Family & Relationships - 10 November 2006

the pluses and minuses

2006-11-10 19:51:43 · 13 answers · asked by kyandindiana 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-10 19:50:51 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-10 19:50:38 · 1 answers · asked by Michael T 1 in Singles & Dating

O i wish, i knew.

2006-11-10 19:48:30 · 8 answers · asked by chesscrazz 1 in Marriage & Divorce

do call him the conversation is very short. Yesterday i poured my heart out to him and he said nothing at all. The only time he would really call me if its something to benefit him. He would start out by saying, do u love me and i would say what do you want now b/c he dont even tell me he loves me anymore. I love him so much and i have been there for countless times and i feel as if he is using me. I have tried to walk away and not call him but it is very hard. I want him to love me unconditionally the way i love him and for a while i thought he did but now im having second thoughts. Sometimes he is so mean to me but he never hits me and all i do is cry. Please help me. What is a girl to do? Could there be someone else?

2006-11-10 19:43:46 · 17 answers · asked by babygyrl 1 in Singles & Dating

I think my roommate is forging my signature on checks and making it payable to cash. i've already called the bank and they're doing an investigation. but if it really is her, then it'll just change the whole dynamic of our friendship... i'm not mad at her, i'm just upset that she couldn't at least tell me.

2006-11-10 19:43:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm 22 years old and a virgin still. My boyfriend for almost a year hasn't really laid a hand on me sexually. He isn't a virgin but his last relationship ended up being all about sex and he was tired of it. He wanted an emotional truely loving relationship. If anything I'm more aggressive than he is cause I'm curious and he always tries to cool me down.

But I am curious. How can I make my first time not so painful? I've had a guy finger me after hour of foreplay but it hurt a lot and he got like less than an inch in. And my boyfriend has even said my vaginia is really small compared to his exs's, when he finally gave me oral.

I was wondering how can I make it less painful and more enjoyable when I'm ready to go all the way?

2006-11-10 19:42:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-10 19:41:33 · 2 answers · asked by Valeriu M 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-10 19:40:05 · 15 answers · asked by KING DONG 1 in Singles & Dating

i m 15 and in new delhi,india. mostly i wanna know if he likes me or not gimme suggestions to know if he likes me. asking him out is the second level after this.

2006-11-10 19:39:10 · 14 answers · asked by asmita s 2 in Singles & Dating

We seperated in 1979, she left me with my son, 3 years old at the time, and has never seen so much as a picture of him since then. I have recently had a weird experience and seem to think it would be a good thing to clear up the ghosts from the past.

I know where she works, her husbands name and more yet, still want to know why we split. I could have understood it if she had left me for someone else but that was'nt the case, her parents never asked or told her to she my son but 1 part of me will always belong to her, even though I have been with my present partner for the last 24 years, and I know I still love her, why god only knows, but dont want to hurt the woman I am with or my other children.

I feel I want to clear up the past and maybe get back at least the freindship we had.
Advice from anybody else whos had the same problem would help!

2006-11-10 19:39:08 · 22 answers · asked by paul c 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-10 19:38:39 · 13 answers · asked by Sexi B..i.t.c.h 1 in Singles & Dating

I've never ever been on a date (never even asked a girl out) and i'm 20 years old. Age and patheticness aside....
There's this girl that catches my bus that always talks to me and I've developed a bit of a crush on her. Problem is, she mentioned once that she had a boyfriend that went away to college. I'm not going to try break them up or facilitate her cheating. What should i do????????

2006-11-10 19:35:05 · 23 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Singles & Dating

If I need to I steps on in.
The lady got to be treated right......
I aims to please
Anyone wanna say diff

2006-11-10 19:34:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

MY DAD SAY'S I SHOULD FINISH SCHOOL AND COLEGE AND THEN HAVE A BOY FRIEND BUT I LOVE BOTH AND DONT KNOW HOW TO TELL HIM

2006-11-10 19:34:32 · 13 answers · asked by Tinti 2 in Family

to strengten the bond

2006-11-10 19:33:14 · 9 answers · asked by karrie 1 in Singles & Dating

the other day our class was divided into groups and unfortunately i came under a teacher whom i call VAMP. i hate her. she has done nothing till date for which i respect her. instead she hates me bcoz another senior teacher is very nice to me. she scolded me the other day and even threatened to remove me from the group for a very silly reason( she dint really hav a reason). that way i would be insulted and lose my marks. however, i apologised even though i dint mean it and she agreed to keep me in the group.

now my question is..........how should i behave with her. i certainly hate her and i dont want her to know coz then she'll revengefully deduct my marks. Please give me a genuine answer. keep urself in my place. i have never before had a fight or cold war with any teacher. i'm known as a quiet and shy student.

2006-11-10 19:32:36 · 9 answers · asked by wingsoflife 1 in Friends

Muff diving?
on a scale of 1 to 10, where does it rank
It is definitely an 11 wid me
next best thing to the smell of a new car

2006-11-10 19:32:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My bachelor brother is moving to our town. He wants to stay with me and my husband. I don't care but my husband does. How do I tell him he can't stay here without him feeling offended?

2006-11-10 19:31:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am a young mother 24 and I am seriously thinking of leaving my husband who is 14 years older than I am. I am having a strong feeling in my gut that he might molest my son. My son is only 10 months old but my husband is very strict with him babies at this age love to touch things but my husband get's so angry that he swats his hands constantly. He has alot of anger issues because his father was physically violent towards him and his mother and two sisters. He doesn't play with my son or interact with him. He is constantly playing video games or watching television. He lashes out at gay's on television on anything that comes up about gay's (we are both christian). My real suspicion is that my husband loves to touch my butt constantly, he never plays with my son but always sit's him on his lap if only to watch television. When I accused him of being overly affectionate he lashed out and starting cursing and calling me vulgar names. I am deathly afraid of leaving my son with him.

2006-11-10 19:31:09 · 22 answers · asked by Emily T 1 in Family

2006-11-10 19:30:53 · 5 answers · asked by tanya 3 in Singles & Dating

I am in love with a man that can't make any formal commitment. How long should I wait and how do I get over him? I am of middle age and afraid. I have never met someone I am so comfortable with.

2006-11-10 19:29:39 · 9 answers · asked by Needing help 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 17 years old, and I have a boyfriend that tonight told his friend to basically have sex with me.... well we fooled around a lil, but didnt have sex, and now i dont know which on to be with my boyfriend or his friend, cause a boyfriend shouldnt give his girl and friend permission to have sex, anyways.... My boyfriend treats me like i dont exsist untill he wants something.... this other guy is the oppisite.... he would treat a girl with the respect she deserves.... where my boyfriend would have just done things, the friend asked... i dont know what to do.... i love my boyfriend, we have dated b4 and i thought that he was the one..... so what am i supposed to do now, now that i DEFINATLY have feelings for this other guy "the friend"??? sorry if things are spelt wrong.... i have my mind on other things

2006-11-10 19:23:55 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

haha and some stories too.. any parents come in on your 1st time

2006-11-10 19:20:42 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend told me that all his friends are just using him. He says his life is boring. He says there are better guys out there for me. He didn't have a good childhood either.

I told him that we tend to lose the amount of friends we have as we get older. I also said that he shouldn't look into the past so much. He should focus on the future. Then he said the future isn't promised to us. I said, "Don't you have hope?" He doesn't. I told him he's pessimistic. He calls it realistic.

In the 9 months of being his girlfriend and the year before that of being his friend, I’ve never seen him like this before. It scared me.

Here I am helping so many strangers online, and I feel like I can’t even help my own boyfriend out. I feel so useless. I feel like I didn't help him. All I could do was throw in my life experiences and relate it to him so he'd know he wasn't alone. I also hugged him and told him I loved him.

Do you think I helped any? What else should I tell him? : /

2006-11-10 19:20:31 · 8 answers · asked by ( Kelly ) 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-10 19:20:19 · 4 answers · asked by inquisitive 1 in Singles & Dating

Ladies and gents:

I would like to know what is your pet peeve with one another. And how to work on ithose flaws and improve their relationships.

2006-11-10 19:18:28 · 1 answers · asked by mcneill_35 2 in Singles & Dating

I am a good girl and I fit in with the indian culture very well the only thing is i am white and my bf is afraid his family wont except me what Can i do I love him very much and we have been together for 3 almost 4 years I want to spend my life with him.

2006-11-10 19:16:54 · 25 answers · asked by kimsierra2000 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-10 19:16:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-10 19:16:22 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating