I slept with my sons girlfriend and now she is pregnant and says she loves me and wants to to "face my responsibilities" and if i dont she will tell my son
How do i get her out of all our lives? I dont want to be with her she was just a change, i love my wife and my son and she wont get rid of the kid
somebody please suggest something i got too much to loose here i'm 51 she 27 help me
2006-11-10 02:08:19 · 35 answers · asked by Lou 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Serves you right you cheating b a s t a r d! You better accept your responsibilities! I feel bad for your wife and son, I really do. You don't deserve to have them.
2006-11-10 02:11:42 · answer #1 · answered by Fantasy686 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
boy this yahoo answers get dumb and dumer by the day 51 years old and you've gotten your sons girlfriend pregnant way to go you will lose your son over this but then i guess you were not thinkin about this when you slept with her in the first place where did all the morals in the world go these days I'm sorry but i don't feel your pain all i can say is i hope your son doesn't kick you to the curb right along with what i think is trash someone who comes between a son and father has no morals
2006-11-10 02:42:29 · answer #2 · answered by kayme42 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call Jerry Springer, you will get a free trip to New York out of it. Your wife will never trust you again, and your son probably won't either. You will most likely lose everything, all for fifteen minutes, Hope it was worth it. Oh and congratulations, you have 18 years of writing her checks, and going to birthday parties and school functions with the girl. Better luck with the next kid.
2006-11-10 02:43:05 · answer #3 · answered by Julie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are a dick.
But, it'll come out eventually, you f'd up big time.
You gotta start trying to put it back together now, come clean first because you can't escape it.
And you can't force someone into an abortion, just because you don't want another baby. Your gonna have to be a dad to the kid, just not in a couple with her, if you want to have any relationship with your wife and son.
If you don't sart being a man and stepping up to face the problem you've created you'll become a lonely old man pretty quick.
2006-11-10 02:18:53 · answer #4 · answered by madnesscon 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First Of all. If you say you love your wife and son then that love you have for them would not have allowed you to do something so shameful.. Imagine how hurt your son will be when and if he finds out. Just be honest with your family and take it from there. If the outcome is bad.. its only your fault to have allowed the situation to come out the way it did...shame on you!
2006-11-10 02:37:35 · answer #5 · answered by a_lovely_latina77 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You did the deed...you take care of the child...thats the way things are supposed to work in this world.
Own up to your responsibilities. That was your mistake and you should live up to it. Your son is gonna find out either way.
O and by the way. YOU'RE 51, GROW UP!!!
2006-11-10 02:12:13 · answer #6 · answered by Jenn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are screwed, friend. You have 2 options.
1. Convince her to break up with your son, and become her "sugar daddy", moving her to an apartment several cities away and continually financially supporting her and the kid until he/she is 18, praying your family never finds out. This option would probably be very evil.
2. Confess. You might lose your family, you might not. You never know. Your best option is to come clean and beg for forgiveness.
2006-11-10 02:13:05 · answer #7 · answered by Kimberly H 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You need more help than anyone on this site can give you. You'd better find yourself:
1) an attorney
2) marriage and family counselor
3) some place to stay, out of town or out of state
4) a second job to handle all of your future financial obligations
"...just a change..." is going to cost you dearly.
2006-11-10 02:28:44 · answer #8 · answered by SafetyDancer 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you've already lost everything and how dare you say that you love your wife and son, you are a total ar*ehole and deserve all that you have coming to you, I really hope the girl tells all.
2006-11-10 02:59:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you were tempted and took the temptation...Now their is no way of getting out of this because their is proof that you did it ...A baby...How does She no it isn't your Son baby too....You need to face this with your Wife and your Son...You should go to your wife with this first....Do a lot of Praying before you do anything...Satan came through your Sons Girl Friend...To do damage...And you weekend and took the bait now you have to be a man and tell your wife....Tell this girl that She don't have to threaten you any more that you will be the one to tell your family....And tell her to get lost until that baby is born ...Then do a maternity test to prove who's baby it is ....For all you no it could be your sons...And she is just telling you this .....God bless you through this but go to your wife....And let her in own this...
2006-11-10 02:27:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋