the other day our class was divided into groups and unfortunately i came under a teacher whom i call VAMP. i hate her. she has done nothing till date for which i respect her. instead she hates me bcoz another senior teacher is very nice to me. she scolded me the other day and even threatened to remove me from the group for a very silly reason( she dint really hav a reason). that way i would be insulted and lose my marks. however, i apologised even though i dint mean it and she agreed to keep me in the group.
now my question is..........how should i behave with her. i certainly hate her and i dont want her to know coz then she'll revengefully deduct my marks. Please give me a genuine answer. keep urself in my place. i have never before had a fight or cold war with any teacher. i'm known as a quiet and shy student.
2006-11-10 19:32:36 · 9 answers · asked by wingsoflife 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Do you have a school counselor you could talk to? When you hate someone, they pick up on it, and this causes the problems you've been having. It's important to accept whatever shortcomings this teacher has, because you'll get along better with her. You don't have to like everything she does that irritates you; you just need to understand that some people in this world are not as fully formed as adults, as others are. Learn to be the more mature person in this situation, and have compassion that she hasn't been able to grow up.
2006-11-10 21:10:00 · answer #1 · answered by Chatelaine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't care her and do what you are supposed to do. You should not fight with her or she may get angrier! She is a teacher while you are just a student. I am sure you will overcome this. I do not have such teacher......so I don't really can know your feelings...but, you must make your conscience clear that you did not do anything wrong. Students do have diginity. If this carries on and that teacher still treats you this way, you have to tell your parents to solve this problem.
2006-11-10 19:42:49 · answer #2 · answered by wonderful girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
by behaving and doing what your supposed to do. Let's face it she has all the power in this case. We may not like it but sometimes we just have to suck it up and do it. You could always talk to her and ask her if you are doing something to make her dislike you? Sometimes we are doing things not realizing we are to make someone mad. Or if it is possible try changing classes. GL
2006-11-10 19:41:47 · answer #3 · answered by whitebeanner 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you hate her that much?? haha! sucks...anyways, uhm..you could just tolerate her while she's present and be polite and courteous and stuff..but at the end of class or sumthing, take all your anger and hate out on sumting else, like a rough sport or sumthing...hope this made sense to yah! guluck.
2006-11-10 19:39:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
been there done that!!!!! u should just be nice, courteous, kind, with a smile on ur face and when she's not looking curse her and stuff that's what i do, works 4 me try it u'll be suprised how well it works
2006-11-10 21:34:01 · answer #5 · answered by angelcarrot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just answered your own question....be as nice as you can to her even though it kills you,she will know your being sarcastic but won't be able to do anything about it.
example:"my thats a lovely dress and those shoes are exquisite
2006-11-10 19:44:19 · answer #6 · answered by chuck m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once in everybodys lifetime they face ehat you are facing now you should keep thoughts to yourself try to ask reasonable ouestions and impress her because she is at higher post in this war
2006-11-10 19:41:26 · answer #7 · answered by thegame_ahbk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can talk to your parents . Maybe your parents will inform the Principle .
2006-11-10 20:17:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
grace and dignity
2006-11-10 19:35:13 · answer #9 · answered by q6656303 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋