have a great time as well...but i know we could go to the next level now,...does it matter if she's been with a guy that has a very large tool :) and i just have an average one.....because i've heard that sometimes when people take the next set ,it can kill the friendship and i'd rather the friend than take the next set ..but i'd love too like really love too :)

2006-11-10 01:58:17 · 4 answers · asked by Bob 2 in Singles & Dating

I am engaged to a 24 year old guy who is moving to New York City to be with me. I am 29 and know from experience that in NYC most men don't get married until their 30s because of the large population of young, attractive available women. I think that when my fiance gets here because he is young and attractive, he will eventually leave me because of his age and the fact that he may feel like he's missing out. I am too old to take such a huge risk. What is the possibility that this works in NYC? I fear the probability is very low.

2006-11-10 01:56:38 · 8 answers · asked by AMS-NYC 1 in Singles & Dating

Following on from my last Q, if a guy says he loves the chase, does that always mean that he will leave you once he has caught you?or does it mean that he just thinks the chase is the best part?

2006-11-10 01:56:24 · 12 answers · asked by XCuteX 1 in Singles & Dating

....as much as I do?

2006-11-10 01:55:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends