I am engaged to a 24 year old guy who is moving to New York City to be with me. I am 29 and know from experience that in NYC most men don't get married until their 30s because of the large population of young, attractive available women. I think that when my fiance gets here because he is young and attractive, he will eventually leave me because of his age and the fact that he may feel like he's missing out. I am too old to take such a huge risk. What is the possibility that this works in NYC? I fear the probability is very low.
2006-11-10 01:56:38 · 8 answers · asked by AMS-NYC 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah there are guys that are and they get married and they stay married. Take me for instance I have a fiancee as well and she 22 and I am 24, we are goin to get married in March of next year.
Anywayz to get back to the subject, yeah there are many young couples that get married young and stay married. Do not worry about the other women, if he truly wants to be with you and loves you more than anything he would not pay attention to all the other women.
Other than that I wish you all the luck and blessings in the world. Congrats on the engagement
2006-11-10 02:03:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you feel this way "now" you'll feel this way after you marry him, and that's not good. You need to discuss this with him before marriage, and perhaps get some counseling Just remember there are no guarantees with anything or anyone. When I got married for the second time, I had the same type of insecurities. Then one day my daughter said, "Mom," just live your life, love who you love, and enjoy your life with him "however" long that is, okay? So I did, and I do. Okay? Just enjoy your life together, and try not to worry about something that hasn't happened. Good luck.
2006-11-10 10:07:28 · answer #2 · answered by Republican!!! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We never know now do we, you might decide to leave, or you may force him away with your own insecurity. I think that when young men get married at a young age they don't really "grasp" what it means. You have to ascertain if he knows this. Maybe as a safeguard you should try living together for a while before you sign.
2006-11-10 10:05:34 · answer #3 · answered by JahMekYa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why you are so unsafe, be your self and more confident, 5 yrs is not a huge range
2006-11-10 10:06:15 · answer #4 · answered by kiwilove 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your first mistake is starting hti relationhip out negativly. wait and see how he starts to act, if you se him oogaling over the girls on the street right away then you are probably right.
2006-11-10 10:01:15 · answer #5 · answered by mnm4213 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt worry bout it if he leaves you move on but he IS moving there to be with you when he could easily stay where he is and find another girl not to be rude!!!!!!!!!! good luck and congrats
2006-11-10 10:01:41 · answer #6 · answered by lita 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOUNG OR OLD, GUYS WILL BE GUYS. I WON'T SAY THAT HE WANT LOOK; THERE IS NO LAW AGAINST IT, AS LONG AS HE DOESN'T TOUCH.
2006-11-10 10:01:11 · answer #7 · answered by 2"CUTE"2B30 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In this day and age KNOW ONE stays married.
One thing you can bank on DIVORCE.
Sooner or later it will happen
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2006-11-10 10:00:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋