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do call him the conversation is very short. Yesterday i poured my heart out to him and he said nothing at all. The only time he would really call me if its something to benefit him. He would start out by saying, do u love me and i would say what do you want now b/c he dont even tell me he loves me anymore. I love him so much and i have been there for countless times and i feel as if he is using me. I have tried to walk away and not call him but it is very hard. I want him to love me unconditionally the way i love him and for a while i thought he did but now im having second thoughts. Sometimes he is so mean to me but he never hits me and all i do is cry. Please help me. What is a girl to do? Could there be someone else?

2006-11-10 19:43:46 · 17 answers · asked by babygyrl 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

17 answers

Rid yourself of the inconvenience, address yourself to the task of developing emotional detachment and find another purpose in life other than involving yourself in some trivial relationship.
Ask yourself if it's really necessary to waste so much time and energy with something so patently infantile.
Where are your priorities in life? Do you not see the flaw in the idea that you are so dependent upon someone else for satisfaction and validation?
If you want companionship buy a dog.
Place that nonsense in a leadlined box and find something else to occupy your time. An education perhaps or maybe a career...
Find a hobby, discover an interest in another area of life that does not involve pathetic, wasteful drama.
Even allowing the idea of a better relationship what happens when you follow it to it's ultimate conclusion? Little more than a lifetime bond of involuntary servitude.
You don't need the love of someone else to validate your existence.

2006-11-10 20:03:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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I think my boyfriend has lost interest in me. He don't take the initiative of calling me anymore and when i...
do call him the conversation is very short. Yesterday i poured my heart out to him and he said nothing at all. The only time he would really call me if its something to benefit him. He would start out by saying, do u love me and i would say what do you want now b/c he dont even tell me he loves me...

2015-08-04 06:02:11 · answer #2 · answered by Merrie 1 · 1 0

You sound like a really sweet girl. Sometimes we guys get scared when a beautiful woman tells us that she loves us alot. It seems to create feelings of great responsability in us. A lot of us guys are not ready to be responsable for another person's emotional well being. When that's the case we pull back. The meanness could be a sign of a deeper emotional problem. Be careful.

2006-11-10 20:03:19 · answer #3 · answered by ads8175 1 · 1 0

Why do you want to want someone who treats you like dogie doo. You can not make him like you either he does or he don't. And obviously he don't, so why are you letting this person use you over and over again? Don't you think you deserve better than that? You'll get over him as soon as you quit letting him use you like a door mat. Give your love to someone who deserves it and will give it back in return. GL

2006-11-10 19:52:50 · answer #4 · answered by whitebeanner 4 · 0 0

First of all, move on. That is, go out with friends and meet other people. That will help you in balancing your emotions better. (And don't talk about him all the time when you do go out.)

Secondly, you are lying to yourself. Here is what you wrote: "I want him to love me unconditionally the way i love him". Love him unconditionally ..., yet you state your condition: that he loves you back. So that is not really unconditionally then, is it? If that is the case, maybe it is not real love, either. Could that be true?

2006-11-10 19:54:19 · answer #5 · answered by Guide 1 · 0 0

Actions are louder than words.
I'm sorry he is treating ((you)) this way.
Don't allow it any more, you teach people how to treat you by what you are willing to put up with.
Move on, take power, and find someone who truly appreciates who you are.
Good Luck!

2006-11-10 19:48:42 · answer #6 · answered by Yuck 2 · 1 0

Leave him!!!!! This guy doesn't love you anymore and it's not worth staying with him. It's painful at first, but time will gradually wash it away.

2006-11-10 19:50:32 · answer #7 · answered by formystudies3 1 · 0 0

dump him....it is as clear as clear water that he don't love you! Do away with him... He may urn out abusive w/ if you go on holding on. Find someone better , w/c would treat you like a princess and with full respect. Would still wait for him tohit you... You see he is killing you emotionally. Wake up darling ! You deserve tohappy...

2006-11-10 19:58:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Sad , Its seems he is ignoring u. Its really a very hard time for u. U talk to hom directly , whats the problem with him . If he wants to break , u accept it and try to forget him. I know its not easy but u don't have any other option. Its better to break then to be ignored...

2006-11-10 19:55:17 · answer #9 · answered by @rrsu 4 · 0 0

You need to leave. I know that it's hard (past experience). But, you can do it, you need to be strong. He's not treating you the way you deserve to be treated. I wish you luck.

2006-11-10 19:48:36 · answer #10 · answered by Nicky 4 · 0 0

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