Family & Relationships - 10 November 2006

On Friday, I had a great date with a guy that I've been seeing for two months. (We're both 28.) On Monday, I sent him a text. No response. On Tuesday, I left him a message. No response. Today, I sent him a text. Again, no response. The reason I've been trying to reach him is because a couple of weeks ago, we made a date for next Saturday to go to a concert in NY. I wanted to make sure he bought his tickets because I got mine.

I don't understand what's going on. We didn't have a fight or anything and he seemed happy when he left on Friday. My friend says not to worry about it. I can't help thinking the worst and my feelings are really hurt. What the heck is going on?

2006-11-10 18:11:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She cheated (blatantly telling me all about the guy)on me, she wanted the divorce, I am better when I don't talk to her. why must she force the contact when it is not necessary. She spent 2 months convincing me to leave. BPD?

2006-11-10 18:10:29 · 16 answers · asked by Johnboy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-10 18:10:11 · 8 answers · asked by isabella 2 in Singles & Dating

Most of the girls I date who have similar aged sisters always attract me. I fantasize about them-even if I'm with the hot sister. Wy is this?

2006-11-10 18:09:46 · 16 answers · asked by 46&2 2 in Singles & Dating

she knows, he stays out all night and quit his job she wants to leave but is stuck she still loves him how can i help? she wants to work it out but he says he needs time .HELP

2006-11-10 18:09:17 · 15 answers · asked by misty k 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I have been together 9 months and in the beginning of our relationship i felt that he wasnt all about sex but now as time is going on i feel like thats what he wants everytime he sees me. I mean i love sex and all but there are times when im just not in the mood cause im tired or for whatever reason, and he cant relate to that, he thinks im offending him but turning down sex but its not like we dont do it, its just not every day. He gets visibly distraught when we dont have sex and it kinda bothers me cause theres no need to get like that, if we had sex once in a blue moon fine but thats not the case. He tells me its not all about sex, he just finds it intimate and cant help feeling the way he does and cant understand why i cant be in the mood when he is(which is like every sec of the day) and even after explaining to him he doesnt get it and still to this day gets upset when we dont have sex. and it always starts fights n i get so frustrated.what can i do? any advice?

2006-11-10 18:09:17 · 11 answers · asked by Christine S 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-10 18:05:15 · 12 answers · asked by clh 1 in Family

He lived in CA for a long time and I think he's relocated to Arizona but I am asking for a family reason....

2006-11-10 18:04:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i want to find out what gets a guys senses hightened (triggered) for him to want to find out who or what is triggering them.

2006-11-10 18:03:24 · 12 answers · asked by 71campbell 1 in Singles & Dating

Doesn't it bother you when u get to chat with a younger (i mean much younger girl, min 5 yrs difference), and all she wants to talk is sex and she can actually talk without getting bored is that. And when you chat about other things that are more serious and more important she says "ah, your boring" and stuff like that, like it's our fault she knows nothing else to talk about. how can you get her aware of this fact, that the problem is actualy hers without geting her into a deeper stage of frustration?

2006-11-10 18:02:23 · 22 answers · asked by James Blond 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-10 18:01:44 · 20 answers · asked by reena s 1 in Weddings

I have been told that Sagittarius men change after marriage. I am getting married in January and I am very nervous, as this is my first marriage. Does anybody have anything good to say about Sags or am I being silly? He is a firefighter and is very kind and considerate.

2006-11-10 18:01:35 · 9 answers · asked by glenda576 4 in Marriage & Divorce

The problem is that it is firstly a long distance relationship. Secondly, she just finish her degree and now comes to the decision whether to come to find me or pursue her study overseas. Another factor is that my parents doesnt think that she will be my wife but I love her a lot and she loves me so much too. what is the best way to work this out, will our relationship last if we are seperated for more than 2 years? Will she be a burden if she comes to me now? What can i do to help her? What is the best solution?

2006-11-10 18:01:24 · 4 answers · asked by Peter W 1 in Singles & Dating

haha no, i dont really hate woman. its just i had this girl friend and we went otu for like 7 months. they were the best 7 months of my life. i know they were the best fo hers to. but a few weeks ago i noticed thigns werent doing so good with us. then she tells me we need to go on a break. so we do, for about 3 days. and she tells me she met this other guy. so i realized that he was the reason everything started to fall apart in the first place. she left me for him. THEN i find out that she did some things with thsi guy 1 day after we broke up. thast plain mean. we were only on break. but the thing is, she figured out he was an asshole and now shes crawling right back to me. i really do think she learned her lesson. and i understand it takes disaster to learn lessons sometimes. i am positve she leanred the grass is NOT greener on the other side. what she did hurt me, but i forgive her. my question is, should i take her back? because everyone makes mistakes. she wouldnt do this again.

2006-11-10 18:00:33 · 14 answers · asked by thecoolguy 3 in Singles & Dating

My friends boyfriend is a super nice guy. He treats her well...but sometimes he won't call her when he says he will. He even disappears for a day or two. She doesn't believe there is another woman, however, she believes he is out drinking with his friends. The only problem is, he never gives her a proper explanation. They have been together for almost 6 years. I keep telling her to teach him a lesson by giving him a dose of his own medicine. Was I wrong to say that? Can I please get some opinions on this situation?

2006-11-10 17:59:24 · 2 answers · asked by Angelle 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi, to all of you,
I am 20, and alone, my parent is dead about 10 years ago,
I am a Graphics Designer, and also preparing for competitive exam,
My problem, is a girl, who is my friend for 4 years,
previous 2 years was of decent friendship, but after that, we both
proposed to each other, that time she told me, yes. But after some time,
she told me to just be a good friend, because she don't want to hurt her parent,
and want to marry wherever her parent will decided, she has a soft corner for me, but don't want to marry me. But she also want to keep,
a friendship, even after marriage. She Love me, but don't confase due to her parent. What should I do, I am so confused, I have both a relation with her, Friendship and Love, What should I do. Keep a relation or Breakup. I am crazy about him, I love her. She is First and Last girl in My life. ? Please help me, Thanks in advance to all of you.

2006-11-10 17:59:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I've been told by friends that sometimes your first love can be long and drawn out because its your first experience with the opposite sex intimately. I'm just wondering what is the worst case of first love/first sex partner you have ever heard of/experienced, because I have been involved in a first love relationship and we have been through some rough times but we always come back to each other. I am starting to think she is the one because we have endured so much together... Or is it just first love?

2006-11-10 17:58:42 · 0 answers · asked by ks_stud_2005 2 in Singles & Dating

The guy im with wants to marry me and stuff... And i have loved him for a long time and he tells me he loves me so much but he is a big big *** hole at times. I want to be with him but something is telling me not to.. I have been hanging out with his best friend for a few days now without him and he told me that since he met me (was not with my man at that time) he knew he loved me and every min. we spend together juss makes the love grow. He is such a sweet heart and well im falling in love with him... i feel so bad but when im with him im always laughing and smiling and feel so great and when im with my man we fight and argue but there are times when i feel like im in heaven....... help me please!!!!!!!!

2006-11-10 17:57:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my ex wrote me saying he was going to try things out again with his current girlfriend (broke up for a bit). he said in an email that he would let me know what happens but that he would be grateful for space at the moment. WHAT THE ****? is he keeping me around just incase he and his current girl dont work out???? what would you do? ive known him 7 yrs, dated 3 and he and i have a very unique relationship, we care and have feelings still for one another but, maybe it is timing??? THOUGHTS??? no, i have not replied to that email!!!

2006-11-10 17:54:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-10 17:52:35 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My 26 yrs old daughter has a 27 yrs old boyfriend who claims to be a christian.
He says God speaks to him thru drugs! Her boyfriend convinced her to have sex with him even though she says she wanted to wait after they are married, he took away her virginity,and gave her STD. He does'nt have a job, but waits on my daughter to take the two of them on a date. The longest he has ever worked was less than 8 months on a job he was fired from because of using drugs while working. He has an 8 year old daughter who he doesn't take of. He's rooming with a middle age woman whom he has gotten pregnant, yet he convinced my daughter that their is nothing going on between them. He's a chruch hypocrite. He works in the ministry and have convinced my daughter that he's a "Godly" man. He claimed God told him that she is his wife. He plans to marry on 7-7-07! Help!

2006-11-10 17:52:01 · 22 answers · asked by flowers 1 in Marriage & Divorce

deformity that he keeps hidden, would this bother you? What if it did not cause him any discomfort or nor did it inhibit his ability to have a normal life...Would you be bothered by it..Just by sight alone?

2006-11-10 17:52:00 · 12 answers · asked by Mommy Dearest 5 in Singles & Dating

I am in college and in my calculas 3 class and i got to thinking, what is the point to life. I cannot think of a single reason that i would want to live another day. I spend all my time studying so that later i can work as an engineer. What am i going to do with the money?? There is absolutely nothing in life worth living for. I have no family what so ever so i wont have to worry about hurting anyone by killing myself. I mean what do you people do all day that you find so exciting. What keeps you people from killing yourselves. Is it hope?? cause if it is im done. **** hope. hope is an empty emotion.

2006-11-10 17:50:41 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

She says she likes me, yet i saw her at our dance tointe, grindin with this one guy and she was smiling, then she saw me, shoved the guy away and came to me and i asked her about it. she said she diddnt even know him further than taht he was a freind of one of her freinds. other times, shes grabbing for my hand to hold, or my arm to hold onto and tlks to me on the phone ALOT. sometimes, she makes me feel like the lickeiest man alive, and others, the most jealous. she even went to anouther schools's homecomming with a freind after going with me to mine. she said he was jsut a freind and it diddnt mean anyhting. -_- : ( i need help, badly. All i think about is her, (in a non preverted way) but i dont think she feels the same. she says she does, but by the way she acts, i just dont know...

2006-11-10 17:49:01 · 13 answers · asked by Duff M 2 in Singles & Dating

the person who is loving me and me is in the same college.i donot trust in love.now he is disturbing me. i want to stop it.i know its not love its just infactuation.he is my senior.so i cant complain it

2006-11-10 17:48:50 · 9 answers · asked by molu 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

We are friends and I wish to go deeper with her. I ask this question is I guess trust is very important foundation for this relationship to grow.

2006-11-10 17:48:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend has a lot of fines for speeding and driving unregistered vehicles. He has all of his fines on an installment plan that i pay every fortnight. It costs $40 a fortnight and i only ear about $200 a week. He earns around $600 a week but never has a chance to pay the fines. I have asked for $20 a week every week so that i am not out of pocket but he just forgets. Now he owes me almost $250 and i need the money for a $100+ bill. I dont know how to ask for it back. Its not that he would get angry or anything like that but i just dont like asking for money. how do i go about this ?

2006-11-10 17:47:54 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

One guy said shouldnt date a girl you work with. This does make sense cause it "could" cause problems. So I have a simple question, if I did decide to not date any girls at work. What are some of the best places, to meet an honest, cute, sweet girl. Not like the clubbin or bar types. Not saying there arent any there, there is just too much of the "other kind" for me to tell.. lol.

2006-11-10 17:45:58 · 8 answers · asked by Cody B 2 in Singles & Dating

if i leave his side at all he gets mad...if my phone rings he ask me who it is the second i answer it ......if i get a text he ask who its from every time...i have never cheated on him at all so why is he acting like this ?? he used to be so great and now im about to leave him its gotten so bad but i really love him ...i have talked to him and he says he will change every time but he never does...what should i do??

2006-11-10 17:44:22 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-10 17:43:35 · 22 answers · asked by ILGAndS 2 in Marriage & Divorce