haha no, i dont really hate woman. its just i had this girl friend and we went otu for like 7 months. they were the best 7 months of my life. i know they were the best fo hers to. but a few weeks ago i noticed thigns werent doing so good with us. then she tells me we need to go on a break. so we do, for about 3 days. and she tells me she met this other guy. so i realized that he was the reason everything started to fall apart in the first place. she left me for him. THEN i find out that she did some things with thsi guy 1 day after we broke up. thast plain mean. we were only on break. but the thing is, she figured out he was an asshole and now shes crawling right back to me. i really do think she learned her lesson. and i understand it takes disaster to learn lessons sometimes. i am positve she leanred the grass is NOT greener on the other side. what she did hurt me, but i forgive her. my question is, should i take her back? because everyone makes mistakes. she wouldnt do this again.
2006-11-10 18:00:33 · 14 answers · asked by thecoolguy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah but another reason is, it was her ex, and i know she wouldnt do this with any other person. because ya see her ex really ****** with her heart, i knew she was still hing over abotu him when i started dating her 7 months ago, so now that she knows he is an asshoel, id otn believe she would do this 2 me again. cuz thats the only guy that would happen to, i am positive of that. and since he was blown out of the water everythign should be fine now
2006-11-10 18:29:34 · update #1
For your own sake and peace of mind, maybe it is a good idea to spend some time with her again, dinner, walks, movies, etc. and see how it feels. It takes a lot of time to really trust someone again, and it might not be possible to repair the damage. But you can hang out with her and see how YOU feel, comfortable, happy and relaxed, or maybe anxious and just not really into it. Take it slow. I suspect you will know deep down before too long whether or not you want to be with her or not.
2006-11-10 18:16:10 · answer #1 · answered by Elizabeth L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-21 21:37:50 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly love her, you should obviously take her back. However, make sure she learns a lesson. Try to find a clever way to show her what it feels like to be cheated on like that. BUT WHATEVER YOU DO, DO NOT DO THE SAME THING SHE DID.
2006-11-10 18:08:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First neglect her for few days
and make her realize what pain she had given to you and after that you can do what your heart says . this will make her to realize that man are not toys.
I am saying this to you because i had also suffered from this syndrome
and lastly i was succesful in getting her back fully
bye and take care
2006-11-10 18:13:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She will do it again. You should wait at least a month or even 2 before letting her come back to you. otherwise she will think it's ok and that you will always be there no matter what she does..
good luck
2006-11-10 18:11:09 · answer #5 · answered by Kismitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there was a guarantee that she would not do it to you again i would say give her another chance, but unfortunately i think you will find that she will do the same thing if the opportunity were to arise.
2006-11-10 18:14:28 · answer #6 · answered by MUSHMAN 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take things slowly. Even though you love her and believe her to be sincere, you must protect your own heart. Are you just saying to yourself that she wouldn't do it again because that is what you want to believe? Give her time to earn your trust.
2006-11-10 18:08:32 · answer #7 · answered by babydoll 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on she's just using you and when the next green pasture comes along she will just hope the fence.
2006-11-10 18:04:40 · answer #8 · answered by wisehahn 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell her she has to bring another girl or another guy over for a threesome for you to take her back.
If she refuses for more than two weeks - take her back.
If she does it - enjoy the great sex - and then dump her while she's still naked.
2006-11-10 18:09:15 · answer #9 · answered by brucebhumphrey 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
only time will tell if she does this again, but for now whether or not u accept her back into ur life is entirely up to u, it is not wrong to reject her nor is it wrong to accept her also...
2006-11-10 18:06:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋