My man wants me to strip for him. I don't really know how to go about doing it, because I'm rather shy, and feel awkward. I'm also fairly self concious. We have been together a long time (3 years) and I really want to do this for him, but am nervous. Any ideas? Do men REALLY like their girlfriends to do this?
2006-11-10 01:02:47 · 16 answers · asked by MaNdYb 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
After 3 years there is no part of you that he hasn't seen. try practicing when he is not around so that you can get an idea on what to do. When the time comes to do it in front of him just go with the flow and take hints from him by watching his reactions to what you are doing. You may find that it isn't as hard as you thought. Remember you will be rewarded for your efforts. After all wouldn't you rather have him see you strip then a stranger in a bar. You could also ask him to strip for you next time. Relax and enjoy the moment. Trust me it is only the beginning of a lot of good loving.
2006-11-10 01:17:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do what you are comfortable with but if you have been together for 3 years, then you should trust yourself and trust the relationship. If you want to do it, check out a strip club or video to see how they do it and imitate by yourself in front of a mirror. Once you are comfortable, then show him what you have learned but the key is when you are ready. You won't enjoy it if you are not ready.
2006-11-10 09:25:46 · answer #2 · answered by Batman has left the building 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He sounds a bit adolescent, if y'ask me. When us guys go to a strip joint, we don't do it because we respect and admire the girls. We do it because we consider them sluts who're there for our entertainment. Yes, some guys do want their girlfriends to behave like that, but it would be worth your time to back off a bit and carefully evaluate your relationship with this guy. Does he really care about you or are you simply a piece of entertainment? It takes time and, sometimes, painful honesty, to determine the answer to that.
If, after that very honest evaluation, it turns out that he's just being a bit of a twit, and really does care deeply for you - perhaps attempting a bit of a strip-tease for him wouldn't hurt, so long as it's ONLY between the two of you - and so long as he reciprocates in some manner appropriate to the lengths he's asking you to go to.
To do it, you just put some sensual music on and begin to dance as you might when alone - just move gracefully and casually, and remove one piece of clothing after another, slowly. Tease him when you're down to your underwear, by making him take them off you. Um - I hope you take "precautions", 'cause it's obvious where that will lead!
2006-11-10 09:23:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
HELL YES men like it (normal ones anyway) if you drink at all have a couple of cocktails ,set the mood with the right music(Rob Zombie ,la sexercisto American music to strip to ) and do what you feel like doing, the booze will help loosen you up some but don't have to much that your falling down drunk
2006-11-10 09:29:14 · answer #4 · answered by Droptine s 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
girl let me tell you we have the same question!But what i am learning to do is practice in the mirror put on clothes that make you feel sexy and a little freaky. purchase sexy lingerie practice dancing in the mirror or you can get tipsy and let the alcohol do the rest. IF YOU DONT AGREE WITH THE ALCOHOL JUST WHISPER NASTY THINGS TO HIM AND SOMETIMES ROLE PLAYING IS GOOD .y OU CAN BE THE TEACHERS PET AND HE CAN KEEP YOU AFTER SCHOOL FOR "NOT " PARTICIPATING IN CLASS. gIRL LET HIM SPANK YOU FOR BEING THE BAD GIRL YOU REALLY ARE . girl put that freakhim dress on AND DO YOUR THANG. LET A SISTER KNOW HOW IT WENT AND MAYBE I CAN HELP YOU WITH SOME OTHER STUFF.
2006-11-10 09:13:27 · answer #5 · answered by workmoneycareer 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should try this on your own one day, put some music on and practice, build up your confidence.........
Then you may feel confident enough to do it in front of your BF? Try having a glass of wine or 2 to relax you a bit....? Have the lights low, so it's not too bright.....?
Remember, he's the one who's asked you............you must do something for him if he's asked you?
Of course, if you feel completely uncomfortable with it, don't do it..........
GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-10 09:11:07 · answer #6 · answered by Malc S 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ease into until you feel comfortable try tease and flashing a little
remember what ever is going thru your head about what you think he is thinking (judging your body) trust me he's not his little head is doing all the thinking
good luck and have fun with it
2006-11-10 09:21:47 · answer #7 · answered by mmmkay_us 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First put off the lights, strip up, and enjoy. All the shy will vanish now even if you put on the lights.
Life is to enjoy, so fulfill your wishes.
2006-11-10 09:09:16 · answer #8 · answered by kingofuniverse 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sure, why not. Put on some slow easy music,teddy, heels and just do what come into your head. Its a game of teasing and foreplay.
2006-11-10 09:08:22 · answer #9 · answered by sylviavnpttn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Should be no problem..just like dressing but in reverse with a little bumping an grinding...do it with interest. might help you to turn the lights down a bit..
2006-11-10 09:13:00 · answer #10 · answered by Dirtydog 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋