Have you told those you Love that you Love them recently?

Question

Have you told those you Love that you Love them recently?
sometimes we wait to late to go see those we care about or call them on the phone just to say Hi or I love you you never know when a loved one will be snatched from you. My 28 year old daughter was murdered 11 months ago and one of the things that I hold in my heart is that even though we sure had our ups and downs the day she died I'd decided to give her an early Christmas gift a new winter coat I was mad at her on Monday as we were arguing about her BF and on Tuesday i decided to go see her and give her the coat she loved it kissed me said I love you and 8 1/2 hours later her BF killed her If I hadn't decided to go see her and the last words we'd had would have been in anger I would not have been able to survive this if you love someone tell them today call your parents, your kids, your grandparents, your friends, whoever don't wait until it may be too late God Bless You All

helpless I understand it is hard for me to say i love you to my mom as we just weren't close like that but I do it now call your parents don't delay

Answer 1

First of all so sorry for your loss. My brother was murdered in July, and his remains were found 4 months later.We didn't get along well, but the last time I saw him, we sat out on the porch and talked for over an hour, and I told him how much I loved him.I never saw him again, and am so grateful I got to tell him I loved him.I think it would bother me now if I hadn't said those words. In our family, no-one says it. Its funny how 3 little words are often hard to say to someone.Thanks for the reminder of how precious those 3 words can be.

Answer 2

I can't imagine what it must be like to lose a child especially so violently. We don't realize how fragile life is until a life changing event happens to us personally. I have survived a heart attack & 2 years ago my wife suffered a ruptured brain aneurysm. I tell everyone who is close to me, friends included, that I love them every chance I get without reservation. I've lost too many folks in my life who never knew how much they meant to me & the sadness remains. I sincerely hope you your grieving process goes well. It's a long & a sometimes difficult road. Have faith & trust in those around you. Don't dwell on the misfortune of your last moments together. Cherish her memory & the wonderful times you had together. She is never any farther away than your heart. I wish you well

Answer 3

A mothers love for their children, is paramount...I'm sorry for your loss...thank you for reminding me the importance in treasuring people who really love you...i have not said i love you to my parents in the last 10 years or so ...but you have inspired me to do so..