Family & Relationships - 10 November 2006

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 10 months now and we moved in together a couple of months ago. Things are pretty good, but we are having some trouble because I have a history of abuse (sexually) and my boyfriend wants sex all the time! He does like to do other things with me, and we have a lot of fun together, but I can tell it is on his mind a lot. When he is "playful" it is always sexual, never platonic...It is now to the point where I only feel comfortable doing "it" 2-3x a month!! He is getting depressed and feels like I don't care for him anymore, but I can't bring myself to have sex if I am not comfortable, and I am starting to think I am not comfortable because I feel like if he wants sex this much he must not respect me...what do you think?? Should I just try to lighten up and know that he respects me, or am I right in being suspicious??

2006-11-10 02:37:21 · 6 answers · asked by Figuring things out... 2 in Singles & Dating

I AM DATING THIS GUY NAMED RODNEY TROUT AMD SOME TIMES HE SAYS STUFF THAT BOTHERS ME BUT I KNO HE REALY DOSENT MEAN IT I TOLD HIM THAT ONE OF THE THINGS IS THAT I THINK HES THE ONE I WANNA HAVE SEX WITH what do i do?

2006-11-10 02:36:57 · 12 answers · asked by devin102791 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been writing emails to a guy that I've dated for awhile, where I'll be serious & fun at the same time...for a good balance so he's not overwhelmed with the seriousness. But after I say something like how much I care about him, but at the end I'll ask him questions like what car I should buy next (I told him before that I want a new car) hinting to him that I trust his opinion. So is it okay to be serious & fun at the same time in an email? If I ask questions like that, to get back with me, can that be annoying to where he won't contact me anymore? Just curious.

2006-11-10 02:36:55 · 7 answers · asked by feisty 2 in Singles & Dating

I was dating this guy for not even two months and he just dumped me. Am I just completely disgusting and drive guys away? He said we had nothing in common but he still wanted to hang out... why would he want to hang out with someone he has nothing in common with? Thats what makes me think that it was just because Im ugly :-( Dont be an asshole but let me know what I should do to get over it.

2006-11-10 02:35:45 · 24 answers · asked by Kaleigh 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-10 02:35:15 · 13 answers · asked by one 1 in Singles & Dating

he says he likes going online to play head games with girls by flirting with them and getting them to like them and then telling them sorry but i'm taken...only thing is that he said he had been interested in one of the girls and i don't think she was the ony one he's ever been interested in.

2006-11-10 02:34:15 · 13 answers · asked by drizztbabe 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-10 02:33:44 · 11 answers · asked by x3mickeymousex0 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-10 02:33:36 · 25 answers · asked by kally m 2 in Weddings

My young sister got a two Cs and all As on her report card. I got a couple of Cs but they didn't talk the way they did to me to her when I was a kid. They acted meaner to her and i don't know how to help her get through her problem because our grandmother keeps on lying and saying that she never does her homework but when Im downstairs with her i always help her with her homwork. so I was wonderin if you could help me help her. She always has All As but now they want to bring her down

2006-11-10 02:32:36 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-11-10 02:31:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he says that he doesn't to talk to me dirty because i am his wife, and he feels that it is disrespectful. how do i help understand that dirty talk actually turns me on?

2006-11-10 02:31:50 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I guess it's rare for a woman to find a man worth chasing and most guys no matter how good looking they are almost automatically do the chasing.......so Ladies here is your chance to give your opinion ..... to chase or be chased....

2006-11-10 02:31:36 · 15 answers · asked by giovanni g 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-10 02:31:31 · 23 answers · asked by TheHappyGuy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-10 02:29:19 · 15 answers · asked by barbiss2002 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I AM NOT AFRAID OF COMMITMENT. I AM AFRAID OF BEING HEARTBROKEN BY SOMEONE I TRULY LOVE AND WOULD DO ANYTHING FOR.

2006-11-10 02:28:24 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i dont understand how it is possible to get out of a good 2 year relationship and be dating someone else 2 weeks later . . . we broke up for no reason because she "wanted to date around" and was dating basically the first guy that showed interest 2 weeks later . . . .they are still together now but she has been calling/texting/emailing me every 1,2,3 weeks atleast but i have not answered anything from her since june and she is still doing it . . . . is this guy a rebound? and what is going on, why is she trying to contact me like this?

2006-11-10 02:27:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-10 02:26:07 · 34 answers · asked by sex_drugs_sausage_rolls 1 in Singles & Dating

My "friend" came back. It doesn't have a name it just talks to me. It kept telling me to kill. I would never harm another person so I took it upon myself to hang myself in the garage. I made up a noose and put it over the shelf. When I came to the shelf had broken and I was laying on the floor spitting out dirt. After that my friend left me and I haven't heard from it since. This was the only time it told me to do something potentially harmful - except I wasn't harmed. I think it knew I would be safe. I miss it now because I have no one else to talk to. Does this make sense to anyone?

2006-11-10 02:25:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-10 02:25:05 · 38 answers · asked by misbehave4me 4 in Singles & Dating

I recently broke up with my boyfriend of four years, who I lived with for two.. was the right decision totally. Don't even miss him at all. I met a guy online who I had been talking to for several months prior to the breakup, and we met for the first time last Friday and really hit it off, had a nice kiss, etc etc. We are going out this weekend and he has been steadily calling me. I like him a lot. He too recently (not as recent as me) ended a long-term relationship. It feels right, but how can I be sure we aren't each other's rebounds? We really click...

2006-11-10 02:23:07 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

IS IT BECAUSE YOUR LONELY? OR WANT TO TRY SOMETHING NEW? WOULD LOVETO KNOW WHAT YOU THINK!

2006-11-10 02:21:41 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

well as it says in the title what else except sorry can i say? me and my friend who is female recently fell out over a misunderstanding and since then i have txt her 4 times saying i am sorry and i have e-mailed her once i have said sorry everytime and have still not got anything back what else can i say and am i doing something wrong for repeatedly saying sorry. i also have a crush on this girl and if we are not talking then there is no way that i can tell her how i feel and say them specific three words everyone loves to here. all help is much appreciated

i have one friend saying i should just phone her and see if we are ok and another says i should phone her and tell her how i really feel and the third friend i have told says i should just leave it for now and see what happens when i see her at the weekend at work

2006-11-10 02:21:21 · 12 answers · asked by scott C 2 in Singles & Dating

at home when i dont help around i get told off but when i do help they dont appriceiate it i fell abit left out

2006-11-10 02:21:05 · 18 answers · asked by chloexxxclojoxxx 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have an engagement ring that my fiance got from my aunt, she told him it was real but i know her QVC habits with jewlery....the inside is stamped 14K DQ CZ.....this means that it is Diamonique made by QVC right? and it is basically not real??

2006-11-10 02:20:10 · 12 answers · asked by Brittni Freeman 1 in Weddings

2006-11-10 02:19:58 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

sometimes we wait to late to go see those we care about or call them on the phone just to say Hi or I love you you never know when a loved one will be snatched from you. My 28 year old daughter was murdered 11 months ago and one of the things that I hold in my heart is that even though we sure had our ups and downs the day she died I'd decided to give her an early Christmas gift a new winter coat I was mad at her on Monday as we were arguing about her BF and on Tuesday i decided to go see her and give her the coat she loved it kissed me said I love you and 8 1/2 hours later her BF killed her If I hadn't decided to go see her and the last words we'd had would have been in anger I would not have been able to survive this if you love someone tell them today call your parents, your kids, your grandparents, your friends, whoever don't wait until it may be too late God Bless You All

2006-11-10 02:19:44 · 7 answers · asked by katlady927 6 in Family

Dating interracial. Which race do you prefer Asian, Black, Latin? Why? Is it a fantasy or preference?

Please answer honestly and seriously. Adults only or mature teens if interested in answering. This is no prejudice and am very interested since I date interracial myself. Please add. What is your race. This is a racist question, I am black mixed with white and I date white and latin. It is my preference. I am making a point interracail dating is the In nowdays. I am happy about it

2006-11-10 02:19:11 · 3 answers · asked by OMG I thought I saw A Kitty Kat 2 in Singles & Dating

My Fiance and I want to get married, but we have the fear that his wife won't sign the divorce papers. (They have been seperated for nearly 4 years) Also is there somewhere we can go for free/low cost divorce services?

2006-11-10 02:18:39 · 9 answers · asked by jaina64 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am visiting an old friend and will be there for a week. My son 15 years old hates long drives and says he will be bored because he doesn't know my friend. We will make stops along the way but he still says he doesn't want to go. I'd like this to be an enjoyable trip but he can make things miserable for all of us however I am the "boss"and I'm sure if he goes he'll find something of interest. I don't know what to do. Make him go or let him stay in town with family?

2006-11-10 02:18:04 · 18 answers · asked by Jacobi S 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

thatt she must good from figure , face or she have a good heart,good behaviour ,what type of girl is important for him

2006-11-10 02:17:54 · 7 answers · asked by rosy 1 in Marriage & Divorce