hi there, please can you give me some advice, i feel i am at the end of my tether, i have been with my boyfriend for 8yrs since i was 14 and have a 4 yr old boy, since we have been together i have constantly found every few months him talking with other girls on the net, ringing chat lines etc yet denies it when confronted, says im being stupid, blames everything on me for him doing it and then gets lovey duvy and says hes sorry and gets upset and i end up beleive it. the other day i found out that he has made an account on my space which i didnt know about, called himself romeo, told some girl she was beautiful etc and on his profile says he has no kids- which really ticks me off !!! and that hes single, i have found it so many times and just keep ignorng it, lastyr we broke up for 2 months and got back together on the condition he would change and he has started again i get the impression if you love someone you dnt speak to other girls like that or am i being silly, what would youdo
2006-11-10 01:05:30 · 6 answers · asked by caz130284 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Start an account yourself and start flirting with him on the net without him knowing it's you. When he learns it was you he will hopefully be to ashamed to continue with that...
2006-11-10 01:11:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
The question is: Why does he do it?? There must be a reason...I'm not going to blame any of you two, but may be he is getting bored with his life. He seems like he's trying to find some excitement. What about trying to prepare him some kind of excitement by yourself /good dinner, nice look, nice sms/...just change his mind...try make him think about you...to make him being concentrating on you. Then he will realize how great is the life with you and he will forget about the others...But be patient, try couple of times and you'll see. It's gonna work...:)
2006-11-10 01:19:34 · answer #2 · answered by mmarria 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get onto the net in myspace, download a pretty picture in your profile. Set up a date with his alter-ego. When he leaves for the night on the date. Get your gear and your boy and leave.
It is definately ok to test fidelity in a realtionship.
He sounds like a frog. But he ain't no prince when you kiss him.
2006-11-10 01:10:24 · answer #3 · answered by Triestobewise 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would leave him, anyways its ur guys's fault i mean what do u expect, uve been together since u were 14 and have a baby i mean he did not expierence life now hes gettin that urge so he probably is cheating too, u should not be surprised, i hate giving chances cuz once a liar, or cheater, always a liar or a cheater
2006-11-10 01:09:15 · answer #4 · answered by susu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
.......if this has been happening regularly,....i would give him a couple of final warning's.....Either choose you, or the other girl's... and if he refuse's to stop his behaviour,.... seek legal advice on seperation, child custody for you, home acquisition for you and your child, and monthly payment's from your seperated husband for child support.....Either your'e a family or your'e not,. and if he want's extra's on the side,. then fine, but get it legalised through divorce proceeding's first, so you get the family home, and he get's his extra girlfriend's!...
2006-11-10 01:44:27 · answer #5 · answered by peanut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe hes just having fun..i dont mean that you shouldnt be upset ..but it doesnt really mean that he is cheating on you if its only on the net ...
2006-11-10 01:10:34 · answer #6 · answered by Mysterious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋