I am 17 years old, and I have a boyfriend that tonight told his friend to basically have sex with me.... well we fooled around a lil, but didnt have sex, and now i dont know which on to be with my boyfriend or his friend, cause a boyfriend shouldnt give his girl and friend permission to have sex, anyways.... My boyfriend treats me like i dont exsist untill he wants something.... this other guy is the oppisite.... he would treat a girl with the respect she deserves.... where my boyfriend would have just done things, the friend asked... i dont know what to do.... i love my boyfriend, we have dated b4 and i thought that he was the one..... so what am i supposed to do now, now that i DEFINATLY have feelings for this other guy "the friend"??? sorry if things are spelt wrong.... i have my mind on other things
2006-11-10 19:23:55 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
" and I have a boyfriend that tonight told his friend to basically have sex with me...."
???WTF?? There is a word for people like that- dang girl- get your head out of whatever dark place it is in and get rid of both of them..neither one of them respect you..why don't you respect yourself
2006-11-10 19:30:21 · answer #1 · answered by dances with cats 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You and boy friend are High School Students and immatured. U seemed allow your lover spreading the rumor about both of u had sex together. It s ego and jealous. U are still learning. If u are not happy with your lover dump him to teach him so he can learned the lession. Remember virgin is treasure with full of gold. Dont let your lover treat u like that way.
Just wait and study boys' behavior. Trust me u will have long relationship. Wise girls always say girls flirt to bad boys but girls married to good boys. Dont worried u will be fine because u asked us to answer for u. That is smart move. Talk your parents, that is smarter move.
2006-11-10 20:10:55 · answer #2 · answered by Bryce L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your reputation is blown...he was trying you just to see if you would do that and you fell right in his trap....don't you know guys play games like that? it's a test, now just think of what they think of you....doesnt matter if you didnt have sex, you fooled around with him, instead you should have put your so called boyfriend in his place, far as the other guy being nice that's not gonna last long b/c guys don't like loose women....you can best believe their calling you a $lut behind your back.....pretty soon they'll be sharing you, while they have decent girlfriends that they will give the utmost respect to....if i were you i would leave them both alone and act as if it never happened, b/c they don't mean you any good....your so called boyfriend may have did that so he could have a good reason to break it off with you....well you learn from your mistakes...just remember having a $lut label on you is hard to get rid of.
2006-11-10 19:50:56 · answer #3 · answered by tanya m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 17...don't be settling on "THE ONE" yet...you still have college to get thru and trust me there are all kinds of new things to discover there. I say get rid of them both and find you some new guy that will treat you the way you want to be treated not the way he wants to treat you. AND on another note...i don't think you know the real meaning of "love" cause if you did...you wouldn't bee foolin around on your bf with his friends even with his permission or whatever (his and permission are two words that should NEVER be put together by the way...you NEVER need a guys permission to do what YOU want with YOUR life!!!!)
2006-11-10 19:38:22 · answer #4 · answered by mthcowgurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you ask your friend to have sex with your boyfriend? Unless you wanted to get rid of your boyfriend ...no you wouldnt. Lose both of these guys and learn to be happy about who you are. You dont need a man standing behind you ...you are 17 and intelligent enough to obviously realise a wrong because you posted here to confirm it. Dating the other guy is risky because a) its going to cause ongoing conflict and b) they are friends and are probaly having a horrible cheap laugh behind your back. Aim at your wants and not some guys to be happy and when the right one comes along he is meant to be with you and you only and not expect you to be with others...its a friendship you will deep in your heart know is the right one now is the time to be setting your life up mentally and financially so when it does happen......its perfect!......best of luck
2006-11-10 19:45:28 · answer #5 · answered by blue_eyed_woman_of_3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a boyfriend you should dump. But his friend isn't much better. Ever think he's treating you like that because he WANTS something too?? And you don't need permission from your boyfriend to have sex with anyone.
Dump them both. You're going to be the one hurting in the end.
2006-11-10 19:29:40 · answer #6 · answered by vamedic4 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to get rid of both of them. They both don't respect you because if your boyfriend cared for you he would just hand you over to his friend like a piece of meat. And if his friend respected you and his own friend he wouldn't have fooled around with you. He would have had the decency to respect you and ask you out the right way instead of just fooling around with you. You are way to young to let boys just use you and take advantage of you. Neither one really respects you they are just trying to get into your pants. Sorry but boys are like that. They only want one thing and will not respect you until you have respect for yourself, enough respect for yourself not to just give it away to everyone and anyone. Respect yourself and demand that from others. Don't sell yourself short your worth more then that! Good Luck!
2006-11-10 19:36:49 · answer #7 · answered by Grace Q. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I fully grasp what u are announcing approximately him testing different ladies. You will not inform him no. You are not married, however he certainly will not do it while he's with you. it's in view that he must be paying awareness to you while he's with you now not in view that it's flawed. It is bigoted to mention that men cannot examine out different ladies. It is in our genes, that is why men do it rather of women. He additionally must certainly be equipped to look at porn. Guys watch it to get off, there's no appeal to these ladies. Again he will not do it while you're there. He must be paying awareness to his child. Katy perry does not also have that best of a rack... u did not say whether or not or no he did those matters while he was once with you, if he did then that's flawed, however you cannot simply inform him no. His final female friend would had been comfortable with extra of that stuff. I'm best 15, however my gf is comfortable with me testing the lady in entrance folks once we are running in combination. She simply says that if she is speakme to me i ought to pay awareness which i fully grasp. hehe her rack beats katy perry. 36 DDD child! and sure, they're truly :)
2016-09-01 10:43:55 · answer #8 · answered by welcome 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend is treating you like a piece of meat. What the hell,,, Is he your pimp that he can have any of his freakin friends do you? I mean this is an outrageous thing for him to do. You are not his whore . He is not your Pimp. My goodness girl. Respect yourself. I don't know why I am so mad about this situation but what if you were my lil Sis.
2006-11-10 19:40:27 · answer #9 · answered by Agnon L 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't just do things because someone tells you to do them. Your boyfriend is not good for you. If you like the other boy then he may be better for you a girl needs respect. RESPECT YOURSELF as well.
2006-11-10 19:30:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋