my buddys say i am whipped?

Question

My friends say i am whipped because i said i would mind being a stay at home dad once me and my gf get married and start a family. I said i dont mind getting up cooking her breakfast and kissing her bye as she leaves for work and i get the kid up and change the diaper and fix us breakfast and then get dressed and watch tv and do house work and eat lunch and then take a nap. Wake up from the nap and its play time and we have fun intil its cook dinner time and then mom comes home we eat dinner and as she rest i give the baby a bath and put it to bed and then me and the wife can have are time watching a movie and eatting popcorn and hold each other close. So am i a soon to be whipped man or someone willing to do what it takes?

Answer 1

no your not whiped but your friends are pus..ys they are just full of testostarone there is nothing wrong with you wanting to be a stay at home dad but I have to tell you theres a whole heck of alot more to it then what your thinking.
Have you ever seen the country music video Mr mom?


Mr. Mom


Lost my job, came home mad
Got a hug and kiss and that's too bad
She said I can go to work until you find another job

I thought I like the sound of that
Watch TV and take long naps
Go from a hand working dad to being Mr. Mom

Well
Pampers melt in a Maytag dryer
Crayons go up one drawer higher
Rewind Barney for the fifteenth time
Breakfast, six naps at nine
There's bubble gum in the baby's hair
Sweet potatoes in my lazy chair
Been crazy all day long and it's only Monday
Mr. Mom

Football, soccer and ballet
Squeeze in Scouts and PTA
And there's that shopping list she left
That's seven pages long
How much smoke can one stove make
The kids won't eat my charcoal cake
It's more than any maid can take
Being Mr. Mom

Well
Pampers melt in a Maytag dryer
Crayons go up one drawer higher
Rewind Barney for the sixteenth time
Breakfast, six naps at nine
There's bubble gum in the baby's hair
Sweet potatoes in my lazy chair
Been crazy all day long and it's only Monday
Mr.Mom

Before I fall in bed tonight
If the dog didn't eat the classifieds
I'm gonna look just one more time

'Cause
Pampers melt in a Maytag dryer
Crayons go up one drawer higher
Rewind Barney for the eighteenth time
Breakfast, six naps at nine
There's bubble gum in the baby's hair
Sweet potatoes in my lazy chair
Been crazy all day long
Oh been crazy all day long and it's only Monday
Mr.Mom

Balancin' checkbooks, juggling bills
Thought there was nothing to it
Baby, now I know how you feel
What I don't know is how you do it


I say go for it and dont listen to boozos they couldn't handle doing it but will never admit your the better man for having no fear and a desire to do that! By the way there is nothing wrong with being whipped! Most guys think being loving and respectful of and towards your wife shows weakness what a bunch of dumbass the most wonderful thing you can give to yourself and your wife is to whorship the ground she walks on believe me it will come back to you ten fold and will benifit your children greatly also!

Answer 2

You sound like every woman's dream husband!!
Unfortunately, these days, it takes nearly two parents working and their combined incomes to be able to survive and meet all the expenses of today's world. So, you being a stay at home dad is more of a fantasy than an whipped hubby situation.
It is a fact that women make less income than a man, and so that is one factor to consider in deciding who should do the working. If you would decide that only one of you is going to work, it would probably be more profitable if it was you...you could also come home and help out with the baby while she fixes dinner and help with the dishes so you both can tend to the baby's nighttime routine, and then be able to sit together and spend the rest of the evening together.
I'd say your Buddy's are more chauvinistic than anything, and you should ignore them and you and your g/f make the decisions that will work best for you. You can try it your way, and if it doesn't work out, you can always change it.
I wish you luck in whatever you two choose!!!

Answer 3

TV and a nap....you have no idea of what you will be trying to get done in a day. Housework is a lot more complex than a little dusting and rinsing off the dishes for the dishwasher.

In between the dirty diapers, a kid with a fever who wants to be held constantly, dishes, laundry, cleaning the toilet, grocery shopping, and preparing meals I challenge you to sit around a watch TV, take a nap, and play.

Oh, by the way, did I mention I was a single dad from the time my daughters were 6 and 10? Bubba...you have one rude awakening coming your way.

Answer 4

I don't think you are whipped, I think you are doing what you want and are not letting anyone tell you different.
The way I see it if a man is better at taking care of the house and the kids then let him.
If you & your wife don't have a problem with it, then do as you like.
I think it takes more guts for a man to take care of the house and kids because the world thinks it should be the woman, thats not the case. It should be a decision between the couples not everyone else.

Answer 5

I think that a MAN like you deserves a great woman. There are so few men out there that can take that role (as we women have) and know how important it is to be a stay-at-home-parent. I think your "friends" who are saying you're whipped are so jealous that they don't have the guts to be a great guy like that. I'm married to a man that has both been the bread-winner AND stayed at home and had a clean house with dinner ready for me. I couldn't be more in love almost 10 years later.

You're far ahead of the game! Don't listen to those morons!

Answer 6

To me I commend you for wanting to step up and do what it takes, Your friend is just being a loser and he really doesn't know what it takes to be a good husband and father to your future children...I think that it is wonderful to hear a man like yourself saying things like that ...I am very impressed with you for the well thought and reasoned statement about how you feel...If you do do that your wife is going to be a happy women..But remember there is always a price to be paid by all of this and I am going to give you a clue to this:

One thing if you are going to keep doing this you must stick with it and you cannot slack for a second on it, we women tend to do just that and it ends up landing us in the sling and all of the comments our husbands make when things are not done to there specifications...Just be opened minded on it and be prepared for it down the road but until then keep your thoughts clear and do what your heart says to do...I think you will make a fine husband and father to your children... And as for your friend tell him to get a life....You are not whipped you are just trying to be the best you can be for your girl.. God Bless you and Good luck! Peace out!!

Answer 7

No you are not whipped. But you make all this stay at home stuff a piece of cake. If you think being a stay at home dad is this easy, you better wake up from your nap!!

Answer 8

I don't think you're whipped, but I do think that your idea of what a stay at home mom (or dad) does all day is way off base. It's alot more work than you might think. I did it for a while, and I tell you honestly, I'd rather work.

Answer 9

I don't think you are whipped. Your friends don't get it because thats not a typical male role. I think if thats what you want and will be happy and your gf likes the idea, then you should do it. Just make sure you understand the responsiblities involved in full time parenting. Its not as easy as it seems. Good luck!

Answer 10

It sounds like you have the whole stay at home thing under control! Good for you! If more men were as willing to accept the responsibility there wouldn't be so many unhappy woman on Yahoo! Answers!