2006-11-10 19:50:51 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
So you want to throw your wife a party to remember an AFFAIR! Remember she gets half of everything.
2006-11-10 21:54:36 · answer #1 · answered by wondermom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why crave for something you cant have? Sounds like a kid in a toy shop to me. Affair's cause so much damage to perhaps an already in trouble relationship.
Instead of people going to relate about their problems they embark on an 'affair' to replace something thats been lost within the marriage/relationship, mainly sex.
Thats all you will be and not just that but the kids in the middle. I would steer clear and have a relationship based on trust.
2006-11-11 04:07:42 · answer #2 · answered by Scatty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You find someone willing to help you cheat on your spouse/GF/BF. You can't have an affair if you don't have a 3rd party to help you.
Now, the real question becomes where would you find someone to assist you with an affair?
BTW: If you really want to cheat, just leave your spouse/gf/bf. Its really not worth the heartache and trouble.
2006-11-11 05:19:52 · answer #3 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well as rude as it may sound, find a woman who is low enough to F* and do other things with a married man. Or, if you want a guy, one that is low enough to F* and other things with a married man.
Go to either straight or gay bars, post an add, and hope you do not get caught.
Maybe it is better to find out what is missing in your marriage and work on that. I think that is what I would do, but I am not yet ready to settle down. Too young, too many others, I mean other things to do!
2006-11-11 04:00:51 · answer #4 · answered by Charles-CeeJay_UK_ USA/CheekyLad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you want to have an affair? if things arent going well with you and spouse then dump then first and start clean. as they say and i believe its true, once a cheat always a cheat! dont do it unless marriage is over and you have filed for divorce.
2006-11-11 04:03:20 · answer #5 · answered by kameo_44 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the easiest affair to get away with, is to "have an affair with Pam"... Pam of your hand, that is..... just W**K more, close your eyes and think of someone you like.... it can be explained away easier than if you actually have another woman there with you too.....
hope this helps, become a W**KER
2006-11-11 04:02:44 · answer #6 · answered by Bmp1ksh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Agree with mousie, but to answer your question you basically have to fall for someone and they fall for you, just as you did with your current partner. The hard bit comes with not letting either one know about the other.
2006-11-11 03:58:08 · answer #7 · answered by ashypoo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT do it. You will end up hurting all your family and come on why would anyone want 2 women on the go. Beyond belief!
2006-11-11 04:25:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out on the pull in a different town/city,dont tell anyone,keep it all to yourself,and keep a bottle of your own fragrance on you to eliminate any smell of your lover that might be on you.always use protection,dont risk anything.
2006-11-11 04:02:32 · answer #9 · answered by adam r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
agree with first answer - although go on do it, then perhaps the people who love you will find out the truth about what you are really like!
2006-11-11 04:14:10 · answer #10 · answered by rose_merrick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋