i due to be married in january,i been going out 3 mths with my fiance she told me she went out with her best mates brother but he cheated on her and got another girl pregnent he decided to be with the girl he got pregnent ok with me so far.
i met my fiances best mate we got on really well but ever since i proposed she told my fiance on same day i proposed her ex proposed to the girl hes now with.
i got jumped coming out of snooker hall by 2 guys,one of them works where her ex used to.she constantly says how crap i am,i fight back im the villain,she makes things up shes borrows money of my fiance never pays it back,i say anything im the villain again.my fiance wont here a word said against her,i wouldnt mind but her mate has sarted turning my fiance against my family.
i love my fiance we get on so well,if it wasnt for her mate everything would be perfect,im so down about it i nearly cheated on my fiance please how do i get rid of her mate and show my fiance that shes evil
2006-11-10 00:46:06 · 9 answers · asked by jonas 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This sounds like a Trisha episode in the making, walk away dude and be thankful you were able to. Getting people to jump you... nice. And if she cant see it then her blind stupidity makes me sad and you would do better off without it dragging you down. Love may be blind, but you shouldn't ignore the rest of the world either...
Also, you're marrying someone you have been going out with for 3 months... if you think you know her and all the related problems by now, then you haven't got a clue. Its not going to get any better when she has a lump of rock on her finger.
You're 'so down you nearly cheated on her'? CHRIST! This is a match made in heaven isn't it?! That's some awesome problem solving ability you have there sunshine.
2006-11-10 01:00:22 · answer #1 · answered by Caffeine Fiend 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To be honest I didn;t quite understand all of that but I think that you are never going to be able to prove to your girl that her best mate is evil. If you do, she is most likely to chose her over you as much as that pains me to say. I think that you need to get your gal on her own away from other people and ask her to listen to your concerns. To be honest, if you both feel the same way about eachother then she will understand and you will probably be able to come to some sort of compromise.
Her mate is most likely to be jealous of your relationship. Watch your back though... her mate may be coming after you!
Good luck... I hope you are happy with your wife-to-be!
:-)
2006-11-10 08:52:23 · answer #2 · answered by brumbeep 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the fiance. If she's tolerating anything said against you then she doesn't love you as much as you love her anyway. Besides - three months is way too short to decide whether you know someone well enough.
2006-11-10 08:51:44 · answer #3 · answered by agliotti 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bloody hell you could have made that a bit clearer!!
i think i get the gist, well it sounds as if you do really love your fiancee' although I'm slightly worried about the 'i nearly cheated on her'... those thoughts shouldn't enter your head mate if you truly love her..
sounds as if your fiancee best mate has it in for you, presumably she thinks the world of you too! so talk to her... say that she is constantly putting me down and i don't know why she has it in for me',.....honesty is the best policy mate...... tell her it makes you feel so down and that she's taking advantage of her... it could be that she feels jealous of the fact that you and your fiancee are so close and maybe she feels pushed to the side .....
just talk it out between yourselves, ......
and don't go and jeopardise your future because of one inconsiderate person
2006-11-10 09:08:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your fiance everything let her know that u love her so much that u can't bear 2 lose her b'cos of her mate after try devising her 2 breakup wit her mate.
2006-11-10 09:09:15 · answer #5 · answered by Debbie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm having a hard time with how you are saying things, but, why don't you try introducing this other person to another male/female, whatever and see if they will get along. Maybe then they will leave you alone. Good Luck.
2006-11-10 08:51:30 · answer #6 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've got similair problems, the best thing to do is ignore this person, and your friend will realise of her own accord
2006-11-10 09:52:14 · answer #7 · answered by xx_lush_xx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the application of lead at high velocity would offer a swift and lasting solution
2006-11-10 09:02:40 · answer #8 · answered by sid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a tough one, have you tried talking to your fiance? maybe get them both in a room and confront her?
2006-11-10 08:58:38 · answer #9 · answered by anna63 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋