She has been going out with him for three years and he kisses a lot of other girls and my friend doesn't know it
2006-11-10 02:14:23 · 14 answers · asked by candyshoplol123 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
if you care about this friend then you will tell her! even if she gets mad and doesnt believe you! plus you will feel batter about yourself! good luck
2006-11-10 02:18:28 · answer #1 · answered by lil nic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is what I would do is to have a talk with him tell him that you are on to him and you have seen him kissing other girls and ask him what is it he is after and is it really being true to her and to himself. Let him Know that you are having a hold time not to tell your friend and if she was to see or hear anything about this then you will have to do what is right. One other thing is how did you return the kiss or did you set him straight about this. If your girl friend and him have been seeing each other for 3 years she would have to seen or know some thing that he is a flirt.
2006-11-10 10:43:58 · answer #2 · answered by isitreal1963 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you want to be told if the situation was reversed? With my best friend, I would tell her because we are totally honest with each other even if it hurts. I think this will really depend on how strong your friendship is, but she really does have the right to know.
2006-11-10 10:19:48 · answer #3 · answered by carlita231 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, tell her. If he's kissing lots of other girls, then he's problably cheated on her as well. The question I have for you is why did you let him kiss you?
2006-11-10 10:44:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You brought that on yourself...... a guy knows when you are open to a kiss, by your body language, flirting....
Its a dangerous game that you girls play......flirt, tease, flirt, tease....then when you get what you are after....you cry foul. Go ahead tell her....but the whole story. It takes two to kiss.
2006-11-10 11:58:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi!!
If u are her true friend u need to tell her what he is doing she will hurt and mad but she should still know and u should be the one that tells her
2006-11-10 11:11:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should make him tell her. Confront him like I know what your doing and your dead wrong, You need to tell your girlfriend and my best friend taht you have a problem with keeping your lips off other women. And if he does not do it YOU TELL!!
2006-11-10 10:21:17 · answer #7 · answered by Deneisha D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
r u true friends r not .if u r u mustdefinitely tell her she has the right to know .though she dosent trust u in this matter because he is her lover she must know this .then she can take any decisions
dont let him do that again to u!!!!!!
2006-11-10 10:38:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes defanatly!! If you are a true friend you will defanatly tell her! She may be mad at first but just explain to her that he kissed you , not you kissed him!
2006-11-10 10:40:06 · answer #9 · answered by chris'sbaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell her..and she should drop him..but dont be surprised if she doesnt believe you,.....she *loves* him and she might only believe him..which he most likley tell her that he doesnt(kiss other girls)..but if you tell her and you are her bff...then she should believe you..plus the fact that he kissed you too...might put some unwanted tension between you 2..
2006-11-10 10:21:23 · answer #10 · answered by *~Angel_Eyes~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋