shoulda pulled out
2006-11-10 00:58:32
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answered by Anonymous
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You and Your Girlfriend Need To Read My Message Together. I Hope This Will Help the Both OF You.TEEN pregnancy has been called an epidemic. Emotional Aftermath
The realities of teen motherhood are quite different from youthful fantasies. Upon learning that they are pregnant, girls often experience a storm of emotions. Many admit feeling shocked or stunned. “Common reactions include anger, guilt, and denial,” says the American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry. Denial can be dangerous, though, as it may prevent a girl from pursuing needed medical treatment.
What are your options? Some may tell you to consider abortion. But this is not an option for those who want to turn to pleasing God, as the Bible makes it clear that abortion is against God’s law. (Exodus 20:13; 21:22, 23; Psalm 139:14-16) In God’s eyes the life of any embryo—including one conceived out of wedlock—is precious.But even when a young father feels a moral responsibility to assist with his child’s upbringing, marriage is not always a wise option.* The fact that a young man is able to procreate hardly means that he has the emotional and mental abilities needed to be a good husband and father. Nor does it mean that he can support a wife and child financially.
Cease engaging in premarital sex. Tell your parents. Demonstrate gratitude. Learn parenting skills. Handle money wisely. Try to get some education. You Can Succeed
2006-11-10 09:04:40
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answered by Anonymous
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Step 1: KEEP THAT BABY! DO NOT ABORT YOUR OWN CHILD!!
Step 2: Tell your parents
Step 3: Tell her parents
Step 4: Don't even think about breaking up with her; you had a part in this, so you carry part of the weight
Step 5: Seek aid from a guidance counselor
Step 6: Get engaged
Step 7: Since you are too young to marry, wait until your sixteenth birthday(at least) and get married
I'm sorry this happened to both of you, but don't even think about abandoning her now; she needs you, man.
And don't bother getting angry at her or at God for this pregnancy; you made the mistake, you deal w/ the consequences
Just love her, dude; show her that you care by not abandoning your child
2006-11-10 09:05:50
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answered by Ayumi 23 3
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Orthodox or not your going to need family the most right now. Just remember you have choices even if your family doesn't like the choices, you have them. Your both real young and life has just started for you. There is adoption, abortion or keep it with the help of your family. Without family it will be real hard financial, mentally, and physically draining get help from family, counselor or teacher but you need to tell someone.
2006-11-10 09:01:54
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answered by Happy 3
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do you love this girl??? do you want to be with her??? do you want this baby??? does she want this baby??? These are questions that you have to ask yourself...things happen but are you ready to take responsiblity for you both out you have done? how are you going to raise this child? do your parents know yet? this must be a very hard time for you and your girlfriend but you 2 have to talke about this and you 2 have to talk to your parents about this...are you guys ready to take care of a child? I am religous so i don't believe in abortion but if you 2 don't want the baby maybe your girlfrend can carry the baby and put the child up for adoption. there are many families looking to adopt children. but if you choose to have this child good for you taking care of your responsibilty. I hope everything works out for you and your girl friend good luck and take care
2006-11-10 09:08:12
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answered by derrtyhazel 1
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Orthodox Christian? You shouldn't have been doing it in the first place, boy. You're too young and you should have known that.
For now, tell your parents and hers. Offer your support and when she's old enough, marry her. I don't care if you don't like her anymore by that time it's the right thing to do.
2006-11-10 09:03:09
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answered by mmmb 2
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u deserve to be killed, ur only 15 what the hell r u thinking, god will put u in hill even though u hide from ur parents, god is the one who judges so either way ur screwed, u need to face the responsibilites, just like u opened her legs, and thought it was fun,so its time to be a man even though ur this age, and the same with ur girl, she should have more respect for herself than opeing up to a 15 year old.
2006-11-12 09:47:07
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answered by susu 5
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I think you should tell your family and hers, they will be mad but its there anyways... and I'm sure your parents love you. They'll forgive you and will help you out. (IF NOT, THERE IS HELP. HOTLINES, GROUPS, FOUNDATIONS... THEY ARE OUT THERE. TRUST ME.) There are options for abortion or to keep the baby... I suggest you keep it, a friend of mine had abortion but it went all wrong and she can never have kids again. Another friend got sick and almost died... Its not the baby's choice or fault that the baby's here...please keep the little guy alive, if you don't want him/her enuf, at least have the little guy adopted.
2006-11-10 09:09:34
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answered by stormsandblues 3
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well you need to take responsibility for what happened, i mean if your going to have sex you need to face the fact that there might be consequences, you'll have to eventually tell you parents, they are older and will be able to help you to be a good dad, of course they will probably freak when you tell them but they are your parents and they just want the best for you, but they have 9 months to accept it, in the mean time be there for your girlfriend she is really going to need you, also pray about it, pray for strengthand knowledge to raise this baby, Good luck
2006-11-10 09:03:13
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answered by Anonymous
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You need to tell your parents. They may get angry but they can't be mad forever. Its important that they know because your girlfriend needs to start her prenatal care immediately. She's very young and if there are complications she needs to be under the care of a obgyn.
BTW,Scott b...you're an idiot. Pulling out is not a safe birth control method.
2006-11-10 09:08:34
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answered by KokoCutie272006 2
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Tell to your parents and go to doctor before time when that will be too late
2006-11-10 09:05:48
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answered by Dijana 1
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