I've been writing emails to a guy that I've dated for awhile, where I'll be serious & fun at the same time...for a good balance so he's not overwhelmed with the seriousness. But after I say something like how much I care about him, but at the end I'll ask him questions like what car I should buy next (I told him before that I want a new car) hinting to him that I trust his opinion. So is it okay to be serious & fun at the same time in an email? If I ask questions like that, to get back with me, can that be annoying to where he won't contact me anymore? Just curious.
2006-11-10 02:36:55 · 7 answers · asked by feisty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You sound like a smart , wise & good girl..
I am sure you are doing everything just fine..
Guys are really not very complicated...
Don't let your emotions cloud your mind..
Some guys are simply good looking charismatic bums and will never change...In 20 yrs. they will still be drunks working at a carwash...
Make wise choices...
2006-11-10 02:41:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be playing with fire by giving him mixed messages. It is OK to be serious and to be fun, but not in the same sentence. You must admit that that sort of thing is confusing and rather than putting your point across you are giving mixed messages. Guys don't like to be played with. It is much better for you to just be yourself and see where that will get you. If you like him and want to stay in touch be real. He'll let you know how he really feels when he is no longer confused.
2006-11-10 02:42:46 · answer #2 · answered by HGS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you courting someone who lied to you from the starting up? Why are you searching for someone to marry you at the form of youthful age? You sound very at a loss for words and decide specialist counseling. there is way too a lot melancholy occurring. Kill your self over HIS melancholy? Huh? you do not look to correctly worth your man or woman existence very a lot. Do your mom and father understand this is going on on your existence? If no longer they ought to. they're the ultimate source of non-specialist help you receives. And no do not enable both of them back on your existence they sound like the worst loosers.
2016-10-16 08:25:06 · answer #3 · answered by eth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,
It might sound a bit desperate.
Remember why he was attracted to you in the first place.
You don't have to over do it, or plot plan and scheme.
Just be yourself.
If he likes you it'll work out.
if not then find the new mr right.
Good luck
2006-11-10 02:42:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with being serious and fun..It keeps things interesting
2006-11-10 02:38:31 · answer #5 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could not stand being in a relationship with you for more than 5 minutes. (How long it would take me to be done with you).
2006-11-10 02:39:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is ok.
2006-11-10 02:40:17 · answer #7 · answered by Avner Eliyahu R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋