I recently broke up with my boyfriend of four years, who I lived with for two.. was the right decision totally. Don't even miss him at all. I met a guy online who I had been talking to for several months prior to the breakup, and we met for the first time last Friday and really hit it off, had a nice kiss, etc etc. We are going out this weekend and he has been steadily calling me. I like him a lot. He too recently (not as recent as me) ended a long-term relationship. It feels right, but how can I be sure we aren't each other's rebounds? We really click...
2006-11-10 02:23:07 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Keep it cool for a while, dont sleep with him too fast!
2006-11-10 02:24:34 · answer #1 · answered by huggz 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
well you know cause you have no feelings for your ex, so for you it would not be a rebound and for the guy you been chattin with ask him it if he has or had any feelings before meeting you towards his ex, but in all I do not think this is what you would call on the rebound, on the rebound is someone who is still wanting there ex, and goes out and gets something and still waits for the ex to come along, as well they also try to show off infront of there ex with someone else to show them what there missing if you guys are not doing that then no its not a rebound, and too fast hell NO its not too fast, besides the ex is an ex for a reason youèll find someone maybe this one is the right one. Good Luck!
2006-11-10 10:27:31 · answer #2 · answered by Sassy H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you can really be sure right at this moment. All you can do is take it slow and you will know soon enough if its the right time or not. Don't feel bad about dating someone so soon. There is no set timeline of how long you have to wait after a break up! Good luck. You never know when the love of your life will come into your life.
2006-11-10 10:26:05 · answer #3 · answered by adrianeheadley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not as if the two of you are about to get married, so just take things slowly, don't rush. Take your time to learn about each other. Hopefully it isn't a rebound thing and it is the real thing
2006-11-10 11:03:02 · answer #4 · answered by Baps . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF you like him .Tell him how you feel.If he he likes you back he will listen.Ask yourself this question .Would he be the one you would want to spend the REST of YOUR life with.Also one more thing.Be careful you met him online and well a lot people get killed/raped and any darn thing else .Please Im begging you I know i dont ,but wait on sex dont have it .There is so many bad outcomes wth it .Wait for the one.Trust me if you wait .He 'll show up.God Bless your life and I will pray for you.
2006-11-10 10:30:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
time is the only answer on the rebound thing, when you are comfortable enough and things start to look like why? then youll know for sure. good luck and hope not but gotta jump to know and get there!
2006-11-10 10:29:40 · answer #6 · answered by BRIAN J R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you say you really click then go on that.. if it is just a rebound i think u would know. they say when one door closes another door opens. you never know this may end up being something great!
2006-11-10 10:27:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this sounds like a good relationship, keep it. and love is not bound by time so u can never be moving too fast, or too slow. u two sound like a nice couple, keep it that way
2006-11-10 10:25:39 · answer #8 · answered by D.Money 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with him. try it for a while. After a few months see if you still feel that way about him.
2006-11-10 10:25:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
By being friends first, and not jumping right into the sack.
2006-11-10 10:25:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋