i dont understand how it is possible to get out of a good 2 year relationship and be dating someone else 2 weeks later . . . we broke up for no reason because she "wanted to date around" and was dating basically the first guy that showed interest 2 weeks later . . . .they are still together now but she has been calling/texting/emailing me every 1,2,3 weeks atleast but i have not answered anything from her since june and she is still doing it . . . . is this guy a rebound? and what is going on, why is she trying to contact me like this?
2006-11-10 02:27:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like this other guy was already in the picture during your relationship, and when she said she wanted to date around, she meant she wanted to date him. But she still has feelings for you, and wants to have her cake and eat it too. Let someone else put up with her confusion and find yourself a nice girl. Keep up not answering her. Or tell her to leave you alone.
2006-11-10 02:30:35 · answer #1 · answered by julz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everybody is telling u to leave her...well do waht u feel. sometimes this revenge stuff doesnt work. if she made a mistake then wats the harm in forgiving her and giving her another chance. lissen to wat she wants to tell u or talk to u about...prolly she just needs ur help. i dont think u need to look like a selfish guy and ignore her just cuz of a break up.Be a supportive man and this in turn will make her feel bad tht she dumped an amazing guy like u who always cared about ".her" Think of the future...if this really is a small mistake and its worth it "for u" to forgive her and get back together..then give it a try. Its ur future and dont hold ur feelings back. be open to her.people make mistakes...this time it was her, next time...it might be u....goodluck!
2006-11-10 13:17:35 · answer #2 · answered by laila M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because she still wants you,you did the right thing by not answering.She asked for,and got what she wanted.And now realizes the grass is not always greener on the other side.
Which brings up the point:Be careful what you ask for because you just might get it.
2006-11-10 10:31:55 · answer #3 · answered by james j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shes probably realized how good she had it with you and wants to come back. I wouldnt take her back either... she left because she was unsure, she obviously didnt care too much for your feelings at the time. SO WHY bother with worrying about her feelings. Move on... You are dong the right thing by ignoring her.
2006-11-10 10:30:18 · answer #4 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to understand, it will drive you crazy. Just continue on your current non-contact course. She'll eventually go away. In the meantime, just say to yourself "it's a girl thing", then go an live your life.
2006-11-10 10:30:59 · answer #5 · answered by SafetyDancer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get your mind off her---you can't control what she does. Lots of people love the "power" they feel when they dump others and go back to them---they love their "ego-rush" seeing your reaction to them, and your sincere emotions. Then, they leave again.
You shouldn't be wasting precious life on this type of narcissist.
2006-11-10 10:43:20 · answer #6 · answered by papyrusbtl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she already had this guy in mind when she dumped you, and now she is either regretting it or just wants to make sure you are okay with it.
2006-11-10 10:29:47 · answer #7 · answered by Kimberly H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants to know if you've porked anyone else yet. And if you haven't she'll take you back
2006-11-10 10:29:55 · answer #8 · answered by MaNdYb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋