Family & Relationships - 10 November 2006

I am in love with this man, we have been on again off again for about 6 months, know him from years ago, is my lost love. Well; we will start seeing each other again and when I think that things are really going good, he disappears off the map, no contact, like I have done something wrong. He told my friend, not me, that it is because of the fact I smoke and he doesn't. Have stated that I would quit, I am that crazy in love with him. Is the smoking thing just an excuse??? Can someone who doesn't smoke, be with someone who does and be happy? Is he blowing me some crap? Please give advice

2006-11-10 01:07:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why is it that most people on this website answer sex related questions : " after your married you could......" and "....don't do that before your married" . It just seems like BS to me.

2006-11-10 01:06:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hi there, please can you give me some advice, i feel i am at the end of my tether, i have been with my boyfriend for 8yrs since i was 14 and have a 4 yr old boy, since we have been together i have constantly found every few months him talking with other girls on the net, ringing chat lines etc yet denies it when confronted, says im being stupid, blames everything on me for him doing it and then gets lovey duvy and says hes sorry and gets upset and i end up beleive it. the other day i found out that he has made an account on my space which i didnt know about, called himself romeo, told some girl she was beautiful etc and on his profile says he has no kids- which really ticks me off !!! and that hes single, i have found it so many times and just keep ignorng it, lastyr we broke up for 2 months and got back together on the condition he would change and he has started again i get the impression if you love someone you dnt speak to other girls like that or am i being silly, what would youdo

2006-11-10 01:05:30 · 6 answers · asked by caz130284 2 in Singles & Dating

I am so confused by all this still. I am 24 years old and I met a divorced woman with 3 children who is 35 years old at my workplace. At first I didn't know she was histrionic, she was very loud and I found her annoying within the first month. After time we started talking and I became attracted to her showering me with constant praise. She was also very in-depth about her sexual adventures with many men.

At first I found her behaviour odd but after time I got used to it and started to find myself acting like her in odd ways which my colleagues noticed. She told me she was bipolar, not sure if this is true. She played constant mind games with me, telling me about other men, and once I met her kids I started to question her lifestyle plus her ex-husband moved back in with her.

I have just got a new job and many work colleagues says its good there is no contact with her, which I found odd at first. But there has been no contact and apparently blokes are all over her.

2006-11-10 01:04:46 · 7 answers · asked by jon y 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-10 01:04:18 · 7 answers · asked by anandhu 1 in Singles & Dating

has anyone from the uk married in morocco to a moroccan how long does it take can it all be done in 10 days advice asap

2006-11-10 01:03:38 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my daughter 13 was with her boy friend having anal sex when i walked in.
when i confronted her she said at least i wont get preg.
what do i say or do

2006-11-10 01:03:17 · 15 answers · asked by seeme 1 in Family

The thing is we dont get to see much of each other, We do see each other on the weekends, I have two kids there 14 and 15. There doing good in school and my daughter is getting a sports scolarship and well he wants me to pick-up and move to his house. He has a 3 bedroom house that he bought and says he wants to make my life easier. But I dont want to just move my kids like that. We have been living in the area for 5 yrs now and my kids are so settled. I told him my kids come first and i cant do that to them. He is very understanding and is willig to wait. Buts hes 48 and I am 44, do you think this will work out? I dont want to lose him.. We are very fond of each other and we are happy? But I afraid I might lose him... Any advise??? The Idea of being alone again is just to painful.... I was alone for 5 yrs untill I met him.

2006-11-10 01:02:57 · 3 answers · asked by ceemagiclydia 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've noticed that when an affair happens the women are usually being labeled as the "homewrecker" and for being the guilty party for destroying a marriage. Now what I don't understand isn't the marriage already destroyed.

No I'm not having an affair so be gentle...LOL

2006-11-10 01:02:49 · 11 answers · asked by Mechelle 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My man wants me to strip for him. I don't really know how to go about doing it, because I'm rather shy, and feel awkward. I'm also fairly self concious. We have been together a long time (3 years) and I really want to do this for him, but am nervous. Any ideas? Do men REALLY like their girlfriends to do this?

2006-11-10 01:02:47 · 16 answers · asked by MaNdYb 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I mean, I see young girls crying all the time over a breakup with some boy who can care less.

2006-11-10 01:02:20 · 13 answers · asked by Brent E 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-10 01:01:56 · 2 answers · asked by asmita s 2 in Singles & Dating

Or is my jaded inside view of marriage clouding the fact that it possibly is a good constitution....?

2006-11-10 01:01:32 · 17 answers · asked by agliotti 3 in Marriage & Divorce

hi am inlove with a certain guy. at frist things were really okey untill early this year when he started behaving funny, he's no where to be for months, only calls once in a while not like he used to do. he doesnt pick up my calls and he only shows up after months. i tried to talk to him about the same but hr has changed. am i wasting my time coz am deeply hurt with what has going on. am i a slave of my own feelings or may be he's fallen out of love?

2006-11-10 01:01:30 · 2 answers · asked by sibeso86 1 in Singles & Dating

a. You accidentally had diarreha and you didn't notice it, and then you realize you are stilling having it and it is spraying all over the place, including at your eyes, mouth and co-workers.

b. A small family of spiders that are putting up a good fight against a team of scorpians that are also in your underwear.

c. A miniaturized Michael Jackson who seems to be happy with how 'snuggily' it is.

d. Enthic cleansing. And your father admits he is gay.

c. Your gender has unexpectadly changed (and thensome).

2006-11-10 01:00:38 · 12 answers · asked by judgemartiniz 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-10 01:00:21 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-11-10 00:58:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-10 00:57:03 · 26 answers · asked by The atheist revolutionary 2 in Singles & Dating

the easier something is to get the less we appreciate it. ok, this is how it usually happens... two people meet, date, and fall in love. then they get married. the major mistake that people make is that any problems encountered will work themselves out. they won't. marriage takes work. work with communication of your needs, work with sexual frustration, work with financancial planning. way too many people leave their marriages on auto pilot instead of sitting down at a table and saying what needs to be said; their expectations, fears and concerns. eventually these problems manifest themselves in different ways and the marriage is doomed. i believe that people would have stronger marriages (= lower divorce rates) if they had to fight to get married in the first place. essentially the bride and groom should be tested on their commitment, character, and ability to solve problems together by couples who are already married. if they don't pass the tests then they don't get to be married.

2006-11-10 00:56:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ever since my mom walked out on us, my brother has continuously been asking me or blow js. When I look at him, I see he looks hurt and sad at the same time. He has a gf but doesnt want to talk to her. I tried making his gf talk to him and come over to talk to him but he refuses. What should i do b/c i cant be the one to give him a bj...

2006-11-10 00:55:19 · 7 answers · asked by ♥Londoners♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

My friends say i am whipped because i said i would mind being a stay at home dad once me and my gf get married and start a family. I said i dont mind getting up cooking her breakfast and kissing her bye as she leaves for work and i get the kid up and change the diaper and fix us breakfast and then get dressed and watch tv and do house work and eat lunch and then take a nap. Wake up from the nap and its play time and we have fun intil its cook dinner time and then mom comes home we eat dinner and as she rest i give the baby a bath and put it to bed and then me and the wife can have are time watching a movie and eatting popcorn and hold each other close. So am i a soon to be whipped man or someone willing to do what it takes?

2006-11-10 00:55:01 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

But he sent my dad to prison because my dad had problem conflicts with my brother and hurt him. My dad even broke out of prison and kidnapped him, giving him life sentance! I love my dad to death even throug all this. My brother can't live with my mother and I because he can't get along with my mother either - which is mainly my mother's fault.

He lives with my gandmother now... but I still miss my dad....am I wrong to miss my dad when he caused so much pain on my brother's life that wasn't my brother's fault?

2006-11-10 00:54:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My sister who is older than me has a 5 year old son. They have babied him so much his a little sissy now. It was their anniversary and they wanted to go out but couldn't find a babysitter, so they decided to leave him with me. I don't know why they were so skeptical, Sleazy is a great role model for the boys. When they dropped him off I decided to take it upon myself to unsissify him and teach him to be a pimp like his Uncle. Well apparently they got a phone call from the school from some lady saying that he was harrasing and bothering girls. That he was calling them Babes and Chicks and was walking around with 3 of them getting kisses and stuff. They also said that he told a teacher lady to "shut up wench" and that she belonged in the kitchen. Hey the kid is a true man now, why is everyone so mad.

2006-11-10 00:53:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-11-10 00:52:13 · 15 answers · asked by joshua_amadei 1 in Singles & Dating

um this gurl like this boy but he dnt like her an she always be trying to talk to him like she would flirt an hide is things an when he be talking she be jumping in but the problem is he dnt like her he like me so u think i should say that she like him???

2006-11-10 00:51:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I've been with my fiance for over 8 years now, and it drives me CRAZY when he goes through my purse. Not that there is any thing in there that he shouldn't see or any thing like that. It just really gets on my nerves and I get, I don't know, frustrated when he does it. Even if it's just for a lighter or a pen or something. Is that normal. Why does it bother me so much. All he has to do is ask and I will tell him if what he needs is in there and I'll get it. So I caught him going through it the other day while I wasn't looking, and he said it's because I get so defensive when he goes in there, so he wanted to know what I'm hiding. Now, I'm a stay at home mom, and we don't do much of any thing unless it's with him. He has no reason to be suspicious. I get defensive because it's a huge pet peeve of mine and he won't quit doing it.

2006-11-10 00:50:30 · 14 answers · asked by lillibellemichele 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been messaging her for nearly 8 months now but this last few months she has been busier than usual studying for her SPM so am i-its a major exam...i understand why she now seldom reply my messages..

2006-11-10 00:49:55 · 8 answers · asked by amos23_1989 1 in Singles & Dating

Oh our star ( Ninja Star that is! ) crossed Ninja Love is a long road but still, is it time to hang up the num kucks and put away the black PJs to settle down to garden and raise Basset Hounds together?

2006-11-10 00:49:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I posted a question on here yesterday about my boyfriend and I. We have had a lot of problems but we talked last night again and we are going to work things out. I think we need to get a change of scenery but I am flat broke. I asked him if he was interested in doing something tonight. He said yes. So I need to know any ideas on what we can do, where we can go....anything to get out of the house that would not cost anything or that was really really cheap. Since I am asking him out I don't want him to have to pay but I am really broke and I just want us to get out for a while for quality time. We live together so getting out of the house is important. Thanks for your ideas in advance.

2006-11-10 00:47:30 · 11 answers · asked by Tiffany S 1 in Singles & Dating

i due to be married in january,i been going out 3 mths with my fiance she told me she went out with her best mates brother but he cheated on her and got another girl pregnent he decided to be with the girl he got pregnent ok with me so far.
i met my fiances best mate we got on really well but ever since i proposed she told my fiance on same day i proposed her ex proposed to the girl hes now with.
i got jumped coming out of snooker hall by 2 guys,one of them works where her ex used to.she constantly says how crap i am,i fight back im the villain,she makes things up shes borrows money of my fiance never pays it back,i say anything im the villain again.my fiance wont here a word said against her,i wouldnt mind but her mate has sarted turning my fiance against my family.
i love my fiance we get on so well,if it wasnt for her mate everything would be perfect,im so down about it i nearly cheated on my fiance please how do i get rid of her mate and show my fiance that shes evil

2006-11-10 00:46:06 · 9 answers · asked by jonas 1 in Singles & Dating